i was iwth my ex boyfriend for almost 5years. i still have feelings for him.m trying to get over him but its so hard because i was with him so long its hard to feel comfortable with nother uy. like how i feel about my body n everthing else. i just turned 19 and im so confused on what to do. i want to be with my ex so bad n im afraid to move on but i dont know if he wants to b with me.i dont know just please help!!
2007-01-14 18:41:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When did things end with you and your ex boyfriend? It may be that you haven't given yourself enough time to fully get over him. First you need to realize you are better off without him because if you still think there is any chance you may get back with him or if you feel like you want to get back with him, it's pointless to try to move onto someone else. Give yourself a break, concentrate on yourself and your needs and let the rest unfold in time. Time heals all. You may think no one else can fill the space he left but trust me, someone will ... it just won't happen overnight. Good luck!
2007-01-14 18:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not going to feel completely comfortable with another guy until you're over your ex. Obviously, if you broke up, you did it for a reason.. and i can assure you that it's never good to get back together with an ex. Although it may seem difficult to imagine yourself with someone else, it's entirely possible.. and things will just feel right when you've found someone else who "gives you butterflies"
i promise.. i recently went through the same experience.. and now 4 months later i'm starting a new relationship and things are really really good...
getting comfortable with someone else just happens :) even if you doubt it..
<3
2007-01-15 02:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like myself Me and my firstl ove was together for 5yrs from 14yr to 19yrs too. But whens it time to let go it just that time and u will find someone you will love jsut as much also be as comfortable with. If your still hurt it may not seem like it rite now but its ture. U will also be happier. Take it from me I've done it.----wish you all the luck and hope you find what your looking for with your bf or someone new.
2007-01-15 02:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by ashlee s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ull get in with time
2007-01-15 02:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by , 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋