2006-12-21 02:12:36 · 55 answers · asked by Mikey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nice idea but sometimes we have to share
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2006-12-23 02:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, life is too complicated for that. It depends on how you live your life and how many people you meet. I mean look at the superstars. Why do they change partners like they are changing underwear? It's the lives they lead.
When you lead a simple life, one partner will likely do you for life because your life doesn't take you into other complex scenarios.
When you are constantly re-inventing yourself as hollywood people do...too many factors come in to screw up and tempt you.
So just remember there is a price to be had for EVERYTHING in this world.
You have to decide what you want out of life and then make a conscious decision to stick to it. That doesn't guarantee a damn thing however.
You can love someone with all your heart...but if they die or don't stay with you...you can mend and learn to love again. You won't be fooled into some fairy tail the second time around and you just may have learned something and pick someone who might fill your needs better too.
All you learn from life in the end is that the more you live it, the less you really know about anything.
2006-12-21 02:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I don't. And I think this is not a helpful way of looking at relationships.
Of course compatibility is important. People from similar backgrounds and with similar interests and outlooks on life are more likely to have a successful relationship than people who don't have these things in common.
But just as important as finding the right person is what you do with that person once you've found them.
Relationships are not easy. They need commitment, compromise and effort to make them work.
It would be nice to think you could just meet someone and everything in your life would be perfect from then on.
This NEVER happens. Believe me.
2006-12-21 02:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Otherwise how would we pick someone to spend the rest of our lives with? Divorce- that's what it's called when you picked the wrong person the first time. True love is the one perfect match for you; the other half of your soul you didn't know was missing until you met them.
I believe when God made all of us he head our lifelong partner in mind. What we would need from each other, and how we would work together. Only one person can truly complete you.
2006-12-21 02:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Keli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do, but we don't always find them, sometimes we might not even recognise them. We choose the one we think is right, then you take off those rose tinted glasses and see them for who they really are and it's not always good, that's why there are so many divorces.
We have this idea in our heads what is the ideal partner, so we will bypass all the other who don't match up, yet amongst all that lot we have discarded, could be the one true love of our lives, but we'll never know.
Maybe we'll have to wait for the next lifetime to find them.
2006-12-21 02:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by pampurredpuss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do believe there is someone out there for everyone. im not saying they are perfect as every one has their faults big or small. it has took me alot of heart ache and hurt to find the right person for me and i am now 39. but i dont look at the past i look to the future and this special person is going to make me happy for the rest of my life as he is my lover, best friend, soul mate and the most wonderful man i could ever wish to meet. i never thought i would ever feel like this but i was wrong so the people out there who think it will never happen to me it will believe me but it will happen when you least expect it .
2006-12-21 02:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by kjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are alot of perfect matches for everyone in this world the problem is finding one of them before you get the wrong one.It is very hard to even know what the right person is it is not always what you think.
2006-12-21 02:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by tujungarocket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a romantic way of thinking, so in that sense, I want to say "yes". ...just like the little boy in "Love Actually" when he indicates the 13 year old girl he is in love with is THE ONE AND ONLY. But, on the other hand....if there's really only one.... it would be awfully hard with 1 billion plus people on this planet to find your "one".......I think if you open yourself to new experiences, you will find many "ones" who can fulfill your interests, that you can love and will love you back! Lucky those who feel they found this perfect person already and he or she is THE ONE!
2006-12-21 02:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by lotsaanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, there are so many people out there that it would be impossible for there to be just 1 to 1 personal relationships. And don`t forget, there is the unfortunate events like break ups and deaths that can lead to a person finding another partner.
2006-12-21 02:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive there is a soulmate for everyone..... I started to stop beleiving that when i had bad luck in love, but since I met my girlfriend, and seen how amazing our relationship is even when she has to put up with my quirks that turned off every other girl I ever dated, I have to beleive that it was meant to be, that it was our fate to meet and fall in love and we were made for each other. In some people's cases, there may be two or three right persons, but for most people, I think there is one person that they were meant to be with.
2006-12-21 02:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I believe there are probably a few suitable people for each of us. Some have more of the "fun" qualities, some have more of the "similar interests" qualities - I don't think you very often will find EVERYTHING you want completely in one person.
2006-12-21 02:17:48 · answer #11 · answered by I saw whatudid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋