don't want to hear i can't.
He dumped me and same day he went to that jessica. he said he just did not like me anymore.he hasn't even seen her and he loves her and she hasn't seen him and she loves him too. But i love him and i introduced them to each other. and i told him about a guy name greg that doesn't even exsist. but i don't want to be the one that isn't loved. and it hurts me because he thinks we are cool and i was talking to jessica and him over the phone and he told her he loves her with me ON THE PHONE!!!!!! She even told me that he makes her say that she loves him and she doesn't say i love you.
How can i reslove this issuse my heart is one a string and i don't think it can hold on much longer it hurts the nites i cry myself to sleep. What can i do. He told me he loved me, what happened ??
my heart is really on a string i need a helping hand plz i.........i love him. i act like i don't care and that things are cool but they aren't.
i feel like i just want to die now.
2006-12-30 10:17:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel but DO NOT COMMIT SUCIDE!!! He was a cheater and you can find a better man! You dont need him or what other thing you could do is make him jelous ( I think that you know how to do that, start going out with another man infornt of him to tell him that you dont need him) but that would be wrong. He is a total jerk and i feel really sorry for you!!! Good Luck *wink8* :))
2006-12-30 10:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say love hurts. And it really does. But don't get so down on yourself. Time has a way of taking away alot of pain. You will see you're better off without him. She's not much of a friend if she takes away your boyfriend. Find some new people to hang out with. I saw your Yahoo profile and you seem like a cool person. Just keep your chin up and love will find you again.
2006-12-30 10:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gosh.. You dont know what real love is.THis is puppy love. Been there when i was a teen. It hurts but you will get over it and it just takes time. You both need some growing up to do. He is just testing you and if are to be together you will be . Go out and find someone else hes not worth the effort. Dont die on his account ..
2006-12-30 10:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take a deep breath for a few moments please. It sounds like you have a very serious problem here. First, he left you. Second, you can't let him go. Sweety, this is a problem. I know you don't want to hear this form a total stranger, but you did ask for help. Go to your school counselor or to a family member and discuss this issue with them. It sounds to me as if your problem may be related to depression, but keep in mind I haven't studied phycology since high school. Depression can lead up to body pain, loss of energy, lack of sleep, a desire to sleep all day and to thoughts of suicide. You are not alone out there in this big scary world. There are people who want to help you and see you through this. Please make the call today.
2006-12-30 10:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. I know how you feel, hun. Tell him how you feel, don't hide your feelings. Let him know this pain inside. If he's "cool" with you, and if he's a really great friend he'll understand. And maybe he wont falunt her around you.
Just step out on the limb and tell him it's hurting you. If he continues to talk about her, and say stuff about her, he must not really care.
But hun, you're going to have to move on, too. It sounds hard, and it is, but you can do it.
Good Luck.
2006-12-30 10:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie u cant make someone love u nor can u make them be with u.. if he has let u go then he evidently doesn't want to be with u it hurts yes i know but, the feelings arent there. the best thing for u too do is go on with ur life and let him go if he does care for u then he will find his way back too u one day.. like the old saying goes (if u love somthing set it free if it finds its way back too u it was yours if it doesnt it never was) give him his space and let him see wat its like to not have u in his life if he misses u he will find u if not then u know he has moved on as well...good luck
2006-12-30 10:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry!
Ever heard the phrase the one man that's worth your tears will never make you cry?
He's not the one for you. He's not worth your time and effort and especially tears. Find someone else who won't cause you this, because when it's really love, you won't feel like this. Trust me!
2006-12-30 10:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lovleigh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what it feels like to be betrayed but the pain will pass trust me and you would wonder why was i so upset in the first place?.He is not for you girl you deserve much better treatment
2006-12-30 10:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by PODETHCRO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. There are plenty of them . It's them not you. Unf., Jessica will find out how awful he is too in short order. Jessica was also wrong for accepting a man who left her friend for her.
2006-12-30 10:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSS Guess what the creep that you are crying over is not worth your tears, heart or time he is a jerk for leading you on so why not spend less time with them and wait till your heart has healed
2006-12-30 10:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋