I met this close to perfect guy........ about 8 months ago. we began dating 3 months ago and still are. He has broke up with me one time and dated my best friend for like 3 hrs then called me told me he wanted me back so he called her on 3-way and broke up w/ her........ do you think he was just trying to make me jealous or really wanted her b/c he still talks to her and constantly asking about her... i love him so much but should i break up with him b/c the fear of getting hurt is killing me but thn its gonna hurt even more if i break up with him
2006-12-21 01:29:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You AND your best friend should both forget about this "close to perfect guy". With his behaviour it wouldn't be suprising if he went out with another of your friends for 3 WHOLE hours. Don't let him come in between your friendship. Definitely lose him.
2006-12-21 03:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pfannkuchen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would never date my best friends guy unless they had been apart a while and she didnt care if I dated him. If he still talks to her that is o.k. but constant asking about her leads me to believe he still interested in her. What does she have to say about all this? How can you get so attached in 3 hrs that you hafta keep asking all the time and how do you know he's not creeping around behind your back. I would get more info before breaking up, but be careful of what you might find out.
2006-12-21 09:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him for sure. You are going to get hurt even more if you stay with him. It sounds like he was only dating you to get to your friend. He obviously has interest in her, maybe she didn't reciprocate the feelings like he had hoped that is why he went back to you. Dump him and find someone who is going to love you not your friends!
2006-12-21 09:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...this time of year is a good time to grow up and get on with life. If you've broken up once and he went to your "best friend" for solace then that's where you will find him next time, too.
2006-12-21 09:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and forget this guy.........there are alot of fish in the sea!
2006-12-21 09:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be sooooooo dumped
2006-12-21 09:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by bikerchick77_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should
2006-12-21 09:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋