As gay as it sounds, I have to ask this question. I try my best to be respectful towards chicks. But I just can't seem to be respectful after getting a lay from them. After a lay I love to kick chicks out of my house and show them the road. I am worried about it coz eventually I will be trapped by one chick. How would I respect her after one lay? This is not funny situation but serious question. Is there any class out there I can take to be more respectful towards chick?
2007-01-09 05:40:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love you man....
2007-01-09 05:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm not sure about a class you can take - but let me offer you some advice. I'm not sure how quickly you are trying to "lay" these chicks you date. Maybe you should try to really get to know them before this. Doing so will help you to see them as real people and not just an ends to the means you want. Perhaps it will also help to understand that sex represents different things to men and women. For most men (not all) sex (before coming to know a woman) is mostly a great physical thing. For a woman, it is an expression of love. When you "lay" a woman quickly and then toss her out, you can really damage to her emotionally. If you want to respect a woman, think about what she might be feeling, what she expects from the relationship (or evening) and most importantly, how you would feel if someone disprected your mother, sister or daughter in the way you are treating these women. Think about women you truly respect - how do you feel about men who use them in that way and toss them? Guess what - when you behave that way - that's who you are. Respect and love are not just something you feel. They are what you do, the way you behave and treat others. I hope you can get beyond where you are and find something wonderful in life.
2007-01-09 05:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, try to stop calling them "chicks", it's pathetic.
Second of all, you must learn to respect yourself before you can have a mature relationship with others. Could be that you are still in a playing around stage, so make sure you use protection at all times (bring your own condoms. do not trust anyone).
Try to get to know a lady well, try and meet quality women.
A lady of quality and intelligence can hopefully guide you towards enlightenment. Also. Read some good books, and no. A fishing manual and a car catalogue does not count as appropriate reading.
Good luck. It might be a long road for you.
2007-01-09 05:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're a grown man and you haven't learned how be respectful towards a woman??? I'm surprised any self respecting woman would even give you the time of the day the way you come across! Look at this way, do you treat your mother and/ or sister with respect, if so how would you feel if you saw another man or person in general disrespected her in the same manner you disrespect the women you date? Best thing for you to do is treat others with the same respect as you yourself would like to be treated with!
2007-01-09 06:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before respecting a person you should learn to respect yourself- you can't give others what you lack of.
Remember some day you will have a daughter and there will be someone just like you out there that will hurt her heart badly- so think about that- think also ( if you have a sister) that this could happen to her.
Sorry - I would start working on myself if I were you before going out again with a lady.
2007-01-09 05:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how it works.
One day you're going to really fall in love with a woman or young lady not a chick.
And then one day you're going to find out a guy like me is kicking her out of my bed after I'm done with her and then the karma will all make sense and you'll stop treating chicks disrespectfully ;-)
2007-01-09 05:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
._. Ugh. Sex. You know why you can't repsect them after you "have a lay with them"? Because you know they aren't saving themselves for just one person. The reason you have sex with women in the first place isn't to appreciate or respect them, it's to make yourself feel good. You can't really deny that. And the reason you can't respect them once you've had sex with them, is because man, the game's over for you. You won. You beat the last boss. Toss that broad aside and find a new target right? Why respect someone you're bored of, you don't have to suck up to them any more. Maybe you should look at why you sleep with them in the first place. Pray about it too. Ask for strength and understanding. I hope you can reach some resolution.
2007-01-09 05:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you can stop calling females, women, or girls, chicks. That word is not respectable. You're saying after one lay you throw them out? That has to stop. Most importantly stop sleeping around, before you have AIDS
2007-01-09 05:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by miss info 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no there isnt a class you can take, but why is it neccessary for you to sleep with them. Try getting to know them more before sleeping with them cuz chances are these girls you are sleeping with you dont even really like. When you find a girl you like you probably wont have that problem any longer. Try it.
2007-01-09 05:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Aquafina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh.. Like a quicke Dyahhh ;)..
Girls hateeee bein used for a one off..
Shw her respect by.. treatin her like u wud wanna be treated, charm her, make her feel special....
Every girl loves a boy whos charmin and kind, Mite mke the love life a lil bettah aswel =D.. Yeahh, get bak 2 me..
xxx
2007-01-09 05:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by Cнєℓℓšιι Bαвιι--0χ 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well theres always a class for manners respect & overall how to repect and treat and act right called proper edicate you can find clases all around
2007-01-09 05:45:20 · answer #11 · answered by starrynights1020@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋