people say i am a bad girl?

Question

i went on a business trip with these 2 stupid women who hate me at work, they totally ignored me the whole time and when we went to eat the last night there, they told me they thought i was not morally sound and i dress too revealing, are they jealous? i was wearing a low cut see thru blouse with a strapless pink bra and a black mini skirt and heels that night?

also i was getting a lot of attention from some men who were at the next table so i went over to talk to them and ended up going to drinks with one of them later. But that's my business, right?

Answer 1

Of course its your business. You dress for the situation. More modestly for a business situation and hot for a night out.

Answer 2

Are we to assume you are hot? These women may have been jealous or they may have been embarrassed. Let's face it, there are people who dress like you that can pull it off and those that just make themselves look stupid. However, it definitely doesn't sound appropriate for a work function. Out of respect for yourself, your colleagues and your employer you should dress more appropriately for a business function. Attractive people can look good in anything. After all, you represent your company while you are working.

After dinner, change your clothes and go out on your own. If you dress like that and look good, chances are you'll have no problem meeting someone at a bar. What you do then is completely up to you and is not your co-workers' business.

People who think they aren't true to themselves by doing that are ridiculous. There's a proper time and place for everything and knowing when it's appropriate is the key... Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

first of all there are no stupid people in this world. They ignored you because you do not fit in with their type of people. number two this was a business trip what the bleep are your wearing see through cloths for. Dress accordingly to the situation. if you are a call girl then i can see why you dressed like that. Are they jealous not to likely more then likely they were embarrassed by you and did not want to be associated with someone who looks sleazy. try dressing appropriately, and youll probably get a better response from your co workers.A pink bra under black that is see through come on at least you could of worn a black bra.

Answer 4

It doesn't sound like a business outfit. I have to agree with them. You can dress less revealing and still look hot. As a matter of fact I know many guys find women who dress in suits sooooo attractive. They find it hot and sexy. Think about that the next time you choose what you will wear. I do not mean to insult you but it does sound way too revealing. Jealousy could play a role in it as well but they are probably disgusted more. I know I used to work with someone who dressed that way. Most guys loved it yes, others found it wrong and appalling. Women just found it rude and inconsiderate. Most thought she had no morals what-so-ever. Be careful of how you allow others to label you. It will follow you forever.

Answer 5

OK, see though shirts need wife beaters through them.Mini skirts, If you are over 30 yrs, minis don't look good on you. You need to be wearing a skirt at your knee or 1/2 above.
If you are heavy, skin tight is wrong! Skin tight is wrong even if you are a sz 1.
Try some button up shirt with a collar or a V, boops shouldn't be showing.
*You are probably pretty but you probably need a new dress code. For tips watch what not to wear.
Also, you're hitting on men on a business trip and dressing like that. You not helping yourself. I hope this is a joke. Why are you asking if you don't care!

Answer 6

There is appropriate and non--appropriate ways to dress with coworkers & at work. But as you said, it's your life and what you do is your business. Everyone is judgemental in some way. Do your own thing and be polite to them at work but don't let their opinons get to you. You're a grown woman, if they don't like you....too bad for them.

That outfit does sound kind of 1990-ish though.
Try some jeans and a cute top & heels. Remember, it's sexier to make the guys wonder whats goin on underneath. You see how the dumb guys on here tried to make you feel like a slut. If you email me, I can give ya some stores to go to. Keep Ur Head Up

Answer 7

You may be projecting a bad girl image. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are a bad girl, but that is their perception through your image.
Since you were on a business trip, & therefore working at your job, then I might suggest that you could excersize better judgement by wearing clothing that is more appropriate for business.
Wear what you like when you are on your own clock, & are mixing with your own crowd, but your co-workers may be doing you a favour by telling you about your image, & no I don't think they are jealous, more like uncomfortable to be seen with you.
If they think that way, then your boss is probably thinking the same thing.
If you have any ambitions at your workplace you might want to take a cue from the "2 stupid women", I think they may have a point.
Cheers!

Answer 8

I don't know about the morally sound question, as your clothes don't really reflect that, but I would say that that comment was inappropriate. However, your attire was highly inappropriate. Wear what you want and do what you want on your own time, but if you're on a business trip and out to dinner with coworkers, you should dress and act accordingly.

Answer 9

That is probably not the kind of clothes you should be wearing to work, but most likely they are jealous. If you are comfortable to wear clothes like than good for you. I think though that if you want to make friends at work you should dress a little more professional. They probably think that you are using your body to get noticed instead of your brains. Women dont like other women that use their body instead of brains when they are using their brains. Use your brains and keep the body under check until you are not at work. A true woman is comfortable in both brains and body.

Answer 10

they might be just jealous ... but does a low cut see through blouse with a strapless pink bra and a black mini skirt is appropriate for business purposes ? i don't think so ... co-workers are not your friend, they're competition. so be careful about what to say and what to wear in front of them, try to wear something less revealing. wearing revealing clothes give ur co-workers impression of u trying to seduce your boss or other male co-worker.

Answer 11

I don't know if there jealous but not morally sound because the way you dress whatever! What did you say?
Anyway every one has his or her own style and if that's yours' then fine what's there problem.I like dressing sexy but that don't make me morally unsound. Just know where and when to wear what. If there was not a dress code then what you wore should have been fine.
If that's all then i don't see why you are a bad girl.
You said that they hate you so i guess whatever you wore would be a problem.

If you have it flaunt it girlfriend!
let them talk.