Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

She is very picky to get a job, everything is an issue. Even when I offered her to work in my job but she rejected because I work there. Christmas came and she didn't buy me anything but an ipod COVER but bough her friends their gift like purse and etc..
For Christmas She wanted me to spend 150 dollars on her but I backed away from it specially when I had to paid a bill. She promised me some Timberland's for my Birthday November 8, 2006 and up to this date, nothing yet. I have the money to buy my own but since she asked me what I wanted I asked for that. She's going to college and only works 4 days of the month. Doesn't want to make the effort to have a full time job or part time anywhere, like I said very picky. I don't mind paying for things but sometimes you also want to get something in return, We've been together for 10 months and I'm there in the bad times, but what do you all think of this?

She's 21 and only going to school. Her car is messed up. She uses her credit card. She could be a great girlfriend if she would solve these issues, I don't want to tell her because I don't like to whine and I like for people to see their own mistakes and also I don't want her thinking that I'm thinking I'm maintaining her. I'm 19, work full time, I go to school full time, I have a 3.75 GPA. Why can't she do it? We don't live together. No kids at all. It's a long term relationship of 10 months. It's not that I care for the money but a gift once in a while it's nice. She says if she had the income she would buy things for me but that is just words...

2006-12-28 14:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's a man to do?

2006-12-28 14:22:46 · 29 answers · asked by holybass08 1

How come I get what I need. Not a lot but what I need to survive, I have a loving family and yet I come home at night and sit in my room feeling alone. I just want the warm touch of a girl. I want to cuddle up to my girl and know that I will always be with her. I don't want to do anything wrong i just want to feel loved. And then when I am old enough and I know that I love her get married to her, for ever. The problem is, that I don't have a girl. I just can't seem to find a girl that would love me. So i feel alone and I hate it.

2006-12-28 14:22:35 · 9 answers · asked by need_to_know432 1

I go on dates with a girl a couple times a week and we talk on the phone every day. She kisses me at the end of every date. She's not my girlfriend, but it kind of feels like it. I'm not sure how serious all of this could be considered.

2006-12-28 14:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my freind i met in highschool 7 years ago when we were 14.
when i met her she was pregnat cuz some guy moslested her or somthin. and i stuck around alot and we became real tigh and when the baby came he was named after me. and hes 7 now and calls me dad and i never said to him to call me that and he just does and he thinks that im his dad. his moms like i nevar said you where. and today he was asking me qeustions. :
him : daddy how come i dont look like you ?
me : cuz you look like your mom.
him : some parts of my face i dont look like you or my mom.
me : like what ?
him : i have grey eyes and you or mom doesnt.
me : my sister has grey eyes.
him : how come ezekeil myshliegh and alex all look like you and i dont ?
( those are my other kids who look just like me )
me : because your a leader and not a follower !
him : was i adopted ?
me : look how much popcorn i can fit in my mouthe !!

what am i supposed to tell him ? his mom has know idea what to say. and im out of popcorn

2006-12-28 14:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend has had this crush on this guy for over a year. they would IM and call each other. well, one night while on IM, they decided to cyber. this has been 6 months ago and she hasnt heard from him since. did he think she was cheap for doing this? what other reason could there be for him not talking to her anymore?

2006-12-28 14:21:17 · 27 answers · asked by BUTTERFLY 2

I was walking around at the mall one time and this gorgeous woman (probably in her mid or early 40's) wearing really short shorts passed by me... I turned around to check her nice shapley muscular legs out from behind. And when I turned back I noticed this girl give me an ugly look like "EWWWW... You were checkin out THAT?!". And yeah... I pretty much felt a lil embarrassed :P.. I'm not really attracted to girls my age... unless they have big sexy shapley muscular calves and thighs or don't have that whinney immature attitude. Most (I'm not saying all) girls my age are immature, annoying and like to play games and other lame stupid crap... Older women are mature and know what they want and dont play around and don't pull any bullcr@p.. I don't know any other dudes my age and are just attracted to older women.. Is this wrong/weird that I'm like this..? Should I feel embarrassed..? And does my english suck?? LOL!! Tell me what you think on Y!messenger (ID: skillz_you_cant_compete_with)

2006-12-28 14:18:39 · 20 answers · asked by mexipinoy 1

2006-12-28 14:18:24 · 18 answers · asked by spud 4

I get crap about at school alot

2006-12-28 14:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor R 2

How much PDA is too much? i know that some people tend to go overboard and i find it uncomfortable. I'm just wondering where the line is. I mean, leaning on one another is fine in my book, but what goes too far?

2006-12-28 14:16:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

u can choose as many as u want

2006-12-28 14:15:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, I didn't know he had a girlfriend. I just found out. I've been seeing this guy for 6 months. He lives on the West coast ( where the girlfriend lives) . He is currently works in Iraq. I live on the east coast. We recently took a "family" cruise together. I meet his kids for the 1st time. He hadn't seen his kids for 8 mths. He asked me to pretend that we didn't know each other and that our meeting was a coiencidence because he didn't want the kids to think that he had an alterior motive. While on vacation he asked me to help him pick out a souvenir for the kids "mom" (they are divorced). I picked nice but cheap ( $10) earrings/necklace set. Which was actually for the girlfriend. His older son started to volunteer info and told me that his dad has a girlfriend at home. He denied it at first but admitted it when he returned to Iraq. He said that they are on and off. On when he's on leave and off while he's in Iraq. I have a source who can contact her.

2006-12-28 14:15:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know a person has to actually do the act to be one but maybe hes a closeted one? i'm 19 but look younger and he is also 19. we role play that i'm a little girl (his little girl. long story don't ask.). he's just really into all this little girl stuff. but it could be because he really wants to have a daughter some day. so um maybe hes secretly one but doesn't want to go to jail and such so he's with me since i look young and i'm adorable like one and the whole role playing with do.. and if he isnt one..do you all think i'm turning him into one by doing that type of role playing? sometimes i worry.

2006-12-28 14:15:18 · 8 answers · asked by yo 2

I have always wanted a normal life but it’s hard if you’re a bi. One year ago I was supposed to get married with a foreign girl. She was deported before we had the chance to get registered. One year has past since I last saw her and recently I mat a guy who is nice to me. I hope somebody has had some experience in this. Because I have never had a male relation ship before. Should I wait for my fiancé or take the chance and follow my heart?

2006-12-28 14:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by BearHawk 1

I like this boy, what first move should I do?

2006-12-28 14:13:35 · 15 answers · asked by Lovely 1

I've been seeing this guy that I met online for a month now. We're not exclusive because he's not ready and I wanted to give him some time. Now he says that he's been obsessing over his ex wife. He says that he does want to get over her and be happy. He says that he cares a great deal about me and doesn't want to lose me and he wants to talk 3-4 times a day because talking to me makes me happy. But, he calls her every day because he says he has to hear her voice. He drove by her house at 2 am and 4 am this morning because he couldn't get her out of his head. They were married for 10 years, have been divorced for about 5 and they have a kid together. He says he wants to let me show him what a relationship with me could be and he says i make him happy but that when we're not together he thinks about her. I really care about him but I'm not sure what I should do. Should I try and help him move on by keeping his mind off her or should I walk away?

2006-12-28 14:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by nechesser 1

Ladies, if you had a choice between having a spouse who was devilishly handsome but didn't have a pot to piss in or having a spouse who looked like the backside of a donkey, but had much money, which would you choose and why?

2006-12-28 14:12:08 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

I'm freaking out. Like over half the girls on yahoo answers say they are under 100lbs!!! I'm 150lbs 5'10 34 D's with muscle tone(I'm german I play golf and box what can I say you get the picture) I'm not fat but my rib bones are inside my body not trying to protrude out of my skin! I'm sorry but I thought guys like boobs not rib bones so I guess I'm just out of luck!

2006-12-28 14:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is one guy who is moving way too fast for me and it is becoming a deterrent for me. I really can't take it, I am feeling smothered and annoyed. Another guy, I really like. He gives me butterflies. His problem is that he is really focused on his career and his daughter. He says that he has deep feelings for me. Do I wait for him, tolerate and understand the guy who really likes me or leave them both alone? My last relationship lasted for 10 years and there are still a couple of scars left.

2006-12-28 14:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by dedakated1236 2

2006-12-28 14:10:04 · 15 answers · asked by Taylor R 2

i have not seen him for 2 1/2 yrs but he came here for x-mas. and we had sex 5 times when he was here. and he has a gf but he is not goin to tell her what we did.we have a child to gether and i have to get him back his is the love of my life and the father of my child and he is the first for everything for me. i asked him to come back to me and he told me that he does not love me but i now that is a lie.

2006-12-28 14:09:59 · 7 answers · asked by letsbefriends1984 1

This is not a joke. I broke up with my g/f so I'm back to dating Rosie.
I can't seem to relax and enjoy it. Is there a position, fantasy, lotion or anything that would make the experience as satisfying as having real sex?

2006-12-28 14:09:09 · 14 answers · asked by Kari 4

2006-12-28 14:09:01 · 8 answers · asked by Mara D 1

2006-12-28 14:08:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys if you told a girl that was one of your best friends that she was "beautiful and sexy" all the time, and she said "ohh nah, thank you" and you said that she had a wonderful heart and that you hoped you were friends forever and also and you were always touching her back and sides and hugging her...why wouldn't you ask her out if you really felt that way?

Do guys not like nice girls?

2006-12-28 14:07:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm feeling down. so i only want people to agree with me. so if you think love is a many splendid thing. go away, just answer some other person's questions. please.

2006-12-28 14:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by biodegradable insane asylum 5

2006-12-28 14:07:02 · 25 answers · asked by dumb_founded_01 1

2006-12-28 14:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by 944963 1

I mean, it's one thing to have low self esteem, but if the guy is hitting them and openly cheating on them and they're still calling him "their boyfriend". I even know this one girl who's talking about marrying this guy who does that to her. What's up with that?

2006-12-28 14:05:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I meet someone that I have a lot in common with. The problem is they were in a 2 year relationship and have been single for only a couple months. How long is appropriate to wait to before dating?

2006-12-28 14:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by W.E.S. 2