Is it true that girls like to be challenged?

Question

I always hear this that girls often dislike a relationship where the boy doesn't challenge them or always agree with whatever she says.

Can I get an idea of what that means?

Answer 1

This is so true. Girls want a guy who is nice but not too nice. We like the challenge, we like to wait for the phone call, think" does he like me or not" be more interesting. If you just give it all at once there is no challenge and girls usually dont like that.

Answer 2

Some people like a challenge, some like it all easy and no work.

I think "challenge" with regard to a relationship may depend on who is saying it...someone who always agrees has nothing to do with challenge, but would quickly become boring.

Answer 3

If you mean being challenged mentally, that's ok. I would hate it if my husband agreed with everything I said; I don't know everything, and neither does he. It keeps the relationship interesting if each has a different opinion on a topic. We don't always agree.

If you are involved with a girl who wants you to agree with everything she says, she is not the girl for you. You should be with a girl who has her own mind, and who isn't afraid to express it. Sometimes you will come to an agreement on a topic, and sometimes you won't; and that's ok. Good luck.

Answer 4

Girls want a guy that is a MAN, not some sissy boy that constantly says "Are you ok?"
They want a guy thats a little cocky, confident, funny, and knows how to please a woman. Not every woman wants this but its what most guys should try to do to attract a mate. Looking good helps too, but most of all its the confidence that girls notice right away, after that its up to the guy to make it work. When there obvious attraction its all inconsequential.

Answer 5

its all about confidence.
people in general are attracted towards the alpha/dominant figure because it shows confidence. a guy who does whatever his gf wants and gets walked on all over like a doormat is unattractive because he's insecure and has no confidence. its not about being an asshole/being mean, but more about having the balls to be honest/sensitive when the time is right and taking control of situations w/ authority.

Answer 6

Honesty is the best answer. But that doesn't mean to be blunt and forget that she has feelings. Yes, most girls like a challenge but do it naturally. That doesn't mean be difficult...silly......just tastful, ya know?? Don't give to much to soon.

Answer 7

for me, I need someone with intelligence and obviously no one ever agrees with everything I have to say, we are all different. There is a difference between an educated discussion, a difference of opinion on matters between couples then someone who instigates fights and arguments, just because he wants to "challenge" me (To a duel?).
Most importantly, long term, you must find a partner that sees eye to eye with you on fundamental subjects and is compatible with your life's goals and future plans, and works well with you, physically, mentally and spiritually. It's all about balance.

Answer 8

It is true that we women like to be challenged. It makes the relationship more exciting and builds a closer bond with our boyfriend/

Answer 9

Yes, don't be a 'yes, dear' to her UNTIL you marry her. But then, she'll still get hot and bothered about that, so there really is no hope to pleasing a girl. Just be yourself.

Answer 10

lol hopefully youre jk. i dont like challenge, actually it makes me angry. however i dont like it if my bf always agrees with me even if he doesnt. there has to be a bilance.