Singles & Dating - 30 December 2006

ok.. im dating this guy about 3 weeks.. we have been great friends for over a year!! during that time there was amazing chemistry between us.. we both knew we liked eachother but never made a move.. until recently!!
things have been great!! but little things annoy me.. such as decision making!! .. i HAVE to decide everything we do! he wont make a single decision about what to when we spend time together.. what time what place..its all left to me.. it gets a little annoying after a while!!!

things are starting to get really unconfortable for me.. he doesnt talk much.. for example we went for a meal last night and he barely spoke to me.. it made me very uncomfortable and unsure!!

should i stay in the relationship???? please i do really like him!!

but are realtionships supposed to be this much work this early??

2006-12-30 09:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by cinderella 3

i have been trying to decide if i want to be friends with my ex. i talked to him recently and i was telling him that you can't have your cake and eat it too. you would think he would deny it but all he could ask what was wrong with that.
and he was also talking about how our feelings will eventually fade and basically come to a point where we ignore the fact that we were together at one time. yes, they'll fade but pretending it never happened? and then he told me that he would respect my decision...if i didn't want to be friends anymore but he said it with such ease. but he continued on in saying that we should and listed reasons why. now i'm really confused with the whole situation. i'm afraid that if we remain friends, he's just going to keep hurting me but at the same time i don't like losing people that once had an important part in my life. advice?

2006-12-30 09:29:05 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

2006-12-30 09:28:26 · 26 answers · asked by fastryde1 2

pick

2006-12-30 09:27:09 · 24 answers · asked by Luke A 1

i made my girlfriend a strawberry shortcake pie because i was thinking of her when i was making it so i divided it up for me and her and im getting her a card that says i missed you, she was in texas to visit her dad, we been dating 1yr 5 months, aint i such a sweet boyfriend ladies? i think females are angels, and they deserves a male thats not looking at them as sex symbols but as a true female. im a male too but males, start respecting these woman and maybe you can get a number or date. call them by their name and not hey shawty!!! say they look cute and nice instead of "you sexy, you got a big booty" hold the door for them, i always do that, thats rude to let a door close in a woman face and you standing right by the door. treat these woman like a lady not your sex toy.

2006-12-30 09:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by Eugene 3

hi people....well guys im an engineering student....and im 21 yrs of age....i like a girl who is 2 yrs older than me....means 23...
so she is going to graduate 2 yrs ahead of me...now my problem is...i really have no connection to her...like she is of another department....and i dont have a clue how to make her realise that i like her, i have been around her exchanging stares.......im quite blank as to what i should do...any suggestions?

2006-12-30 09:25:45 · 11 answers · asked by Tourniquet 1

i have a crush on my sister in laws brother and he is spending the night tonight i dont know if i should change or wear what im wearing

2006-12-30 09:25:39 · 6 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1

there is a girl that I like but its hard for me to ask her out because she is the only girl that I have very deep feelings for. I've never had this problem before but for some reason she makes me feel this way

2006-12-30 09:25:18 · 9 answers · asked by rockerluis777 1

2006-12-30 09:24:55 · 23 answers · asked by ESQUID 1

Does anyone have some good tips to help me with this "subject". I want to have a steady relationship with this one guy and i need help. im a teen so need A LOT of help

2006-12-30 09:24:42 · 4 answers · asked by oceanbabii20 2

I have asked a lot of questions about him on here. I just wonder if he really loves me. because he says he does. he says all the time that he's gonna marry me. I might be pregnant and he's excited.

He just don't talk to me when he gets mad, he pushes me away and wont talk to me. And he's not mad at me usually. He just wont tell me what's wrong.

When he pushes me away it makes me feel like he doesn't love me. And he's distancing himself. When i ask him if he's doing that he tells me not start sayin stuff like that because he does love me.

Is it just because I am a female to feel this way. I know my brother has a hard time opening up and showing emotion. Is that just men?. I have never really gotten this close to any man in my life, and i guess it's just new to me.

2006-12-30 09:24:03 · 3 answers · asked by Fresca Jesca 2

i want the night to be memorable. any ideas and tips would be greatly appreciated. thank you!

2006-12-30 09:23:30 · 7 answers · asked by wtfitsnguyen 2

i haven't went out with a girl in probably 2 years.. l i went out with my best friends sister but i didnt think she liked me and that she waz just using me to get to my best friend ( which shes always liked) so i stoped goin out with her..then 2 weeks later i went back out with her but when ever im with her she dosent seem to like me i just got that feelin and when i waz drunk she was hella flirtin with my bestfriend so i broke up with her da next day. a week later now im goin back out with her but i get the same vibe that she dosent like me....and she wouldnt even sleep next to me last nite......she the most beautiful girl i think that ive went out with..........and i know she dosent like me and that she likes my friend, but i just cant stop thinkin about her wtfs wrong with me?????????? HELP!!
thanks

2006-12-30 09:22:26 · 11 answers · asked by D D 1

2006-12-30 09:21:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-30 09:20:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

looks, personality, etc.

2006-12-30 09:18:59 · 4 answers · asked by walks with goats 2

Is it possible for a outgoing guy to be shy around one girl but not around another?

2006-12-30 09:18:38 · 15 answers · asked by Karma =] 1

2006-12-30 09:18:37 · 11 answers · asked by alex t 1

Im 16 years old and he's 17. We have been dating for two years. I broke up with him for 7 monthes. He never stopped loving me and I never stopped loving him. We got back together. Everything has been going great latley. But last night we had an argument about how he smokes weed sometimes. I dont like him doing it, and I'm always on him about it. He tells me that he doesnt want to talk about it anymore. It kinda hurts. When I got off the phone with him, I cried so hard. I have never cried like that over him. I love him, but I feel like I cant do anything right anymore, I want to love him, but I cant. I'm done caring about him. when I'm not talking to him I feel everything is ok, and I'm going to tell him how I feel, but I cant. And when I'm not talking to him I feel stupid, and i feel like I'm wasting my own time. Please help me!?

2006-12-30 09:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by PrincessM 1

I have been dating a great girl for 3 months and she is really pressuring the marriage topic. I say it is too soon and would like to keep dating and get to know each other more. She says she doesn't want to wait. My delima come because I am 36 years old and have never been married. Is time running out or should I keep waiting until I am more ready?

2006-12-30 09:16:01 · 40 answers · asked by geeves 2

2006-12-30 09:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Si 1

2006-12-30 09:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I am not into the kinky stuff, but I know she has been down to the Anne Summers shops when she goes into town to pick up her pension.
Advice please

2006-12-30 09:13:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

To all the men out there, what makes you fall for a women that you find completely irresistable? Absolutely anything. Not neccisarily physical, maybe the perfume, a certain thing she says, how she acts. Please no s.l.u.t.t.y. ones. I really want to understand you guys.

2006-12-30 09:13:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

At my bank that i go to there is this bankteller that i truly like a lot. I know that the banktellers are suppose to smile and be friendly towards the customers. What is the best way for me to fnd out if she is single or is dating someone. I go to the bank once a week to deposit money and she is there whenever i see her. What should i do or say next? How can I get her to like me and to be able to go out with me?
Thanks again

2006-12-30 09:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by spurs257 1

I keep dreaming of him and of us getting together. What does it mean?

2006-12-30 09:11:30 · 15 answers · asked by maplelucy 2

2006-12-30 09:11:27 · 5 answers · asked by alex t 1

The qualities that you would like to have in a woman/man?? be a bit specific...cause you know some people like to say " i like em funny sexy and all that " well thats just stupid....For me ....Smart ...Shes not afraid to do dangerous stuff....a bit of a tom boy ...16.....and cute like a japanese character :D lol ....

2006-12-30 09:10:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. It is the first time in years that I do not have set New Years Eve Plans.

2. Is it socially taboo or wrong to attend a New Years Eve party where you absolutely are going alone, knowing no one?

3. Be honest. What do you think about attending a party at a night club VERSUS staying at home and watching Dick Clark?

PEZ

2006-12-30 09:09:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is anything wrong with someone dateing someone 9 years older then them or 9 years younger..?!

2006-12-30 09:08:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous