so 5 years ago I meet the most lovely man - we get on so well, +everything is great but he's from the other side of the world.Unexpectedly he decides to leave,but we stay in touch on a sporadic basis +2 years later when I'm over his side of the world we get together again - my visa is about to run out but again it was so good I thought we'd be able to work something out.But he got involved with a girl down the road instead - it was "easier" that way.Still we stayed in touch on a sometimes regular, sometimes not so regular (depending on whether we were single or not) basis+ this year decided to give it another try & met up again. He reckoned that he had always liked me a lot, but he'd got scared - scared of getting hurt, scared of the distance.Once again-met up-amazing.But since then hes totally put up a shield.He still seems to like speaking to me +sent me bday card, but he never phones & when I ask he doesnt know what he wants.Any ideas about what might be going on?I'm confused!!
2006-12-21 01:37:02 · 2 answers · asked by Alex 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he loves you but doesn't want to deal with a long distance relationship at the moment
2006-12-21 01:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are a convient international booty call. Or maybe he just figures it could never work out because of the whole different country-visa thing.
2006-12-21 09:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tedo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋