has anyone had trust issues with there bf or gf and they just kept telling u they never cheated? how do u believe everything they are telling u when u feel u have been lied to before. i asked my boyfriend several times face to face if he has cheated on me and he says he never has and nevre will i want to believe him and move on from this but im having a hard time.
anyone experience there partner doing suspicious things and getting over it?
2006-12-28 12:33:56 · 7 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRST please quit asking him that question.
It is annoying as hell for the person being interrogated.
Secondly, it will never get you any information.
If the person IS cheating, he is not going to tell you. (ever heard of an honest cheater?).
If he is going to lie and say he is not, in which case you are no better then where you started. If he isnt cheating, he is going to find your insecurity very annoying and break up with you for someone who PRETENDS to be more confident.
Just watch his actions and follow YOUR insticts.
If he is cheating it will all come out sooner or later but dont blame the new guy for the wrongs of the last jerk. IT gives the last azzhole TOO MUCH POWER over your life!
2006-12-28 12:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your intuition. For the last 2 months I allowed myself to be deceived into believing that, which I already knew in my heart. This morning, my suspicions were confirmed, when my husband announced that he had an "encounter". The only reason he told me is, I am 4.5 months pregnant and he and I have been having symptoms of a possible std. Luckily, my OB/GYN caught it, but my husband made it out to be me.
GO WITH YOUR GUT. If you suspect, then he probably is.
Good Luck
2006-12-28 20:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by jlowe06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has happened to the best of us
ive had some one cheat on you b4 but by allowing it to cause trust issues lets that person hurt you further
forget about it get over it make a leap
stop hurting your self and your partner
besides relationships are built on trust
2006-12-28 20:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by icychicmillenium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are that suspicious of him you need to call a private detective and hire him to follow him. you might push him to cheat if you keep asking him if he has ever cheated. this shows that you are insecure and no man wants an insecure girlfriend. just don't push it . find out by hiring a Private investigater.
2006-12-28 20:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by hugabug72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you can trust him or you can't. If he has told you seveal times berfore that he hasn't, then give him the benefit of the doubt. Trust your instincts and do what you think is best.
2006-12-28 20:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by toya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the first feelings are true. Have him set up if he passes then move on.
2006-12-28 20:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by darlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not ask that question. If you feel doubt check his activities. You will never get the answer "yes" for your question from a BF or GF for this question.
2006-12-28 20:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋