is 45 minutes to an hour too long?
2007-01-09 05:24:31 · 25 answers · asked by aclitluvr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey I wouldn't be complaining and would be pleased if it took a lot longer than that.
2007-01-09 05:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on whats going on, is there forepaly invovled, oral sex, then I would say 45 min is fine, but if it is just striaght intercourse then 45 min to 1 hour is way too long. Most people can get the job done in 15-20 mins, believe me everyone I asked and even the books I have read say that 15-20 min is the average for straight intercourse. But then again if you have sex for 20 min take a 5 min break of just kissing or whatever then get another erection and start all over again that is more than fine that is encouraged!!
2007-01-09 13:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by trinigal33167 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if you're saying 45 minutes to an hour of JUST straight intercourse, I'd say it's a bit too long. After a while that can get a little old. If it's that long from foreplay to finish I'd say that's about average though. On a worknight an hour is a luxury!!
2007-01-09 13:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by sommerluvn77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
45 min would be too long for me. I know everyone boasts about lasting a long time but honestly I dont see why. I wouldnt want to go for more than 20-30 minutes. My husband usually goes about 15-20 min and thats perfect for both of us. Once your GF had her orgasm she is probably annoyed that it takes you so long and possibly wonders if you arent turned on or questions why it would take so long for you..
2007-01-09 13:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a few things such as age, how randy you are and stress, 45 Min's does seem a long time if your young and healthy and it probably seems even longer to your gf who's waiting, try giving her an orgasm first this might quell her appetite a little and make her not rush you back for more
2007-01-09 13:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by laughinggiraffe2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not that its in actuallity taking too long its prolly that if its the same position for too long that her body will start to hurt. i was in the same situation when it would be me on my back it would take an hour or longer and it wasnt that i wasnt interested in the sex or that i wasnt turned on enough cause i was it was just that the same position for too long made my legs cramp up or my neck hurt, i would get to hot and too tired. just make sure to use many positions if your planning on having a long session and make sure the work doesnt become all on her to get you off. also you could try new things to spice it up that might help you get off a little quicker. ie the spooning position, anal (only if you both are into it), doggy style, and try early in the morning guys tend to harder and have a stronger urge to get off early in the morning.
2007-01-09 13:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by tasha1b4u2b_beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because those 45 minutes aren't pleasing her? Try something she likes so she won't question you in why you take so long.
2007-01-09 13:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person has different preferences. If she doesn't like it that long then try to compromise by having some shorter sessions. The point is for both people to enjoy themselves, right?
2007-01-09 13:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different things in the bedroom. Foreplay is a must! Make sure she is fully aroused before you have sex, she will last longer.
2007-01-09 13:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by BudLightRocks56954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
45 minutes is average...she may not be fully aroused that's why she's rushing you or she already had an orgasm and was ready for you to get up. ....
45 mins...I'll be in hog heaven. LOL!!!
2007-01-09 13:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋