Me and my ex have been doing really good lately it's like we never even broke up.We been together 6 years we have been apart for about 6 months.At first I had a hard time accepting the break up then as time went on i accepted it.When i did that and starting thinking positive he started coming around more and now i can't get rid of him, we have been having fun together having long conversations on the phone again he invited me to his friends party and his family Christmas dinner.I told him i was moving soon he said well don't decorate it too girly because i might move in with you.I do want him to but he said he still hasn't made his mind up about us getting back together right now.He is still around me,he calls me everyday things are getting back to how our relationship was, i asked him why doesn't he want to committ to me again he said it was nothing wrong with me and he doesn't have any problems with me and next year he wants things to be perfect for us and he brought up marriage?
2006-12-21 01:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he either needed some time to explore other options or he really didn't know what he was missing until you took your 6 month break. Either way, he is back with you know and it seems like it is everything that you want so why complain.
2006-12-21 01:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tedo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is really interested. Maybe he found a girl he thinks he likes but isnt sure about yet. And he still likes you, obviously. He could just be thinking about whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, or if he wants to talk to this other girl and just keep dating. Give him time because it may turn out better than you think it will. On the other hand he could be considering if you guys act more like friends than a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. You could just ask him about it and pressure him into answering, or you can just let time go by and stay close with him to see what happens. But the fact that he wants to move in with you, and that he brought up marriage it sounds like he just cant get over you!
2006-12-21 09:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by sexyg0pher770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why men irritate me. They say one thing, do somtehing else. Actions speak louder than words though. Sounds like he is still very confused and is just throwing you for a loop. Enjoy Christmas, the holidays, hang out, but don't let your emotions get caught in the way. Cause it seems he does not know whether he still wants to get together and is feeding you pretty words in place of that while he makes up his mind. Don't. Wait.
Life is too short to be waiting for some guy who doesn't know whether he wants to be with you or not.
2006-12-21 09:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't jump ahead too quickly. And don't move in together. Moving in together is a sure sign of relational disaster (if not right away then over time....check the statistics). Keep on dating until the two of you come to a consensus - or, if neither of you is sure what you want, see other people and expand your search. Don't tie yourself down prematurely. Good luck!
2006-12-21 09:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This funny,dont ask question when you know the answers.
2006-12-21 09:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by mr bad ii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and stop talking to him!!!
2006-12-21 09:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your gut feeling it is usaully right
2006-12-21 09:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he still wants you.
2006-12-21 09:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋