Singles & Dating - 30 December 2006

My boyfriend and I just got back together after breaking up for 6 months. We were fighting constantly over his problems with intimacy. Since we got back together, things have been completely different. He is very loving and affectionate. Keeping the history in mind, I am really upset by a couple things.
First, I wrote him this really personal and thoughtful card with his Christmas presents. He read the card and I know he was touched by it, but then he threw it away. He lied about it (claims he didn't want to upset me) but finally admitted that it tore in his pocket and he threw it away. He told me it was the words that matter, that he read them and loved them, and apologized for lying and hurting my feelings.
Second, he told me he hadn't slept or hooked up with anyone else when we were broken up. Later, he tells me he made out with some chick on the dance floor one night. I don't care that he kissed some girl but feel like he lied to me.
Is it ridiculous I am upset over these things

2006-12-30 10:23:11 · 11 answers · asked by AbbyM 1

2006-12-30 10:22:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

and so far have only said goodmorning to each other,how can i tell if she is sleeping with someone else behind my back,should i dump her?

2006-12-30 10:18:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

don't want to hear i can't.
He dumped me and same day he went to that jessica. he said he just did not like me anymore.he hasn't even seen her and he loves her and she hasn't seen him and she loves him too. But i love him and i introduced them to each other. and i told him about a guy name greg that doesn't even exsist. but i don't want to be the one that isn't loved. and it hurts me because he thinks we are cool and i was talking to jessica and him over the phone and he told her he loves her with me ON THE PHONE!!!!!! She even told me that he makes her say that she loves him and she doesn't say i love you.
How can i reslove this issuse my heart is one a string and i don't think it can hold on much longer it hurts the nites i cry myself to sleep. What can i do. He told me he loved me, what happened ??
my heart is really on a string i need a helping hand plz i.........i love him. i act like i don't care and that things are cool but they aren't.
i feel like i just want to die now.

2006-12-30 10:17:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz i mean if he didnt like me he wouldnt have called me on his vacation..??am i right?

2006-12-30 10:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1

does it mean he likes u?
does it mean hes checking u out?
does it mean hes saying whats up?
those r the 3 things that each one of my friends have told me that it meant...does it mean sumthing different??

2006-12-30 10:15:56 · 8 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1

i'm in school and work too.

2006-12-30 10:15:17 · 29 answers · asked by *Baby Girl* 1

stripped naked and started licking her lips whilst staring straight at me,how can i tell if she fancies me or not?

2006-12-30 10:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is one moment, that I can't stop thinking about. One magical, fantastic moment, where the whole world is going to be forgotten. And it isn't too far away.

Is there one, special moment, one incredible thing, that you are looking forward to in 2007?

2006-12-30 10:13:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i were having problems. one night i went out with a couple of friends, including my best friend and a guy that she has a crush on. we end up going to a movie, and the guy she likes sits next to me. the whole night we talk, but we never kiss. we end up coming back to the house of my best friend after the movie, and i fall asleep next to the guy she likes. yes, we did cudle but we never kissed and it was nothing sexual. i woke up in the morning to my best friend telling him she's jealous because she liked him. awkward.... a few days go by and my boyfriend and i break up and she never calls to see if i am ok. she says i deeply hurt her. after that happened, the guy that she likes and i end up talking more and more on the phone and now while i'm not dating him, he told me he did not like her and we have kissed. now my best friend and i have a very broken relationship and- what's even better- she now hangs out with my ex and talks to me less and less. how do i fix this??

2006-12-30 10:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by la reina 2

Im part black and I started dating like when i was 13 but i want to know how come so many black girls like dont really date guys that much. Like alot of my black friends they never go out with guys?

2006-12-30 10:12:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-30 10:11:46 · 24 answers · asked by scary11965 2

exboyfriend keeps instant messaging me. using my money! he wont stop. what do i do???

2006-12-30 10:11:43 · 18 answers · asked by Erin B 1

I THINK THAT BLACK GIRLS GIVE BETTER BJs THAN WHITE GIRLS.
THIS IS FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. I THINK IS BECAUSE OF THE SOFT LUSCIOUS LIPS! BECAUSE WHITE GIRLS WHO HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH THOSE KIND OF LIPS ARE ALSO GOOD.

DO BLACK GIRLS REALLY GIVE BETTER BJs THAN WHITE GIRLS?

2006-12-30 10:10:05 · 4 answers · asked by Materrazi d F.AGG0T 1

I have to work on New Years eve, But I should be able to make it to my girl friends before midnight, she has been going through alot lately, and I want to do something special for her....any ideas?

2006-12-30 10:09:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-30 10:08:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like this girl and might be hanging out with her tonight. In the past few days she told me she had a dream about me and said she was gunna show me next time we hung out.So i hung out with her and i asked her what it was a few times but she refused to tell me. So i asked her when i was leaving she said come back its a secret so i bent over to hear it and she kissed me on the cheek. As i was leaving she said btw, it wasnt on the cheek. (a.k.a it was a hookup which she said she dreamed about then came back to her in a power nap). So the past two days ive called like i do every night and she said she would call me back cuz 1st night she was at a sleepover and had to do something and 2nd night she was coming back from the city. Well she never called back, both nights, i put up a semi frustrated away message and she asked if it was her i was mad at.I said no, which was kinda a lie. I might be hanging out with hertonight and im suppose to tell her what i was mad at.What should i do?

2006-12-30 10:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by brillohead 2

So i am trying to get back together with my girlfriend who broke up with me after I wrote her a heart felt poem, so I wrote her another poem.

Look at the sun
Its in the sky
Look at the moon
Its time for pie
I work at autozone
Whats up with the rise in oil change prices?
Do you love me
because you better
You better, better, better, better, DId I say better
So whats wrong with a politcal system
breath mints
Happy new years
you old hag
love ya

2006-12-30 10:06:57 · 7 answers · asked by JuliusRomans 3

statistically shouldnt I have brown? My hair is blackish and my skin is tan...So whats w/ the green eyes? Sorry I just ALWAYS wondered this.

2006-12-30 10:05:29 · 14 answers · asked by Daziela R 1

my ex-gf was an a very complicated person ...and has a king of thinking that is completely different from what I am used to...her and I were really differents in terms of thinking, especially in terms of beliefs and even sometimes political views ...what is good for her, is what I was convinced was bad for me, and what is bad for her is what is good me ..it makes me suffer a lot, because I couldn't connect to her because of that, as if we were never on the same wave lenght, ...I spent months trying to understand her, and even trying to study her philosophy of thinking to understand why she is thinking that way, and I had to readapt myself everything ...I really lover her, but we were constantly arguing on issues, as she was the total opposite to me ... I have never come to understand her ,..It's only after I got out of the relationship, and after having a few research for months, that I finally understand her ..Have you ever experienced that with someone ?

2006-12-30 10:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by bobby s 1

I have been out on a few dates with a younger woman.She is 23yrs old I just turned 39 on 12/19. everything seemed to going well.It feels like she is backing off. What to do?SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!

2006-12-30 10:04:54 · 11 answers · asked by fastryde1 2

we connect so well, we talk for hours then sleep together fully clothed. We feel very comfortable with one another but both of us realise that getting involved would ruin this relationship - we want different things. Is it time to direct him to the sofa bed?

2006-12-30 10:04:00 · 14 answers · asked by Moglai 3

The girl I like is young at heart, shallow so to say. She judges guys by their looks only, and more then that, she doesn't even like ATTRACTIVE guys, but she like's JOCKS from "try" to be hot.

Do you think she might change as she ages? She's 14 now and behaves like at 12 year old.

What do you tell such a girl that only judges by people's looks, and evenso, doesn't see hot guys as "her type of hot"

2006-12-30 10:01:32 · 24 answers · asked by rockability 1

ok, i went out with this girl i really like, a couple of times. Everything was going great, but then, she stopped calling me. When i asked her why, she told me that she isnt ready for a relationship, even tho she said "i really really like you" and that she loves spending time with me. She then said that she wants us to be friends. Should i give up right now or chase it? Is she letting me down gently by saying this?

2006-12-30 10:00:44 · 18 answers · asked by jon t 1

2006-12-30 10:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by non active 2

I know this 14 year old girl and I love her, but she thinks that I'm not cute and she doesn't like me at all.

I know from my experience how I started liking people that I hate before.

Do you think it's possible that in a couple of years she might like me?

2006-12-30 09:58:03 · 10 answers · asked by rockability 1

2006-12-30 09:57:02 · 17 answers · asked by ESQUID 1

I have heard of people that are extremly shy and do not hold conversations well. I am not sure if they are unsure of what they want or just don't know how to express their feelings, how woulld you handle a person like this? I think I may have met a man like this because I always seem to be guessing what he is thinking. I also had a friend that had the same problem and the communication was terrible. He said it eventually got on his nerves and he ended that relationship, I guess I don't want to do that because the guy seems very nice if he would just talk. He came to me and said he felt a connection but he has been making me do all the guess work ever sense. I am not a mind reader. Could someone give any advice?

2006-12-30 09:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by java348 2

Is it possible that a 14 year old girl does not really know what love is yet and does not want to have sex or a boyfriend?

2006-12-30 09:56:15 · 38 answers · asked by rockability 1

I have this friend that has a celebrity for a girlfriend. She is in the tabloids about once a month. Just yesterday, she called me up and asked me to steal a car for her. I folded in to celebrity pressure and said yes. Later, she gave my friend (her boyfriend) the car as a present. Now, she wants me to steal two pairs of skies and a mountain. Now I believe stealing is wrong, but I want to impress her and steal her from my friend. How can I do this before I get caught?

2006-12-30 09:55:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous