I am a 33 year old woman , you'd think I would want to get married or at least have a long term relationship with someone but all I want is the honeymoon stage and then I want to move on because i get bored. I will end up being a very lonley old woman if I can't figure this out. Don't most women dream of having a husband or life partner? It just scares me!
2007-01-14 18:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you should try to have a long term relationship.. and you don't have to think that every guy you will go out with you will want to marry. try to do lots of things and have fun. or maybe you aren't ready for relationship at all.. Just try to find yourself.
2007-01-14 18:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you are looking in all of the wrong places and/or finding the wrong type of men. I am 19 years old and went through approx. 30 relationships before becoming engaged to my fiance. Normally when a relationship reaches the 3 month mark, I bail. When I met my boyfriend, I just knew he was the one. What qualities do you search for in a partner? Try to make note of these and continue the search. If you're committed to finding someone, he's out there. If not, that's okay too ... I know a lot of women your age who prefer the single life. There's nothing wrong with independence. Good luck.
2007-01-15 02:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's weird.....I feel the same way....(and I am 33 also) ...I have some females who are friends......and I got married and divorced in my early 20's....but now...I just don't have the desire to engage in the pursuit anymore.
Whatever you got...I must have it,too!! LOL!! Must be something in the water......
2007-01-15 02:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have a fear of monogamy.
2007-01-15 02:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by who cares 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋