Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

2007-01-09 05:43:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, heres the deal. i met a gal and we both fell head-over heels for eachother, we'd been together for about two months when along comes my best friend and within 2 weeks or so manages to take her from me.

but there is nothing he can give her that i cant infact, if anything i can give her more than he can. she doesnt even seem to know why she prefers him.

So besides me wanting him dead (lol) i dont know what to do. i would bargain with the devil for her back and i know that she still has feelings for me (she said) but theyre just not as strong as they used to be.
help is appreciated massively on the subject of what the hell should i do now.
many thanks x

2007-01-09 05:43:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

angry when i text a friend of ours happy birthday..this guy i like and we have been seeing each other for about 3 mos and we both know this guy that happens to be a friend of his and i got introduced to him and i let him meet a friend of mine so we all just a group of friends well my friend got mad because i text our friend happy birthday...and i really donot understand why when first of all we are not a couple and secondly the guy is both our friend, and thirdly the guy use to date a friend of mine..so why did he get sooo upset to the point of literally using bad language at me..saying stuff like he donot text friends so why am i? what is really going on with him? he is confusing me because i asked him to be in a relationship with me and he said he wasnt ready so why all the animosity over me texting a friend of ours?

2007-01-09 05:43:36 · 2 answers · asked by momo6a4ever 1

I met this guy more than 3 months ago, & we get along fine. He told me that he's single and doesn't have a gilrfriend. But he revealed to me that there's this one girl who keeps on following him & is crazy about him.

Then yesterday, I got the shock of my life when I recieved an e-mail from this girl (whom my guy friend was talking about). In her letter, she was begging me to stay away from the guy because she feels that she is losing him ever since me and that guy met. She said that the guy talks about me all the time & is very fond of me. Now that made her real jealous. As far as I know, I am not stealing her "boy friend" away. I'm just keeping my composure.
Note: She just pinched my address from the guy, and obviously he doesn't know anything about this.

What do I do? Will I reply to her email? If so, what will I tell her?

And will I tell my guy friend about this? Do you think it's okey if I will forward to him this girl's letter?

Thank you!!

2007-01-09 05:42:42 · 17 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4

I'm in a bit of trouble. My girlfriend and I have been reunited after a break up for about 40 days now. The reason for our break up was because I wasn't moving fast enough in the relationship and she felt she need to move on. All has been fixed now and things are growing everyday and going well. We are talking about getting married and everything. I've know her for a little over 2 years now and I have one issue that I haven't been honest with her about. She's 33 now and will be 34 this year. She thinks I'm 43 now and I'm really 47. I've wanted to tell her the truth because I'm scared of losing her because of my dishonesty. What's the best way to tell her the truth?

2007-01-09 05:42:18 · 31 answers · asked by Northstarr 1

I am 34 and have been seeing a guy for a short period of time. I want to know how he feels about me but always chicken out when we are together. Can I ask him via email... or at least tell him how I feel about him? Too cheesy?

2007-01-09 05:42:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this is the story my boyfriend loves sex and so do I , the problem is he is in to the tie me up and spank me stuff i explained to him that I like to try new things but that would probably be something i wouldnt do , He said to me that it would mean that I would lose control is this true ? I had a bad past at the age of 12 I was violated badly and I am afraid of the situation i really want to try it am I just being crazy about it? I have talked to my b/f about it but he keeps bringing it up i mean he is obsessed with it I catch him all the time looking online at pic and stuff please help not sure what to do he knows i will pretty much try anything

2007-01-09 05:40:46 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

As gay as it sounds, I have to ask this question. I try my best to be respectful towards chicks. But I just can't seem to be respectful after getting a lay from them. After a lay I love to kick chicks out of my house and show them the road. I am worried about it coz eventually I will be trapped by one chick. How would I respect her after one lay? This is not funny situation but serious question. Is there any class out there I can take to be more respectful towards chick?

2007-01-09 05:40:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked about me being 25 and my boyfriend being 17.....is it really bad that that hes 17 but more of a man than some people older than me....and whats the difference if i was 30 and he was 22 or me being 38 and him 31....is it bad then?

2007-01-09 05:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by confusedldy 1

I am jasson paul, 24 years old, I am from colombia, I want to find a girl from usa or europe wants to know the true love and also to be my future love.

jassonpaul_82@hotmail.com

jassonpaul_82@yahoo.co.uk

add me and write me

it, s me jasson paul

thanks

2007-01-09 05:38:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who, besides male players, would want to pick from a bunch of beat-up lemons, marry them, spend shitloads of money on them, and then hope that they remain faithful? It just isn't worth it to me and it's hard to stay motivated when seemingly all the women out there are trash (and if they say they aren't, then they're usually liars as well). I think I grew up a few generations too late.

2007-01-09 05:38:01 · 18 answers · asked by gone 1

ok so i posted that my guy was cheating on me..i still have not broken it off with him yet...but he is coming over on thursday and i was thinking of writing a letter to make it seem like it came from my ex boyfriend and in the letter it will say that he misses me and wants me back and i will leave the letter where my boyfriend can see it...do you think if i do this it might wake my boyfriend up and make him see that i can definelty leave his a s s and that i can get a man...will it work

2007-01-09 05:35:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a crush on a girl in my school......I even proposed her once but never got a reply....then for 2 years I went out of contact completely due to preparations for my college entrance examinations.....though all the time I used to dream of growing up with her.....now that I entered college....I decided that I should better ask her now...but then a close friend of hers told me that she likes another boy.....so I asked her casually whether she'd made any boyfriend or not....she told me abt him....so I told her that now I'm late n that I love her n planned to propose her......but then I pulled back because I felt it waz d right thing 2 do......but now I feel strangely more engrossed abt her n cant get her outta my head even for 1 second....n I feel like asking her whether she ever felt the way I felt 4 her....so that I may try again.....I am utterly confused....Kindly help me out!

2007-01-09 05:35:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went on a business trip with these 2 stupid women who hate me at work, they totally ignored me the whole time and when we went to eat the last night there, they told me they thought i was not morally sound and i dress too revealing, are they jealous? i was wearing a low cut see thru blouse with a strapless pink bra and a black mini skirt and heels that night?

2007-01-09 05:33:50 · 40 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2

I know we love each other. Not sure if he's cheating....a month ago, I listened to his voicemail (yes I know that was wrong of me but it's hard for me to trust) and there was a msg from a girl "I want to hang out, etc. MAYBE I'LL KISS YOU AGAIN." I freaked, confronted him,he claims it's a girl at work who pecked him when they were having a drink after work (he works at a restaurant). I believed him, but I was upset that he didn't tell me about it. I told him to cut things off with her, don't be her friend, don't talk to her on the phone, etc.....he said he felt like I was being controlling, and he swore up and down he wasn't doing anything with her. He claims he just views her as a friend, but that she is into him. I spend every night and every weekend w/my boyfriend. BUT, last night I found out that he was at his friend's house, and she was there too. He tried 2 lie 2 me about it, but I knew she was there b/c I heard her voice in the bkground - what should I do?

2007-01-09 05:32:31 · 24 answers · asked by Ashley 2

We need to know where the best place for girls, beer and value for money is. Any ideas abroad would be perfect?

2007-01-09 05:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by xtra_wu 2

what catches your eye about a guy/girl?
what makes you think he/she is the one?
what do you look for in a guy/girl?

2007-01-09 05:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by laulyl86 1

This girl at work keeps staring at me when ever I'm not looking and then turns away when ever I notice her.
Sometimes she even continues staring even though I've noticed her.

2007-01-09 05:28:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to a guy online whom I see to have so much in common with. I am not on the same level with him ecomomically or career wise and he is a 14 years older than me but we seem to have similiar personalities. After reading his profile I see the similarities in what we want and our preferring small groups and not being party people. He says he is shy till he gets to know a person, and I am the same way. We chatted a few times and now he hasn't written. I checked and found that he has changed his profile to limit his search to his town (which is rather small and doesn't have much for singles, as he stated at the beginning of his profile). He is only 30 miles from me but not willing to date anyone who lives very far. The funny thing is that he has set his limits for meeting to some restaruants which happen to be only 5 blocks from where I live and work. I would be willing to walk the 5 blocks to meet him if it is an issue to drive the extra 5 blocks.

2007-01-09 05:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

I always hear this that girls often dislike a relationship where the boy doesn't challenge them or always agree with whatever she says.

Can I get an idea of what that means?

2007-01-09 05:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5

beat the living **** out of eachother .. and there both really into the whole fighting and being a badass kind of thing .. i tried telling them both it wasnt worth it but i'm still scared there going to fight .. my ex is 17 and my current is 18 .. which means my bf will go to jail if they fight .. and this entire thing is over me ... what do i do?!

2007-01-09 05:26:49 · 21 answers · asked by Brittany K 2

I know in some cases, your clock may have stopped altogether, but for those of you with a little time left (those under age 28), are you upping your game for the last lap around the track, or are you starting to really lose the tight body and any sense of hope?

If you're a grandmom, over 28, please feel free to lend your experience to the conversation if you'd like.

2007-01-09 05:25:15 · 6 answers · asked by rex_razor69 2

Im still obsessed over my ex. And we kinda broke up over mutual grounds. Now i really regret. But i guessed he took it much better then me. Guess he's already gotten over me already and is ready to be my friend. Just friends. Since we were the closest to each other in class, and we used to only have each other, he still calls me out to catch a flick or dine with him. And u know, somehow u just cant bring urself to say no. Its really hard and painful. And i dont bear to tell him that i cannot be his friend now because i'll miss him so bad. And im afraid that i might lose this one chance that we will stay in contact. Skule's gonna end in about a months time. Im really afraid of what the future's gonna bring. Please, are there any other way to get out of the rut without avoiding him?

2007-01-09 05:24:37 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi P 1

is 45 minutes to an hour too long?

2007-01-09 05:24:31 · 25 answers · asked by aclitluvr 1

2007-01-09 05:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by JOHN 1

I like this girl and I told her how I feel, but she said she see me as a friend, and would not go out on a date with me.

She told me that we can be friends and if I want to go out we could drive separate cars and meet at the movies or at parties but nothing would happen, since she would consider that not to be a date. Also she said that I could visit her house but reminded me that she just wants to be friends and nothing more, and if I want a girlfriend or want to date someone I should look around and remember that she is not into dating.

what should i do should i both going by her place (she lives with her parents) or should i use my time wisely and look around.

Thanks for your advice in advance : -)

2007-01-09 05:23:52 · 6 answers · asked by JM 1

Like, kinda like a blind date, but you had some coversations on the net in the past?

2007-01-09 05:22:01 · 16 answers · asked by U Luv It 3

I know what i need to do but i am scared i don't know why. My boyfriend hits me and everytime i leave him he tells me he's changed and i ALWAYS fall for it. I know he will never change but why do i believe him everytime? HELP!!!

2007-01-09 05:20:34 · 27 answers · asked by That girl 1

out of your life totally forget about them there are way too many memories i just want out

2007-01-09 05:20:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

In your opinon do you believe taking "time". . .serious time . . .months or even years. . . "apart". . . can sometimes be the only answer in some relationships?

Has this ever happened for anyone out there?
What was the result?

Time waits for no one man. . .but, true love waits forever?
You must set it free for it to return trully yours?

I need to learn to live without loving. . .I'm afriad this imparticular grown man will NEVER grow up enough to have a committed adult relationship. . you know one that shares responsibilites, passions, sacrificies, comprimises, and . . .well. . .life. . .

Unfortuantly, time does heal wounds. . .and normally the "pain" of an ended relationship succeeds with time. No amount of time has done that for me. . .and I beleive I will alwya slove this man,

Always.

What do you think?

Fory

2007-01-09 05:18:01 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3