I like this girl and told her how I feel and asked her if she would date me?

Question

I like this girl and I told her how I feel, but she said she see me as a friend, and would not go out on a date with me.

She told me that we can be friends and if I want to go out we could drive separate cars and meet at the movies or at parties but nothing would happen, since she would consider that not to be a date. Also she said that I could visit her house but reminded me that she just wants to be friends and nothing more, and if I want a girlfriend or want to date someone I should look around and remember that she is not into dating.

what should i do should i both going by her place (she lives with her parents) or should i use my time wisely and look around.

Thanks for your advice in advance : -)

Answer 1

if you want more from her and she doesnt, then find one who is interested in being your gf. she doesnt want you.

Answer 2

you should first of all always call to ask if coming over at that time isn't going to be an inconvenience, You should always have something to share, talk about, listen to or watch. Like a movie a book a magtazine a new C D what ever don't be a "lumpy" always go to see her at her house and when she has to do chores help her get off your **** and be a gentleman at all costs to your ego. If you have what it takes she will come around and see the value you bring to her life and realize she needs you to be happy .... or not.

Answer 3

you really like her but shes not interested in you that way....i would just remain friends ...i mean why lose her completely and screw up the beginning of what could be a beautiful friendship....look to date other people sometimes people arent interested in others....thats just life ....it sucks i know

Answer 4

I would take her advice she just wants to be friends if you are looking for something serious look elsewhere.

Answer 5

there are allot of women in the world, why waste your time on a woman that clearly doesn't want to date :) :) :)

Answer 6

not sure