Singles & Dating - 14 January 2007

two questions.

1. i met this guy online and decided to be steads [bf/gf]. we had this relationship for about 3/4 months before we decided to become friends again since he says that we dont really know each other enough. one day while i was surfing friendster, i saw his testimonials to a girl and they went like: i love you dear etc. when i saw those testis i cried. we did met each other in realife before during a meeting but we didnt talk to each other

2. is this love or like? i think about him almost everyday when we were together and even after we broke up. i still dreamt of him several times and when we met up [as stated above] i was too shy to talk to him. when i finally decided to talk to him, he had to go.

i've tried asking him about the girl but he pretends as if i didnt ask him anything or he ignores my msges. he might be cheating on tht girl cos one of the testis stated that 'its has been wonderful 2 yrs' now what does that state?

2007-01-14 18:17:58 · 2 answers · asked by problemos 1

If your girlfriend stopped calling you all of a sudden, for a whole month, and this is a long distance relationship, you only see her once in a while because your in the military, what would you think was going on with your girlfriend? You have been with this woman for almost 7 years and you cheated every once in a while, and lately she's been depressed.

2007-01-14 18:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by recordexec 2

I didn't just have a baby- I cheated on my boyfriend & the guy had a way bigger dick. I've been doin Kegels but I wanna do anything additional that'll help. Somebody told me that it gets tighter when you take a bath in hot water but help me, what else?! Thanx guys

2007-01-14 18:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by teeteewoods69 1

okay, im shy but i know i can ask out this girl. what i dont know is what to do if she says yes. like what to say or what to do from them on.in other words i what to make our relation continue. i have never had a girlfreind so help.

2007-01-14 18:16:49 · 4 answers · asked by subs r de best 4

2007-01-14 18:15:51 · 8 answers · asked by cnzuu 1

I like this boy and i think he likes me. We have been talking 4 a month now but 1 of my trustworthy friends told me that he has a girlfriend and that they have been together for 2 weeks but i just don't get it because in those two weeks he was calling me everyday and he even came over my house. He just left me a voicemail like 2 minutes ago. When i asked him about it he looked me dead in my eyes and said I don't have a girlfriend but friend she says she is certain that he goes with that girl! who should i believe? what should i do?

2007-01-14 18:15:25 · 11 answers · asked by Phapha 1

There's a girl that I've been friends with since we were very young, around 4 or 5, and I want to start dating her. She's totally cool and I have a great time hanging around with her, but it's always been with a group of friends.

We're good friends but only friends and I'd like to take the next step. I'm a little torn because I want to start dating her but I don't want us to hate each other, or feel really awkward, if things end up not working out well.

I'm just looking for some insight on what I should do. If anyone has been in a situation similar to this I'd appreciate hearing what you have to say. Thanks.

2007-01-14 18:14:52 · 2 answers · asked by RedBySexy 1

My girlfriend, she doesnt want to have sex coz she dont want to lose her virginity and asked me to wait until we are married.
I respect her decision, but the question is. is it really the only reason? or are there any other causes for she's acting like that? please share your experience for both of us.

2007-01-14 18:14:27 · 14 answers · asked by TIC TAC 1

my sister..(she is very pretty and smart and nice)...liked this guy (fat, ugly, and bad personality).........and he just blew her off like he was soooooooooo friggan cool.......tell me what you think

2007-01-14 18:13:41 · 19 answers · asked by tiffany b 2

me and my boyfriend broke 3 days ago and i think i already like another guy. i feel like it is really soon because i really liked my ex. i guess i am pushing away the hurt and sadness from my old relatonship... what do you think?

2007-01-14 18:12:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 18:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by niki 1

2007-01-14 18:11:48 · 24 answers · asked by niki 1

His name is patrick and we have known eachother for 2 years. I asked him out recently but he said he "wanted to be friends"


Help me?

2007-01-14 18:11:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a sister named Ash who is 4 years older than me. There's a problem. I am in love with Ashley's best friend Tom. My sis and Tom have been friends since highschool and that is also where I met him because we were all in the same school. As the years have gone by, I became a closer friend to Tom because Ashely let us all hang out and we became friends. I started to have a crush on him and after a few years it turned into love. I have never told him but he's in college now and is 'seeing a girl'. I have to stop him because I love him! I just know this is real love because I have never felt this way with anyone. I love him and he has no idea. I dream about him and I try so hard to stop myself but hes just a wonderful person & I cant. I have thought of every reason why me and him would never work and it has convinced me but I just can't stop myself from loving him! I mean it's been years! It's so hard to deal with it everyday. Do I tell him? Or do I go on secretly loving this man?

2007-01-14 18:10:33 · 16 answers · asked by brit 1

2007-01-14 18:10:19 · 2 answers · asked by amyhamad 1

It seems to me that every single woman that I ever want to date and maybe have a relationship with is already taken by some other bastard. I know its a little cynical but still, it seems impossible to find a girl that I like, cause they all have the qualities that other men want and I'm **** outta luck. And those that are still single are single for a reason. Any advice, I'm really messed up here.

2007-01-14 18:09:29 · 23 answers · asked by Michael M 3

i am a girl and im in high school and i've never had a bf. i'm overweight..and i get mixed messages on if i am pretty. usually when i look in the mirror..i see someone kind of pretty. i have big boobs but like..im a little embaressed becuase im not sure if the guys like that..or they dont becuase they figure its cause im overweight. people always say its your personality that counts..but we all know thats not true. i think i have a great personality..so y dont i have a bf? i can make people laugh and i'm also really nice. i'm just looking for some advice...thanks.

2007-01-14 18:07:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not askin this cus im a nerd or i cant get girls its just intresting

2007-01-14 18:07:50 · 3 answers · asked by Armen 3

He's a nice guy and he is my longest relationship. I just dont want our relationship to crumble like all my others did.

2007-01-14 18:07:41 · 8 answers · asked by deyaunna 2

I'm just wondering cause I don't have any perspective.

2007-01-14 18:07:40 · 9 answers · asked by dark jedi 1

2007-01-14 18:06:58 · 11 answers · asked by samanny 5

Except with a "B"?

As soon as things get rough, they abandon you, no matter how serious the relationship is. Girls say guys are pigs, yet the first guy who comes and says they have a crush on a girl, she gets so flattered and curious she dumps you to try things with the other guy and isn't even honest about it. Instead just says oh lets take a break. They meet guys online, the guy tells the boyfriend to back off or he'll ******* kill you, the online guy becomes obsessed with the girl, she finally cuts him out of her life and then adds him on myspace again telling him he knows he missed her. EVen after telling her boyfriend she feels like a fool for trusting the online guy. Then adds him on myspace a few week after breaks up with b/f? Moves in with a guy a few weeks after her breakup?

Why are girls such hurtful scumbags?

2007-01-14 18:06:56 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1

me and my two friends lisa & mark are 15. mark lisa & i have been friends for awhile & the three of us are really close. since october, mark & lisa have started to 'like-like' each other. i have absolutely no problem with that, since i was playing cupid between them when they were both too shy to talk to one another. we are all mutual friends & their attitudes and friendship towards me have not changed. the only problem is that lisas parents wont let her have an official boyfriend. (marks are fine with it) they really want to go out places by themselves, but lisa doesnt want to upset her parents. instead, the three of us have been going to movies, while i sit alone & let them cuddle together in different seats. i just got back from a movie night with them at marks house & we were all on a couch, with lisa & mark snuggling next to me. before i have been ok with this, but someone pointed out that i was getting jipped. what do you think? i dont want to mess up a friendship with them.

2007-01-14 18:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by sarasugar 3

I loved a girl in some 14 years before actually it is happening she is also showing a lot of love to me finally she is married somebody and she did not replied until now and not available. I feel until i am suffering from this i did not getting any answers from her. Now what can i do in my life several time i feel to suicide for myself without her this life is become bored how can i rectify. One thin is happened after seven years she send somebody to see me how i am and thereafter i dont know any thing

2007-01-14 18:05:26 · 3 answers · asked by MANJUNATH S 2

I have a girl i dateing. she says she loves me. i'm afraid that if i tell her how i really feel i will break her heart and i can't do that she is my best friend. i recently discovered the fact that i like guys and i don't want to be with her like that anymore. i just don't know how to tell her.she keeps push the whole sex thing and all it is doing is pulling us apart. normaly i wouldn't do this whole post message thing but after 9 months in a relationship and going on three months of trying to find a way to tell her i had to try something new. i've done everything but come out and say it. she is the most kind hearted person i know and i don't have the heart to say it. i have basicly been sacrificing my myself to keep her happy. my sister once said you know your in love when all you want to do is give that person everything. i don't feel that way. please if you have advise please give it.

2007-01-14 18:05:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Heres the thing, I'm in cali and ive been friends with a guy whos in Texas for a over a yr. We always keep in touch either via text or talk on the phone. We've always been ..friends on the surface u know...ive always thought of him as a friend..and nothing more. I didnt want to get into him cuz of the long distance relationship and cuz I know he doesnt want to commit. But now...ive discovered I have feelings for him. I'm really attracted to him. The truth is i dont wanna like anybody right now, so i dont know if i should keep talkin to him...or should i distance myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2007-01-14 18:04:03 · 12 answers · asked by *Cali Sweetie* 3

Ok I really like this girl, But I am to shy to ask her out. I am afraid that she will say no and tell everyone that I asked her out. And that I will be made fun of. Any suggestions? Please

2007-01-14 18:03:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey, i'm 19 and i'm having an issue with my boy. its not huge, and i haven't brought it up to him yet. he's 20...is this normal?

it seems like he's a little more interested in spending time with the guys than he is with spending time with me. i know he loves me, but it just seems like if he were given the choice, he'd rather be drinking with the guys than spending some cutesy time with me. makes me sad! but i think its normal....

any words of advice? anything i could do..besides get naked for him?

2007-01-14 18:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i look plenty old

2007-01-14 17:59:50 · 18 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 4

2007-01-14 17:59:24 · 22 answers · asked by D.... 4