Im still obsessed over my ex. And we kinda broke up over mutual grounds. Now i really regret. But i guessed he took it much better then me. Guess he's already gotten over me already and is ready to be my friend. Just friends. Since we were the closest to each other in class, and we used to only have each other, he still calls me out to catch a flick or dine with him. And u know, somehow u just cant bring urself to say no. Its really hard and painful. And i dont bear to tell him that i cannot be his friend now because i'll miss him so bad. And im afraid that i might lose this one chance that we will stay in contact. Skule's gonna end in about a months time. Im really afraid of what the future's gonna bring. Please, are there any other way to get out of the rut without avoiding him?
2007-01-09 05:24:37 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Skule means school in case u guys dont know. its just my way of spelling.
2007-01-09 05:31:21 · update #1
What the hell is a 'skule'? Do you mean 'school'?
2007-01-09 05:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont need to avoid him but you do need to talk to him, tell him you are not ready for a friendship that you still need time to forget him and maybe later everything will be ok but not right now its too painful for you. I been there done that and I was hoping that he would miss me too so I continue to be his friend eventually he started dating another person and I was still there as a "friend" and still had feelings for him. So what you need to do its move on b4 you can start being friends with him.
2007-01-09 13:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Dont see a problem, because you obviosly don't go to skule any way or you would know it is spelled school? Retard
2007-01-09 13:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by superjohnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, First of all, If you are going to class....Learn to spell SCHOOL.. Second of all... Just tell him, that you miss being with him.. If hes still calling you for movies, and to go out to eat, then chances are, he still wants you around..So, tell him.. Get a backbone.. and tell him!
2007-01-09 13:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by dana_king01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are saying everyone is telling you to avoid but you cant cuz you go to the same school...maybe it also has to do with the fact that you siad "just friends" and now are going out with him... see this video...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZR7g9p9o-0
that is what is really going on...admit it..the way to "get out of it" is admit he doesnt like you like you siad and have enough respect for yourself to find someone who does. Stop acting like you need him, when you know you dont.
2007-01-09 13:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by kt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust me on this one okay? Ive been there and done that twice and each time i ended up getting heart broken if i were you i would stay away from him and when being friends hurts you know you should stay away. i know it sucks but you dont wanna keep getting hurt again.
2007-01-09 13:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by menos_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you have to worry about "skule" beause its very obvious to me & the rest of the readers that you dont go to SCHOOL
2007-01-09 13:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suspect that you will always have feelings for him and they will be stronger so long as you two are "friends" and so long as you do not have a new boyfriend.
Love is tough...
2007-01-09 13:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋