Singles & Dating - 21 December 2006

My friend with benefits is confusing me. We date other people and live about 3 hrs. apart. Three months ago, he said that he wanted to see me. I told him I was busy, but would try to see him before I left the state for Christmas. As the time approached, he would send me text messages stating "he was tired of fighting his feelings for me" and "I hope that I can see you". I had decided not to see him, because we were telling each other that it was too far to come for only a few hours. So With 36 hrs, before I had to leave, I sent him a text saying that I wasn't coming. He sent me a mean text message saying "stay out of my life, that I'm just like his ex and he doesn't want to see me." Long story short, I drove to see him and we "spent time together". I returned home ten hours later. He called me and told me that he wanted to marry his girlfriend, and I was supportive, but told him the truth. He loves the girl but I think his relationship lacks passion. Now he's mad saying I'm jealous.

2006-12-21 02:24:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been going out with my boyfriend 13 months now and I do trust him completley, BUT this girl kept trying to cause trouble, this girl being is supposed friend, which they have known each other a long time. When I met her I did like her but then she started saying things to drive a wedge between me and my boyfriend like saying how his Mum said I'm not right for him (which was a lie) and asking him to move in with her, well the long and short of it is I wanted to see him last night and he said he was just going to go straight home, so I said that's fine, then he said he was going to see a band with this girl, which really upset me because it's like she's horrible to me and if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldn't want me to go, so I said well you go I'm not going to stop you, I don't like it but I can't stop you, and I've NEVER tried to stop him having friends. Anyway he emailed this girl and said because of the reasons above I didn't want him to see this band with her, so he

2006-12-21 02:24:13 · 1 answers · asked by xx_lush_xx 3

Well sorry if the below is a bit long one.I am a 27 Year old Hindu / Brahmin software engineer born and spent my student life in a small city in India..Very cultured and educated guy.I work for an investment bank in Singapore..I have seen quite a bit of Big cities/and western culture..since my professional life.I never loved any woman nor even got attaracted to.I am not a kinda BF/GF concept guy.I believe in strong permanent relationship.Recently accidentally i met some one at breakfast place , she is a Christian 30 year old beautiful lady works as a business development manager.I and she both go to the same place for breakfast and used to see each other..We after sometime started smiling at
each other.Finally one day i talked to her as well....she seemed pretty intrested in me...the way she looked at me...the qustions she asked...I have asked myself the below questions..to really clarify if mine is a Love/ attraction-infatuation which ppl say young guys..get confused with...

2006-12-21 02:22:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anand Kulkarni 1

Yesterday the boy I liked was really flirting with me. Before I had given him a note and he lost it, but he was seriously interested in what it said. So yesterday I tried to tell him, but got interupted, he said he would be here today, but so far I haven't seen him. I really like him and I can tell he likes me. Since he didn't show up does that mean he doesn't?? I really have feelings for him, and I thought he had feelings for me. So does he?

2006-12-21 02:20:56 · 13 answers · asked by Daniela15 2

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2006-12-21 02:19:56 · 6 answers · asked by Franky 1

I know that you guys have a real good relationship with your second head down south, but i see so many guys doing this i honestly think that you dont realise you're doing this.....so what is it?....is it a comfort thing or what?....

2006-12-21 02:19:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I make a cheating ex who wants to get back with me but is willing to prove his love? How do I make him work it to earn back the trust?

2006-12-21 02:18:40 · 9 answers · asked by honeyz 2

I am an East Indian male. 35. Living in Queens, NY. Educated & Employed. Do not work in an environment where I can meet girls. And, I seem to get no answers when I respond to profiles online.

2006-12-21 02:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by Foisal A 1

2006-12-21 02:18:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been going out with this girl for a month now, and she broke up with some guy a few month ago. But i recently found out from one of her bestfriends that no other there is a guy out there that is decent anymore. I know that i just need to give her some time to get over her ex but what else can i do?

2006-12-21 02:16:07 · 22 answers · asked by briantran6070 1

I have only known my girlfriend for a little over a month. I am quite fond of her and we get along great. The other day she came out and said she loved me and I just said back to her "I love you too." Now she acts like we are going to get married and I have only known her a short time. Did I mess up? I like her alot but not sure about the love thing. It just kind of fell out of my mouth.

2006-12-21 02:15:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 02:12:36 · 55 answers · asked by Mikey 3

Just curious,I've never had a boyfriend before. Share your personal thoughts?

2006-12-21 02:11:12 · 17 answers · asked by HahaYou'rePwned! 2

like i work with a woman (she is 23 and i am 33)that hugs me sometimes and calls me baby, but she is happily married. Is she just a flirt or does that mean something?

2006-12-21 02:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by Brian 4

my husband is a good man and i know he loves me.but am in love with another and i dont want to leave my husband becos it aint right, besides this other man isnt gonna marry me.but am so crazy about him. i want to feel that way for my husband again. i want to stop loving this other man. i dont wanna lose my husband. but i cant get this man out of my blood.

2006-12-21 02:08:57 · 9 answers · asked by delish 1

2006-12-21 02:08:28 · 14 answers · asked by johnaspunk 1

Hmm...just curious what other ladies do.
You text message a guy back and forth (let's say you just met him couple days ago) and then he eventually asks, casually, what your plans are for for tonight or weekend (but he doesn't actually ask you out).

What do you do (if you want him to ask you out) ...do you just tell him you have no plans? What's the best way to answer his question?

2006-12-21 02:08:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-12-21 02:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by India 1

If someone of the opposite gender hugs you (when the door is closed) every time they see you does it mean any thing?

2006-12-21 02:06:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 02:06:34 · 39 answers · asked by ? 6

i had this relationship with this guy, he's really sweet and stuff like a perfect gentleman but still hot, well we took it pretty deep and did... stuff. i mean we didnt have sex but took it all the way almost there, then later i kinda drifted apart from him. he's really heartbroken though and he calls me everyday and comes up to my place and sends me emails...

"girl i love you so much. you're so hot like a little sex kitten please take me back i can't live without you..."

and so on, it's tearing me apart i don't know what to do!

especially cos i kinda miss him too, but i wanna take an emotional break.

2006-12-21 02:05:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i broke up with him on august 23 on that day i'm realy happy
but as day past by, i got sadder and sadder, then i saw him with his new "gf" i guesse he had moved on... and so i decided to move on too, i had two new bf's after that incedent, but it only lasted a week or so, it has been 120 days and i'm still craving for him! one time he asked me if i want to go back with him, i really want too but i said no, now i am confused!please help me

2006-12-21 02:03:51 · 13 answers · asked by silent_midn8t 1

He ended it with me over another reason. After 2 weeks, we decided to give it a try but i sensed something was goin on between them but he said I was assuming. After I found out he went for the movies with her without telling me, i ended it. The both of them then really got together but he realized that it was absurd because she was seperated and is older. He then told me the truth about them. Saying we were borken up before they really got together. I was hurt because what I assumed was true and he said he ended it with her because it was a dumb mistake. I think the so called relationship-he built a gap with her-didnt see each other..he was distant,etc was about a month plus. He says he doesnt feel anything for her just care. He wants to work it out between us but all my friends says I shudnt because of the way he treated me before the breakup (he was acting distant,lying). I am angry and hurt but something tells me i shud forgive him cause he was crying and regrets...

2006-12-21 02:03:18 · 20 answers · asked by honeyz 2

2006-12-21 02:03:02 · 6 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

well it's just a simple relationship question really. haha and an ancient one i might add. is there a cure for it?

2006-12-21 02:01:50 · 2 answers · asked by maryam m 1

It seems like lately I always see black guys and white girls together. Is there something black guys have (besides being bigger) that I dont know about?

2006-12-21 02:01:47 · 17 answers · asked by Hanna J 1

2006-12-21 02:01:21 · 2 answers · asked by nico g 1

ok, this little 7th grader has asked me out like 5 times and i am an eighth grader and yesterday he wrote me two letters asking me to go out with him and then he came up to me after school and asked me what my answer was. but i didnt know what to tell him because i dont want to hurt his feelings. if you have any advice please let me know. thanks!

2006-12-21 01:59:05 · 7 answers · asked by cheerleader for life 1

He is a great kid, quite , responsible and accountable. For the most part no problems. Last night a young girl called and left a crazy message on the phone yelling for him to pick up the phone, he was sleep in bed at 10pm. I quickly picked up the phone and told her to "NEVER CALL AT THIS HOUR AGAIN" This morning I had him listen to her message and disscussed it with him. I told him I can't choose your friends, but be careful of the friend you choose, he or she represents you and also told him to handle it. This is his first experience, that I know of anyway, he never gave me any reason to distrust him.

2006-12-21 01:57:01 · 13 answers · asked by cathymyres 1

I am just reflecting today.... You know, being so close to the Xmas season.

I broke up with my ex a few months back as he had expressed an interest in wanting to be in a 3some with me and another man. He wanted to suck, taste, and feel another man with me. We went as far as to dress him like a woman, in which I took him from behind to see if he would like the feeling. He did. I got scared and left..... what would you have done??????

Honest answers please.... is it normal for a guy to crave another man like that? I mean, wanting to be dressed like a woman and treated like one??

2006-12-21 01:56:35 · 23 answers · asked by FILLME 2