i'm 17, single parent, i'm starting to feel very lonely with out boyfriend, should i look for a guy?

Question

i'm in school and work too.

Answer 1

w/e u want

Answer 2

You may be feeling loley, but this is a time when you need to focus on school/work/parenting. It sounds like there are some underlying issues since you sound like you need a boyfriend.
You have plenty of time to date, but you need to focus right now on getting your education so that you can create a better life for yourself and your child. Boys add too many complications. have a girl's night out with your friends, but try not to be involved with a realtionship right now. I hope it all works out for you.

Answer 3

sounds like you've got a lot on your plate.. baby, school, work. those have to be the most 3 important things in your life..

if you have time to date, then that would be great, but the emotional frustration of a break up could really hurt you.

i'd suggest finishing high school and building a career and being the best parent you can possibly be.. those should be your main focuses right now.

Answer 4

Well, its really difficult when it comes down to that fact that you have a child. Make sure you have the child's best interests in mind when you bring a guy around because children can get attached very easily. This happened to one of my friends, and when she broke up with her boyfriend of 7months... the little boy was still calling him "daddy" and everything.

Also, it might be hard finding a guy willing ot date a girl with a kid, so keep that in mind as well.

All-in-all, if it will make you happy and you don't think its against your child's best interests, then I say go for it.

Answer 5

Why wouldn't you? You can date a be a good parent, just remember that the child comes first. Never pick a man over your child. There are other men, and the child is counting on you. Let them know up front that you have a child. There are still some of us out there.
Find a good chruch and let God lead the way.

Answer 6

i think you should wait awhile i know it gets lonely at time but and you want someone to do little things like go to the movies but right now u may need to be alone until u firgure out out what is best for u and your child dont just pick anyone

Answer 7

The question you should be asking yourself is " am I doing good right now without a boyfriend or not?". If you are doing good, then don't worry about it. Besides, a boyfriend is what got you into this baby problem to begin with!!

Answer 8

You should concentrate on your child, school, and work (in that order) before messing around with a relationship. Your plate would be full enough with those three things to have to worry about another thing.

Answer 9

No, that special person will come to you. You don't need a man for happiness. When the time's right the guy will come and show up right on your doorstep.

Answer 10

Yes, the best way to deal with your predicament is to find another boyfriend, get pregnant by him, and have another kid before he takes off.

Yes, that will be much better.

Answer 11

You should. I would use this website to hep fuel your reserch. But if you get cought with feelings for you old boyfreind and for exampl, cry and feel bad l, just wait untill you feel ready. Up to you. If you donty think about your old boyfreind or if it was a bad memory go for a new bf. If nt, dont.