my boyfriend and i were having problems. one night i went out with a couple of friends, including my best friend and a guy that she has a crush on. we end up going to a movie, and the guy she likes sits next to me. the whole night we talk, but we never kiss. we end up coming back to the house of my best friend after the movie, and i fall asleep next to the guy she likes. yes, we did cudle but we never kissed and it was nothing sexual. i woke up in the morning to my best friend telling him she's jealous because she liked him. awkward.... a few days go by and my boyfriend and i break up and she never calls to see if i am ok. she says i deeply hurt her. after that happened, the guy that she likes and i end up talking more and more on the phone and now while i'm not dating him, he told me he did not like her and we have kissed. now my best friend and i have a very broken relationship and- what's even better- she now hangs out with my ex and talks to me less and less. how do i fix this??
2006-12-30 10:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by la reina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"What goes around comes around." You could start by apoligizing to your friend for being more than flirtatious with the guy she liked, especially since you had a boyfriend. In my experience, even what you did, cuddling, is considered basically cheating. Let her hang out with your ex, yall two broke it off, he is free to talk to whomever he wants, and your friend is too. If you actually do like this new guy, well then continue with him, but don't mess with a guy's head, it will come back to haunt you.
2006-12-30 10:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault. You're cuddling with the guy she likes? I don't blame her for hanging out with your ex. You owe her an apology. What gives you the right to hurt her?
2006-12-30 10:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did in a way take her crush, so she's probably hanging out with your ex to make you feel bad or jelous.
2006-12-30 10:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by soccerbabe37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did something dumb and wrong, now you just looking for someone to tell you it's ok. It isn't.
First come clean to your friend. Let her know you did wron't and you don't deserve her friendship.
2006-12-30 10:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by Computer Dr. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is your fault...sorry...I wish I could give you a better answer but I can't...please please don't report me for abuse...because I am being honest:)))
2006-12-30 10:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋