Im part black and I started dating like when i was 13 but i want to know how come so many black girls like dont really date guys that much. Like alot of my black friends they never go out with guys?
2006-12-30 10:12:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because we perfer friendship most of the time
we rather have fun than be tied down so much
that goes fro sum black gurls
2006-12-30 10:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by gellisa m 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am really not sure what it is you are asking here because I think personally that you are confused about black girls not dating, when I was 13 my mother let me go on my first date with my little boyfriend to the movies along with two of my girlfriends with their boyfriends and not only that all three of us had to bring along our younger siblings.
I have three daughters now 21 yrs-old, 11 yrs-old. & 9 yrs-old.
I have a adult daughter with no children she lives on her own, and as for my two younger ones I will do the samething, I will not let them go out with boys alone not until they are at least 15 yrs-old. because I want to be able to trust them, not to do something that they know is wrong, or be talked into something just because someone else is doing. you know?
I do not want to be a grandmother until I am a mother-in-law and I would think that other parents may feel the same way. Life is too short to be in a rush to grow up, you should want to enjoy your youth, not having sex is not a bad thing, not going out with boys when you are not ready mental is not a bad thing, boys are always there and never will they change. believe you me.....been there, done that.........
take your time, and enjoy the years the carefree years believe you me, they are short lived, and you never get them back.
2006-12-30 18:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT...just how do you know that many black girls don't date?how many black girls do you know anyways.As a matter of fact they probobly don't date because there parents taught them MORALS and some still feel "Old School" teaching is the best.Meaning school church etc is first men come a dime a dozen.And if you want a good man don't go looking for him he will find you..
2006-12-30 18:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by gblue52 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about going on a date or going out withsomeone, because most of the girls in my whole schoo started going out wiht guys in the eary days of Elementary, but I started like last year. I'm 12 and Im turning 13 in a couple of weeks.
2006-12-30 18:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are smarter than you... No girl is ready to date when they are 13. Where are your parents? Why is the black and white of people more important to you than who the person is on the inside?
2006-12-30 18:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about others but I was just taught to take dating more seriously that most people do. It might be that your friends we're taught that way too. By the way I AM black it's just my avatar thats white.
2006-12-30 18:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by fruit salad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is for all girls, girls are too concerned with how they look and things like that, some people just need a little confidence, that helps a lot, and Jim F, Screw you!!!! you're a bad influence and should be banned from yahoo, going around insulting everybody, you deserve to go straight to hell with all of the other puke thats going now, and while you're calling somebody ugly how about you go take a look in the mirror, maybe it'll bust when you come around, you worthless piece of crap!!!!
2006-12-30 18:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thing black girls more decipline, and again it has to do with the family they come from.
2006-12-30 18:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by kelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because they mature later than other black females do. Mentally maturaty it they key to dating
2006-12-30 18:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by spartamonkey14 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think its a color thing, but when I was young, 1st of all I never 'dated'! If I met a boy, he was my Lil boyfriend until our shyt was over, but we never called it dates!
2006-12-30 18:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋