Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

has anyone had trust issues with there bf or gf and they just kept telling u they never cheated? how do u believe everything they are telling u when u feel u have been lied to before. i asked my boyfriend several times face to face if he has cheated on me and he says he never has and nevre will i want to believe him and move on from this but im having a hard time.

anyone experience there partner doing suspicious things and getting over it?

2006-12-28 12:33:56 · 7 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

2006-12-28 12:33:47 · 6 answers · asked by angel16 1

Me and my friends were talking, and one of them broughtup that she's falling for a guy that is 18 and she is 13. she asked us if it was okay or not, we talkd about it and wondered if it's wrong.. or okay.

2006-12-28 12:32:18 · 37 answers · asked by krissy 1

Ok, I'll get to the question: Is it ok for a man to use deodorant or body spray on their nutsack? My girlfriend walked in on me rubbing an old spice deodorant stick on my nutsack and freaked out on me. I said to her "I'm doing it for you babe!" so who's in the wrong here her or me?

2006-12-28 12:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this girl V, for like 1yr+ close to 2yrs online, before meeting her in person. We're both very comfortable with each other(I told and she told me too), we've gone out every weekend since we met each other for like a month before she went on a holiday. She's kind of like hanging on a thread or almost none on her current rlnship(got attached right after we met! damn!). She told me we're like best friends but does best friends hold hands in public? We do hug and kiss each other on the cheeks and stuff. She also said that I'm a very nice person and that my girlfriend will be one lucky girl! I'm confused...cause we're so close but I don't know how to tell if she likes me or not. She has not communicated with her bf(that guy's a bastard, just tryin to get in her pants) for close to 3 weeks. Help! Need advice! What should I do? How long shld I wait before I tell her I like her alot?! Sorry for the long details ><

2006-12-28 12:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by travisdude 1

I'm just curious. How effective have the answers of the community been for all of you?

2006-12-28 12:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 12:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by ~ Helin ~ 4

2006-12-28 12:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm snowbound in a cabin outside of Denver with a very nice looking lady and one condom. Its gonna be a long weekend. Tips on washing and drying would be helpful. Do I need to relube it?

2006-12-28 12:25:51 · 35 answers · asked by teeyodi 2

2006-12-28 12:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i have been seeing a guy who is 10 years older then me we hang out every now and then and its pretty much just booty calls. lol but he thinks were just friends and that because of our age difference i understand we cant be together, but you see im starting to really like him and i wanna be more then a friend. hes like one of those really hott guys that can get any girl and is a complete player. the type of guy you shouldnt fall for becuase you know he'll just hurt you in the end. but i kinda want to say something to him about how i feel and i dont know how .. should i stop seeing him i dont know what to do and i cant talk to my friends cause they think i shouldnt be doing what im doing with him and they think hes just using me.
i dont know how to explain it =[ help

2006-12-28 12:21:35 · 11 answers · asked by beybii_giirll 1

I posted yesterday about a guy I've been seeing very intensely for 3 months. He came to meet my parents on Christmas, and they were very welcoming...even though he's got tattoos, smokes, not that great of a job. Thennn, throughout the conversation, he started making up little things, and that really made my parents upset. Long story short, they told me he was a BS-er and to let it go.
I know what they mean, and I'm hurt by his lying, because I've been really falling in love with him. He's made me want to be more open than I ever could be and made me laugh more than any other guy could.
So...the lying hurts, especially because it was so unneccessary, and now I don't know what to believe about him or his past. So I could just stay away and leave w/o saying anything, but it means too much to me. How can I talk to him about this and get him to be straightforward with me? And should I bother to do that?? He should know I'd love him with all his faults and w/o judgements... :(

2006-12-28 12:21:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can anyone tell me? Please? What do i look for?

2006-12-28 12:20:33 · 1 answers · asked by Jellybean 1

been going out with this girl for a couple months and we havent kiss yet and were both going to the same new years eve party

im her first real boyfriend

i would do it but im pretty sure her first kiss was at my 8th grade dance when my best friend made out with her in the middle of everyone and she ran away and no one could find her then next day at school everyone was calling her **** and crap and i was really the only one that stud up for her bec i knew who she was and the fact the my best friend was just looking to make out with somone and she just got caught in the moment and i was thimking it might be better to do it somewhere more romantic and away from everyone

2006-12-28 12:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by Ash 2

There's a girl that I like. I got her a present for christmas. Well, on Christmas I called her to see if she liked it but she didn't pick up her phone. I decided to call her 30 minutes later. She still didn't pick up. I decided to wait the next day for her to call back. She didn't call back. I called her again the next day, which was the 27th, and she didn't pick up and didn't call me back. It is now the 28th and I am worried about her. Should I call her back again?

2006-12-28 12:20:15 · 2 answers · asked by Steven 1

ok, so i like this guy, but he hardly knows me, and i dont c him much. help me!!!!

2006-12-28 12:18:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHATS TO YOUNG AND WHATS TO OLD FOR A 1ST KISS?

2006-12-28 12:17:43 · 15 answers · asked by YOUNGANDMATURE 1

My friend is the best person in the world. She told me how much her family hated her and told me to tell no one but i was with really close friends and we had to discuss it. We also talked about how her bf cheated on her tons of times. she doesn't know this yet and were scared if we tell her she may hurt herself. what do i do??

2006-12-28 12:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2

2006-12-28 12:16:05 · 20 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

I think maybe I have way to much on my plate,for eveeryone eles,but me....

2006-12-28 12:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by gwendelynns 1

My friends say I'm pretty, but i think I'm "stumpy"
I'm not a twig, I know that, but I'm not fat either.
5'4''-137lbs, but I look much bigger because of muscle weight in my legs.
I have KP
but I am very sweet and fun

I have been cheated on by every boyfriend and never "checked out" or hit on.

Is there something wrong with me?
sometimes I feel invisible.

2006-12-28 12:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by Bunnie 1

i like this guy at my church, but 2 prblms
1. pastors son
2. 5 years older(doesnt seem like a lot, but hes legal)

2006-12-28 12:13:53 · 4 answers · asked by DumbBlonde 1

because i lost a $150 last month

2006-12-28 12:12:46 · 12 answers · asked by erica f 1

I begged my ex back for about 2 months and all i got was that i was annoying her and that i need to give it up so i fianlly gave up 3 weeks later she keep calling me and calling me i answered once she said she wants to meet up with me what is she thinking and why all of a sudden she calling me i thought she wanted me to go away??

2006-12-28 12:12:45 · 26 answers · asked by Confused 1

I am just trying to help him and he says I make him feel like he is not capable of doing things himself, like he is not a grown man. It started tonight b/c I asked him to get his oil changed(he's 6000 m overdue)he was off all day and had no plans, when I called him later he didn't get it done and just put it off again! Another thing he does is not pay bills on time, even if he has the money too. I don't get it. I know I can be controlling and a little OCD, but ultimatley I am just looking out for our best interest. I don't know the best way to get over this. I think it would be easy for him to just apease me by getting the things done, but he refuses to give in, atleast for right now he does. We are to have a serious talk when I get home from work tonight. HELP!!

2006-12-28 12:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by deathcab2cute 1

Today is a real shocker. My boyfriend dumped me 3 months ago, it was all of a sudden, no explanaion, we were going to get married next yr, it was all in a snap of a finger and I didnt know why.

He left me for another girl, I found out, and was with her the day after we broke up. Today I learned from his old roomate, he was on drugs, and so was she.

This explains the sudden change of heart, and why he was so rude. He was a real heavy drug user in the past and when I met him he was clean for a few yrs, and I never judged him. 2 yrs later he got into the wrong crowd again.

I dont know what to do or think. It explains everything now. What can I do, or should do?

If I talk to him about it, he will just deny it. Cause hes having too much fun with the new girl. Going back to help him, might be a mistake cause he obiviously isnt the right one for me. But I stil love him. There is so much more to this sotry, so please dont judge me.

2006-12-28 12:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2

I am 24 years old and I have just thought if I keep hating being single and if I ever do find Mrs. Right which I still doubt I will. I am probably going to end up doing something silly like hating her for making me wait so long to find her. So what can I do to stop hating being single?

2006-12-28 12:10:14 · 37 answers · asked by RIP 1

Without being obivous that you want to go out?

2006-12-28 12:09:33 · 5 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2

he lies, and makes me sad

2006-12-28 12:09:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy at my work asked me out, so now I know he likes me, but I turned him down because of my parents, and I told him that. Do you think he will continue to act awkward around me (i.e. avoiding me) because I said no or will we just go back to being friends/coworkers?

2006-12-28 12:08:33 · 16 answers · asked by abc123 1