I have a boyfriend, we've been together for 3 months,but I fell in love with my guy friend. I'm totally confused, don't want to hurt anyone, or act unfair. I'm going bonkers, don't know what to do. I'm 21 years old. I don't think I'm ready to leave my boyfriend, but I keep thinking about this other guy ALL THE TIME. Both of them are in love with me, my bf doesn't know about my dilemma, guy friend knows I have a bf. I didn't cheat on my bf, but I'm VERY tempted to do it, but I really don't want to cheat!!!!Meanwhile guy friend left home 4 Christmas, and I'm with my boyfriend thinking about him =/ . Please help.
2006-12-21 01:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by hefalump20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is time to grow up. You have been unfaithful at-least emotionally with your boyfriend. He trusted you to keep his best interests in mind. You crossed the line with this other guy because you said you had feelings for him and discussed these feelings with this guy. You need to break it off and remember to set that line a bit farther away next time. People can have friends of the opposite sex, but you must keep in mind situations like this can occur. If you tell your boyfriend, expect him to react strongly.
2006-12-21 01:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose. Sorry but it is the only way. I know it is tough to break up with someone before Xmas so maybe you should not see the other guy over Xmas and think about what it is you want and give yourself time to decide. If you can't lie without the other gyu then you have to finish your bf. You can't keep 2 of them on the go esp if the other bloke knows about your bf. How do you think your bf will feel if he finds out?
2006-12-21 09:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you call out the other guy's name during a romantic interlude with your "boyfriend" the whole situation will clear itself up.
2006-12-21 09:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋