Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

i met this guy and we have been on a few dates....i told him i am going on a vacation for 5 days and he asked to come along....so i told him only if we go as bodies and there will be NO sex....he wasnt happy about that, but agreed.... (we have been kissing before , but no sex) ,.....so i am thinking am i fooling myself?? and or is possible to go without sex??? should i let him come or not?

2006-12-28 14:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wasnt feeling well today and went home to take a nap. When I got to work my bf (we work together) asked why I changed pants. I told him they were uncomfortable and what really happened was I had some "rectum leakage" (remember I was really sick!). He could tell I wasnt being truthful and I want to tell him what really happened but its so gross! Should I let it go or tell him? I think he would understand....

2006-12-28 14:04:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was told that if you tell your GF that she looks nice then she'll start to think "Wow, I look nice so why am I with this shmoe?" Is it true that you shouldn't tell a girl this or is this just stupid?

2006-12-28 14:03:36 · 36 answers · asked by holybass08 1

I myself am an atheist/agnostic. I've been told that I should "try to accept god" because if I dont, it will be much more difficult to for me to find a date. Apparently, believing in god is a strong prerequisite to finding a date.

Girls, how important is religiosity to you? If you are a Christian, would you date an atheist/agnostic?

I understand that atheists are far and few between, but does that preclude them from obtaining dates?

2006-12-28 14:03:36 · 37 answers · asked by Nietzsche 1

I am 79 pounds and im 15 years old. My figure is good. The boys at my school think im hot but i dont want them calling me that because I already have a boyfriend. What should I do?

2006-12-28 14:00:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 13:59:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's t/story. I started talking to this guy online around 3 months ago, & from t/beginning he made me smile & seemed like a nice person. We have so many things in common & we can laugh for almost anything. After a while he asked for my number & we began to talk on t/phone as well as online, but I really didn't think much of it.

On Christmas day he asked what I was doing, & invited me to t/movies, I accepted. Once there we had to wait for t/movie to begin, so we went to Dunkin' Donuts to get something to drink & sat outside talking about almost everything & anything.

He was very respectful the entire time, opened doors for me, basically the works! Long story short @ t/end of t/night, he drove me back to my car & we just sat in his car talking a while longer, thing is t/moment felt right, t/mood was set (romantic song playing in t/background & all w/out it being planned lol)..so we kissed, & laid back in his arms a while doing nothing..

2006-12-28 13:59:02 · 21 answers · asked by ☆Karma☆ 6

I asked a general question before; but reality is I love this woman, she is the one of the best reasons in my life. I do everything you ladies have mention, but I do think she is insecure due to past relationships.. Is this dangerous to us or what?

2006-12-28 13:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife wants me to try dressing as a girl just for fun for sex and foreplay and she thinks it will be fun to do and im kindof willing to try it and just wanted to get some opinions and ideas from both girls and guys

2006-12-28 13:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by Mike P 1

here is this guy, i really, really like him. monday night he came, when he had to leave, he told me that he hated to leave and he hugged me. yesterday night, he came again, when he wanted to leave, he asked me for a hug and also a kiss. we kissed but he didnt tell me that he loved me. Today i talked to him and he said that he had kissed me because he liked me the way i am. he is 18 and i am 16. I really dont know if he loves me. he has not told me yet. i dont know. what should i do? please, what should i do?

2006-12-28 13:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by Sara 2

She is very picky to get a job, everything is an issue. Even when I offered her to work in my job but she rejected because I work there. Christmas came and she didn't buy me anything but an ipod COVER but bough her friends their gift like purse and etc..
For Christmas She wanted me to spend 150 dollars on her but I backed away from it specially when I had to paid a bill. She promised me some Timberland's for my Birthday November 8, 2006 and up to this date, nothing yet. I have the money to buy my own but since she asked me what I wanted I asked for that. She's going to college and only works 4 days of the month. Doesn't want to make the effort to have a full time job or part time anywhere, like I said very picky. I don't mind paying for things but sometimes you also want to get something in return, We've been together for 10 months and I'm there in the bad times, but what do you all think of this?

2006-12-28 13:55:53 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, what do you hate about girls. What do you wish you could change?

2006-12-28 13:53:29 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-12-28 13:52:53 · 6 answers · asked by Sweatburn 1

I havent seen my ex in 4 months. She has moved on and is pregnant with her new b/f's baby. We have been broken up for 7 months. Well My two best friends work at Wendys, where she works. One of my friends wanted to go see his g/f, she works there too. When he said he wanted to go and see her, my heart dropped and I got really nervous cause I new that my ex was workin tonight. Its been 7 months since we have broken up, and I'm still in love with her but i heard that she hates me now. she was the one that broke up with me. Is it normal to get all nervous to the point of almost throwing up when It comes to bein around my ex

2006-12-28 13:52:39 · 4 answers · asked by Nick g 1

I dont want grandma to think that I'm only there cause her best friend at the nursing home gives me a woody. How can I visit grandma and also get some alone time with this 89 year old hottie?

2006-12-28 13:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by IMA SUCK@SS 2

so this old guy- friend of mine has been calling me up since 2 weeks ago trying to get me to go with him to register for some classes at college...because he doesnt want to go alone. I said yes but i let him down because that day that he wanted to go was my anniversary with my bf. He kept on calling to see if i was still available. he even left me a message. He did not go with any of his other friends. He calls me 1st thing in the morning today after he gets right back from work to see if I could go with him i told him 'its close'. we hang up & decide to go until next month. after 30min he calls back to say "i am bored tell me what to do?what can i do?". He was thinking of going to the beach apparently with me. is it normal to ask a girl out to a beach if you consider her "just a friend"? is it normal? or this guy wants more than friends ? and cant face i have a bf. by the way he called me yesterday and told me how lonley he felt withuot a girl

2006-12-28 13:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3

Ok im confused, i have lost all hope, and faith, which has caused me to lose confidence, and self esteem and loosing that has caused me to lose the sense of caring. how can i turn this around?

2006-12-28 13:51:45 · 12 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4

2006-12-28 13:50:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend left me at the beginning of december to go to another fool. On that day i cried badly... i eventually sucked it up and just became angry rather than sad. I feel as though there's a hole in my heart... a piece missing for some odd reason... i know that i still love her even after what she did to me... it's a hard feeling to describe... i just wanna know if that hole is ever filled in... anyone ever been in my same position... or had the same feeling in their heart?

...thank you for all answers and i hope you all have a happy new year...

2006-12-28 13:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by the sign 2

Here it is...
I'm 17. I've never had a boyfriend, not because no one wants me to go out with them, but because I choose not to have a boyfriend. My family is very good friends with my best friend's family, and I have grown to love being with them. Our families always do things together. Ok, here's the "problem".
I hopelessly admire my best friend's brother. It's so easy to talk to him, our families being close, and yet... I've been freaking out a little lately. I've developed these feelings, and I honestly can't say I've felt like this before. I've only told my best friend and "HIS" best friend that I'm crushing on this guy.... my best friends brother.
They both say that there's possiblities. They say "HE" never tells anyone what girl he likes. Truly, it's a mystery, because no one knows who "HE" likes.
It's so natural to talk to "HIM". I really love him as a brother, but I wish someday we could be more. I tried to dismiss these feelings, but they came back.

He's 14.

2006-12-28 13:50:19 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1

Ok so ive been dating this girl for a while now and were absolutely crazy about eachother. We always have a lot of fun. I hadnt seen her for a few days and then it was just like she was a whole new person. I think she may have like ten different personalities. Im not sure what exactly im experiencing or if anyone else has ever experience it but its kinda weird. Sometimes shes just a whole different person and i dont know how to act. Its really hard to explain but is there any way i can just ignore or accept this fact and just not worry about it?

2006-12-28 13:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by Mike 1

night for my mans birthday. i already got the lingerie. but what can i cook for him? and what else should i do?

2006-12-28 13:49:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

hows the best way to break up with sum 1 and where should I break up with him

2006-12-28 13:49:29 · 2 answers · asked by Katy 2

i have been with him for almost ten years and we broke up, i call him every day or text him . how do i stop and move on. i love him

2006-12-28 13:49:15 · 18 answers · asked by Alexis i. Dupont 1

Ok. So I started to like this guy, and then my friend somehow talked me into sending him a secret admirer candy thing our school does.

I think he knew it was me, but now I'm scared I ruined any chance I have of me just going up and talking to him...how do I go about talking to him and not getting so nervous...or did I mess everything up??

2006-12-28 13:47:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Invited a male co-worker to dinner to celebrate Xmas. I'm his assistant. We were there few minutes before 5pm, ordered, & we were done in 45 minutes! He ordered his food & dessert without asking me what I'm having. Date or platonic date I was so turned-off. Wasn't a gentleman at all. What's up with Russian men? I find him rude! My thoughts were, he wanted to get the dinner over with. He wanted to pay but I'll feel uncomfy if I let him, because I was the one who did the invite. According to him, he dined with other women before & he always pay. I told him, there's always the first time. I just needed to vent out.

2006-12-28 13:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 13:45:32 · 53 answers · asked by Sandy s 1

I had a date with a girl and I kissed her softly on the cheek as we walked out. She responded too.
The next day I called her to say a goodnight and how is she doing but she didnt answer so I left a message.
Is that the game of the beginning or what?

Thank you all in advance

2006-12-28 13:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by ianquestions 1

they will gladly take care of kids that are not theres but when there baby momma ask them for something for there child they have every excuse in the world why they cant do it MEN explain it to me

2006-12-28 13:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by totally confused 1

There's a girl at my school who about two months ago "expressed an interest" in me right after she broke up with her boyfriend. She hooked up with him afterwards and now she might be breaking up with him again. She never actually said she liked me, she said she wrote a note for me and that she would give to me at school. But when she hooked back up with her boyfriend, she never gave it to me and when I asked abou tit she changed the subject. Could she still be interested in me, even though it's been two months?

2006-12-28 13:44:30 · 2 answers · asked by wildwildmars 1