Singles & Dating - 21 December 2006

Look, I am aware that a girl can change her emotions and feeling towards a boy whom she once rejected. But, what can cause her to do so? Kindness? Attention? Thank you

2006-12-21 01:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2

I have been engaged for three years to a man that lives 2,000 miles away. He just moved there and is not moving here. I am scared to leave my job, my family, my friends to go there and be with him. He says that is the only option. He offered to move here once, but I could not ask him to do it at the time. He has a good job now, but he had problems holding a job in the past, that's why he moved to his new location. My family is extremely important to me and my mother is my best friend and they live 5 minutes away from me. Neither she nor my father are in the best of health and there are no other family members are here to take care of them when they are older. I can't eat, sleep, deal with this. I am in love with him and he is in love with me. Is love enough? I am 35 years old. I've never been married and I'd like to have children. I have known my fiance for over 10 years and know that he is very much in love with me. It would not be easy for me to come home very often.

2006-12-21 01:54:46 · 23 answers · asked by SelfGrill 3

from past few days I have seen her watches me wether i am in the class or not.and when i look at her she turns her face

2006-12-21 01:51:53 · 17 answers · asked by meet_adnan_786 1

I am happily divorced, but the Holidays make me feel like I am missing out on some loved-up dreamy "couple life" that probably doesn't even exist. What is it about Christmas that does this to people???

2006-12-21 01:51:15 · 26 answers · asked by Its Scarlett 2 U 1

meaning talking just about them

2006-12-21 01:51:12 · 9 answers · asked by joi r 1

I divorced at a early age which is typical now a days. My ex-husband cheated on me. I have dated married men, mostly because I knew where they went home to every night. And if they said they were going to do something they did it. They were men of there words. Mostly older men. However all the single men I have met have someone else and are trying to talk to me at the same time. I don't believe in this internet meeting, and the bar I hang out at is full of males that are dogs. I have become good friends with all of them and I know there wives and girlfriends. But i'm still left all alone. I'm 29 years old and I have almost given up on meeting someone that can be to one person and has his life in tact. I grew up at an early age, and many have told me since I was 17, im more mature then the average person my age. Christmas is really taking a depressing toll on me and my family is 12hours away. What can I do to get out of this depression.

2006-12-21 01:49:51 · 20 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2

2006-12-21 01:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by Rogernyc 1

It all started in July when I & my gf had s3x. It was my 1st time & she said it was her too. When I later realised that she's cheatin on me, I decided to end the relationship. But I couldnt spot the storm that would screw my life up. In Aug, she calls me up & says she's probably pregnant. I was shocked when she said this as I had not c*mmed in her. After her call, I seriously thought abt jumpin off my balcony. I couldnt face myself. After the tests, she called me up & said she's pregnant & that she needs money for abortion. I told my Mom abt it & she said she was just tryin to get the money & she cant be preg & stuff. I broke off all ties wid her & she screwed my repute among all my net pals.
But since then, I feel scared to goto her city as I think I'll get screwed up if we meet again though it wasnt my fault. My Mom says life doesnt stop for no1 but everyday, I live under the fear that what if she sees me somewer?

2006-12-21 01:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 01:47:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex have been doing really good lately it's like we never even broke up.We been together 6 years we have been apart for about 6 months.At first I had a hard time accepting the break up then as time went on i accepted it.When i did that and starting thinking positive he started coming around more and now i can't get rid of him, we have been having fun together having long conversations on the phone again he invited me to his friends party and his family Christmas dinner.I told him i was moving soon he said well don't decorate it too girly because i might move in with you.I do want him to but he said he still hasn't made his mind up about us getting back together right now.He is still around me,he calls me everyday things are getting back to how our relationship was, i asked him why doesn't he want to committ to me again he said it was nothing wrong with me and he doesn't have any problems with me and next year he wants things to be perfect for us and he brought up marriage?

2006-12-21 01:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by imacutie2 2

Is there a way to know before you date a chick if her nipples will resemble tomatoe slices? I like them in my salad but not on my boobs.

2006-12-21 01:44:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like him, but i want 2 no if he feels the same way.

no more beating the bushes;im going to do this.

is there another way to ask "dyu like me" less directly.

and im NOT going to ask him out yet.

2006-12-21 01:44:23 · 15 answers · asked by egaboo23 1

Girls.

Lets say the guy you've been dating recently reveals he's still a virgin. Would you find this actually commendable and something you could have fun with, or a nuisance, obviously because he's going to be lackluster due to inexperience.

I'm not stating whether virginity is a good or bad thing, what im referring to is your personal expression and assessment of this would be lover.

Thank you in advance.

2006-12-21 01:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 01:43:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hope you can help with this!!

I saw this guy for a couple of months. We texted each other all the time and got on really well but it was only fairly casual because we were both newly single. However we were only seeing and sleeping with one another.

He confided in me about things in his past and we could talk about anything. However I think he may have regretted being so open as he was a little distant after that. He has a lot of baggage but nothing phases me and he knew that. We didn't meet as regularly but then he suddenly severed all contact two weeks ago.

I know he hasn't lost his phone and nothing has happened to him, so he obviously just didn't want to see me any more. I feel a bit used but am more offended as we had a good friendship if nothing else. Anyway, I know I'll see him out over Christmas & I'll be dressed to kill!

Should I just ignore him or should I give him the time of day if he approaches me? I WON'T be sleeping with him again by the way!

2006-12-21 01:38:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well sorry if the below is a bit long one.I am a 27 Year old Hindu / Brahmin software engineer born and spent my student life in a small city in India..Very cultured and educated guy.I work for an investment bank in Singapore..I have seen quite a bit of Big cities/and western culture..since my professional life.I never loved any woman nor even got attaracted to.I am not a kinda BF/GF concept guy.I believe in strong permanent relationship.Recently accidentally i met some one at breakfast place , she is a Christian 30 year old beautiful lady works as a business development manager.I and she both go to the same place for breakfast and used to see each other..We after sometime started smiling at
each other.Finally one day i talked to her as well....she seemed pretty intrested in me...the way she looked at me...the qustions she asked...I have asked myself the below questions..to really clarify if mine is a Love/ attraction-infatuation which ppl say young guys..get confused with....

2006-12-21 01:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anand Kulkarni 1

2006-12-21 01:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, what do you look at first on a girl from the neck up? her nose? her smile? her hair?

2006-12-21 01:37:19 · 24 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

This guy saw my pic online and began chatting with me...he told me that he likes me but then when i started feeling the same he became so busy with work...now i don't get to talk to him anymore, i don't know if he's still interested. We are in two different countries and i really feel bad not knowing where i stand...what will i do?

2006-12-21 01:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by ticktock 1

so 5 years ago I meet the most lovely man - we get on so well, +everything is great but he's from the other side of the world.Unexpectedly he decides to leave,but we stay in touch on a sporadic basis +2 years later when I'm over his side of the world we get together again - my visa is about to run out but again it was so good I thought we'd be able to work something out.But he got involved with a girl down the road instead - it was "easier" that way.Still we stayed in touch on a sometimes regular, sometimes not so regular (depending on whether we were single or not) basis+ this year decided to give it another try & met up again. He reckoned that he had always liked me a lot, but he'd got scared - scared of getting hurt, scared of the distance.Once again-met up-amazing.But since then hes totally put up a shield.He still seems to like speaking to me +sent me bday card, but he never phones & when I ask he doesnt know what he wants.Any ideas about what might be going on?I'm confused!!

2006-12-21 01:37:02 · 2 answers · asked by Alex 5

do they just play the field until then rather than have any sort of relationship?

2006-12-21 01:36:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend, we've been together for 3 months,but I fell in love with my guy friend. I'm totally confused, don't want to hurt anyone, or act unfair. I'm going bonkers, don't know what to do. I'm 21 years old. I don't think I'm ready to leave my boyfriend, but I keep thinking about this other guy ALL THE TIME. Both of them are in love with me, my bf doesn't know about my dilemma, guy friend knows I have a bf. I didn't cheat on my bf, but I'm VERY tempted to do it, but I really don't want to cheat!!!!Meanwhile guy friend left home 4 Christmas, and I'm with my boyfriend thinking about him =/ . Please help.

2006-12-21 01:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by hefalump20 1

I'm alone and i wouldlike to talk to a girl, see you later...

2006-12-21 01:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by checcostabia 2

I have dated the same guy on and off since 5 th grade .I am know 19 and have no dating experience or very little.I am really shy and quiet too.Look wise i am usually described as cute or pretty but not hot.I will be transfering to a four year college and am nervous.How do i learn how to date and meet new people/friends?

2006-12-21 01:34:07 · 7 answers · asked by Miranda W 1

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months- We are getting pretty serious. I spent $300 dollars on him and bought his little sister a few things. I think his mother has bought me a few small things. And he bought my parents something. Should I buy her something? If so... What- And how much should i spend?

2006-12-21 01:31:01 · 19 answers · asked by CountryGirlygirl 2

2006-12-21 01:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by mdzakirahamed 1

I was in a wedding this past weekend and met this amazing guy. Only problem is, he has a g-friend. But we really hit it off and he smiled at me the whole wekkend. Then this past tuesday we went on a date together and he told me that he just knew his current girlfriend was not "THE ONE". But he said he wasnt going to break up with her until he sees if I really like him, a security issue I guess. Any other guy I would just ditch but this guy is amaazing. We really have something special. He is coming over for dinner tonight. What do I do?

2006-12-21 01:29:38 · 36 answers · asked by Kamryn's Mommie 2

what bis the difference between gettin head and a bj

2006-12-21 01:29:22 · 6 answers · asked by BigBat 2

I met this close to perfect guy........ about 8 months ago. we began dating 3 months ago and still are. He has broke up with me one time and dated my best friend for like 3 hrs then called me told me he wanted me back so he called her on 3-way and broke up w/ her........ do you think he was just trying to make me jealous or really wanted her b/c he still talks to her and constantly asking about her... i love him so much but should i break up with him b/c the fear of getting hurt is killing me but thn its gonna hurt even more if i break up with him

2006-12-21 01:29:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica S 2

i have a guy at my school!i like him and he likes me he asked me out.the problem is that im taller than him by a head.what should i do?should i say yes or should i say no!please hhheeelllppp!people.

2006-12-21 01:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous