ok so i posted that my guy was cheating on me..i still have not broken it off with him yet...but he is coming over on thursday and i was thinking of writing a letter to make it seem like it came from my ex boyfriend and in the letter it will say that he misses me and wants me back and i will leave the letter where my boyfriend can see it...do you think if i do this it might wake my boyfriend up and make him see that i can definelty leave his a s s and that i can get a man...will it work
2007-01-09 05:35:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do i make him feel guilty
2007-01-09 05:53:59 · update #1
he told me that this year is new year and that he really dont want to mess what we have up and that he knows he have a good thing.
2007-01-09 06:03:24 · update #2
Sounds like a pretty immature way to communicate to this old fella. I would suggest that you just sit down and have an honest conversation with this current boyfriend and tell him how you are feeling and find out where his head is at in regards to your relationship.
2007-01-09 05:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is end things with the guy who's cheating on you if the proof is there. If he isn't and you still wanna break up with him, break up with him for the actual reason. If he is, see if he's willing to dump the new girl for you. If he wants the new person and doesn't want you back, happy man hunting. There's nothing worse than having an ex call you up while you're getting to know "the new guy". Get things taken care of the ex BEFORE you enter any other relationship. DONT let the new guy see anything that's between the ex of yours and yourself. Cause all that is between you and your ex. You can tell him about the letter but tell him you're gonna take care of the situation once and for all. Let new guy see the letter if old guy doesn't get the message from your actions first.
2007-01-09 13:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by padiwan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U suck!
No lies, come on! Imagine if he found out you forged it. How desperate would that make you seem?
Plus, he might not be that nosy. If you leave it out, 1, he might not see it, and 2, he might think it's suspicious that you left it out in the open like that, and get justifiably mad.
Why do you need to hop from one man to another? You can hold your head up yourself, you know, and that's a lot more intimidating than a ghost ex-boyfriend calling.
If you're sure he was cheating, confront him and dump him. You can't make him loyal if he's a disloyal creep; he'll just do it again.
2007-01-09 13:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but I think it is not the best way. Raise or keep your level of honesty at a higher level than his. Face to face, you can read him the riot act at all you like. Personally, I don't think you want him back nor can anything you say really change him. He may be one of those "boys" who don't get that what they did in your book crosses the line and is wrong.
2007-01-09 13:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. If it backfires on you (which it most likely will) you will be in a tougher situation that you will make a lot worse. Plus it would NOT make you an honest good friend trying and deceive and make someone jealous Lies catch up to people.
2007-01-09 13:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt suggest that, the effect you are looking for will not work out, he will just get all pissed with you, and for some reason you would loose the upper hand, i suggest that you just break it off with him, once a cheater always a cheater. You cant change someone, they are how they are.
2007-01-09 13:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you break up with him and find a guy that wont cheat on you. Why stick around? once a cheater always a cheater
2007-01-09 13:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by kathernva 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bad idea, why play games, just talk to him, if it is ment to be it will work, if not, move on. You shouldn't have to work so hard and play all the games, just be honest.
2007-01-09 13:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do this.....this makes him call YOU a cheater.... u need to make him feel guilty
2007-01-09 13:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by PEARL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is a better idea.......when he comes over on thursday......... DUMP HIM!!!
2007-01-09 13:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by NeonLoveChicken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋