My best friend that is a girl has been messing around with some guys and she feels really bad about it and wants really bad to be a good girl but she says she struggles beacuse she gets pressured into doing stuff. Well me and this same girl got in big trouble for messing around...a lot. When we got in trouble we had a big long thing on how its best to wait on stuff till we are married or whatever plus both are paretns are really religous and stuff. We she is still like my best friend and we talk about this stuff and she is saying how she does not want to do stuff with them but she does not know what to do beacuse they keep on pressuring her and i just want to go beat them up but its really not my place so what can i really do. She is also scared to tell her parents because they just started trusting her again after the thing with us.
2007-01-14 18:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has no will power of her own it sounds like and because she doesnt she could end up pregnant or with an STD including AIDS. you would be doing her a favor if you told her parents. She will probably hate you for it but shes very immature and cant deal with this herself.
2007-01-14 18:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I messed around a lot when I was an older teen. I am now in my thirties and still enjoy life. However, there comes a point in time when you have to stand up for yourself and be responsible for your actions. Messing around can be dangerous so please be careful. My advice is to only go as far as you are comfortable going. If a person is pressuring you to do something you really don't want to do then tell them "NO." I promise the world will not come to an end and you will respect yourself a lot more. Just because you sleep with someone once or even twice does not give them control over your body EVER.
2007-01-15 02:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her mind out of what those fools are pressuring her of. Go out, have some dinner or go to the movies or just have fun. Make her happy. You have to do everything you can to make her happy if you want your relationship to last.
2007-01-15 02:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Nevwe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't actually understand anything. A kind of stuff. Don't use this word. Name everything by it's name. Sorry for not helping.
2007-01-15 03:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Natalya Ch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to stop...then she should stop. im sure shes capable of saying no, or not placing herself into the situation in the first place. What you can do...is tell her or help her to stop putting her in situations where "stuff" happens.
2007-01-15 02:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by emily_8691 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really care about this girl- you should do something about it- any Q's- witeandnerdie@yahoo.com
2007-01-15 02:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by witeandnerdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she hanging around with them then? it is her choice, not theirs.
2007-01-15 02:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem
2007-01-15 02:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by deyaunna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋