Singles & Dating - 21 December 2006

She flirted before I told her. I told her I could see myself with her, and she freaked. We remained friends, and she flirts heavier than ever now. Now, I like her a lot! Is it a good idea for me to tell her? If so, how? I see her tonight, and I could pull her aside...

2006-12-21 03:29:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl who I had a relationship with for two years and "claimed" to be my soul mate comes to see me from Canada and all she does is complain that I didn't wine and dine her and she made fun of my studio apartment???

2006-12-21 03:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by michael h 3

He and I have been together for about 6 months and are planning on getting engaged around July (Im 23 Hes 27). We are very very happy. But his ex (who dumped him last June or so) will NOT GO AWAY!
She texts all the time. He was ignoring it until about a month ago when he wrote something like "Please leave me alone. We cant be friends right now, Im in a new relationship and very happy". Well, it worked for awhile but on Monday she wrote him saying she knows she mesed up and was sorry. He didnt write back \. (Im not mad at him for this, he cant controll her actions). Then she wrote AGAIN last night and said "I know I mesed up. I was really sh*tty to you and Im sorry. Please give me a chance to appologize in person." He told me to write back as myself and I wrote "Hey, this is Amber, Alan is asleep but I will tell him you said so". She didnt write back yet, but I know she will.

What can we say (nicely, shes nuts) to make her finally just leave us alone? Do we have to be mean?

2006-12-21 03:28:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my b/f of 3 yrs has two other email address' and i got into them and found out he's using them for dating. how should i confront him?

2006-12-21 03:27:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf his so picky, she doesnt want roses, she doesnt wear jewelry much, she doesnt like t.v. much, she likes to read but i already bought her 2 books for our anniversary. Is there any other ideas on what to get her?

2006-12-21 03:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by S man 2

Okay. I've liked this boy for as long as i've known him, but I don't think he likes me now. I also just got out of a relationship, so I dunno if i should wait a while or not. HELP!

2006-12-21 03:25:57 · 6 answers · asked by lonelygurl492 1

What do you call a girl who doesnt sleep around but talks to alot of guys at one time. And usually plays with there hearts. Thrives for guys attention and then tosses them to the side once they get emotionaly attached. And never commits to any of them. Is there a name for these types of girls?

2006-12-21 03:25:17 · 22 answers · asked by Whatever... 1

I am 13. There's this girl I really like at school. She knows I like her, but never speaks to me. Yesterday, I split up from school for the holidays. I don't know whether I should continue to try to talk to her when I go back (or whether that will annoy her). When it first came out to all my friends that I liked her I got some to ask her out 4 me. But I still have no idea and don't know whether going back after two weeks and asking her whether she'll be mad as I won't give it a rest. What should I do? Forget asking her out - or continue to try when I get back. As i say, i still do not know whether she REALLY likes me or not.

2006-12-21 03:23:47 · 25 answers · asked by weezfinder 2

He and I have only been friends for 3 months and i'm ready to end the friendship because I think he's just interested in my car and the fact that I work two jobs. He's unemployed and goes to the same college as me. He claims that he is a senior but all i know is that he's been in school for a while. What do you think?

2006-12-21 03:23:05 · 14 answers · asked by Justice 1

I left my b/f yesterday after many issues with non trust, jealousy, not wanting to work, well to tell you the truth hes physco. I have been spending alot of time with one of our friends and we have become very close,he knew our problems and saw things happening . Now how do i explain this to my ex. The ex keeps calling and begging but my feelings are gone for him. Remember hes a mental patient.

2006-12-21 03:22:59 · 29 answers · asked by melissas69er 3

he's a sophomore and he's so damn fine!!

2006-12-21 03:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by sexychocolate91 3

I really would love to get me another boyfriend...but i don't want to date unless i know that we love each other....should i wait even if it could be like forever until i find someone who loves me for who i am?
I am trying to be patient...but sometimes i just want to be loved! how can i deal with this emotional baggage?

2006-12-21 03:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by amy-j 2

what was it like?

2006-12-21 03:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by suzzieQ 2

Ofcourse at 12 or 13 or 14 years old, you can't really be in love, with at some point we all felt like we were. Why is it so hard to give advice you would have liked to have because you've been there and know how it feels? Or where you simply born an experienced wise adult?

Or maybe you think that if you simply tell a young boy or girl not to have romantic feelings for the opposite sex, they won't because that worked with you when you were young?

2006-12-21 03:21:24 · 5 answers · asked by Chris D 4

Hi, I have known my boyfriend for 7 years, we went to high school together and hung out all the time.. I went away to the military for 2 years and came back... one year after that we started hanging out again and then became bf/gf. He had changed a little and one thing I noticed is that he is always gloating about how pretty he is and all this other stuff... I feel like he plays little games sometimes.. when he knows I am calling him and he doesn't pick up the phone.. I think he does it to make me wonder about him more. I have also been with people in the past that are pretty decent communicators, but it seems like with him...he communicates in the strangest way... says he's absolutely fine with me doing something or another, and he sounds really sincere... but in all actuality, he can't stand the thought of me doing it.. he just doesn't want me to know! I think he's really afraid of me losing intrest in him and that's why he plays his unavailable games ...and does other stuff.

2006-12-21 03:19:44 · 8 answers · asked by underwaterer1 2

My boyfriend is about to break up with me because I always use the bathroom with the door open when he comes to my house and when we go out in public I laugh at people he says im acting immature What should I do?

2006-12-21 03:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here latley my life has been crazy! Everything seems to be falling apart! Nothing turns out right! So, My question is how do you become over your depression stage? I hate it and wish so muh that one day i could honestly say that i love myself (not in a preppy way) but in a way that i am comfortable with myself!! What do i do or why is this happening???

2006-12-21 03:18:35 · 1 answers · asked by jasonsbabyforever 1

I spilt with my boyfriend of 6 months last week after he was having doubts and also cheated on me twice. When we met last week (on the day I found out he cheated from his ex-girlfriend!), I gave him the diamond ring he gave me back saying it would be too painful and upsetting to wear. He was upset I gave it back but took it.

We're meeting up tomorrow night for dinner as he wants to give me my Christmas Presents (I already gave him his last week). I was hoping there might be a chance of reconciliation and that we could work through things but I'm realising that I'm fooling myself - he doesn't love me and just wants to move on.

But I've been thinking this week and I would like the ring back. He gave it to me because it was a sign of his commitment to me at that time, am I wrong to want that memory still if I need to move on?

Does this make any sense to anyone else?!

2006-12-21 03:18:20 · 13 answers · asked by imalandamcuteasabutton 1

this guy knew from the start that I had no intentions on getting with him. now he is blaming me for his life being so bad because he was hoping that I would have falling for him. I'm sorry but I only saw dollar signs and that has always been the arraingment between us. if he did not have no money i would not spend no time with him. do you think that i led him on? I was always honest and told him to make sure he was dating other women that would care for him the way he wanted. he stated this situation and now he wants me to change sorry i have no feelings for him.

2006-12-21 03:17:54 · 15 answers · asked by Cowgirl Joe 2

my friend has a asian girlfriend and we hang out all the time and we have so much fun i think i would like to be able to find one if anyone know any that woud be interersted in a white boy

2006-12-21 03:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by KcKc 1

I know this guy from childhood and he lives in my neighborhood, he is so freindly and sweet. He hang out with his cousin, she is so old fashioned, she wears her baggy jeans and a shrit and tie her hair up like a pony tail. Shes like a Guy. I don't think that he like her, she is just a friend nothing more.

Now, I found myself that i love him and i fallen in love with him and I think he likes me but we didn't admit to eachother.

My family and his family (and his cousin) went for Camping and we had fun togather, we went fishing and we talked about many things.

My mother told me to share a tent with him as a brother, i didn't mind, its fine.

The next morning i saw him drinking a cup of tea and eating his breakfast with his cousin, they were talking, i went to the wash my face and get dressed. Then we went for walking and i saw some insect on my clothes, i screamed and was frightened, i was jumping and weeping!!!omg!!!

she came and pushed me on my face, and told me,, "Stop acting stupid in front of him, or else you will see” . I told her, “there is nothing you can do to me, I’ve done nothing wrong”, he came and told her “Piss off and get lost, Zenon”, she was upset and went….he holded my hand and helped me get up.

I hate her, I hate her! I hate his cousin!
And from that day she is calling me manly, I think she is jealous, what can I do to stop her from doing this, she is hurting me, I want her to understand that she is manly and not me.????? Help???

Thanks for answering! Merry Christmas!

2006-12-21 03:15:39 · 14 answers · asked by Joelle 2

i am romantic, caring, a bit jelouse and would love to get to know some one like me. locito03@yahoo.com

2006-12-21 03:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by locito03 1

i like this instructor who works at the local gym, Whenever i go there, he always chats to me for about 45 mins to an hour on a one to one about all kinds of stuff, he always asks me to go in when he is working, he tells me the times of when he was working and asks me to go in and see him. He came into the gym looking for me once too. He has given me compliments and also walked me to my car the once, and I never notice him talking to any other girls! He has a girlfriend but has recently split with her, and he told my friend that he knows that i like him and that he doesnt want to lead me on, so now I'm really confused, it really seemed like he liked me, could it be it's too soon for him? do you think he likes me at all?

2006-12-21 03:14:09 · 17 answers · asked by babygirl 1

Hi,
My ex broke up with me and she told me that she didn't want to get back with me.
so then on that very same day I hung out with the other girl and became her bf for like few days. I wasn't interested in that girl. I guess I was pissed at her and wanted to be over with her. However while I was out with the other girl I started to miss my ex. So then I decided to end my relationship with the new girl because I don't really love the new girl. My ex stills like me and we still hang out.
Should I tell my ex about it or I shouldn't ? By the way, my ex knows about that girl but then she didn't know I was dating with her. My old ex wanted to hang out with her. Should I let them hang out together ? Or is it dangerous ? Thanks

2006-12-21 03:13:25 · 8 answers · asked by Lomus 2

A few weeks ago, I had a one night fling with a guy from school. After we all had went out for drinks and started fooling around. Well, I didn't quite "finish" the job, we were both quite intoxicated. I saw him a couple days after and we didn't talk about it. Now, it's all I can think about. Next semester starts in 2 weeks, should I wait to see him then or try to contact him now. He was so incredibly arousing that I just want to try it again with him. I am afraid that he won't do it now because he's not intoxicated. He was aggressive and totally into it, before I left he told me that he was into me the first time he saw me and that I was beautiful....etc. I don't know if he regrets it, if he wants to discuss it, try it again, remembers most of it, embarrased by it. I need advice..should I wait until school starts and not mention it? Any ideas?

2006-12-21 03:12:41 · 7 answers · asked by brevly 1

i get these men that are with me for mad long then dumps me but they keep callen me even if they got a girlfriend in there lives please help me

2006-12-21 03:12:26 · 3 answers · asked by diamond 1

You all know you have been faced with this issue.....which one did you do or do you do on a normal basis?

2006-12-21 03:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2

2006-12-21 03:10:17 · 16 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6

I have become close friends with a girl who I think wants more. I keep disappointing her because I am conflicted inside about liking her. Would this poem help her understand? This is how I feel about it. She flirts a lot, and I just do not know what to do!

Friends we are,
And friends we were.
Friends we shall stay,
I said to her.

But deep down inside,
I just could not hide,
The feelings I have,
The ones I denied.

For my head and my heart,
They stretch different ways.
And as they war on,
I feel different some days.

So what should I say?
And what should I do?
These feelings crop up,
I fight to get through.

A tap I ignore,
A hug that frustrates!
This adds a third element,
Almost as bait.

And before me a hook,
Dangles to and fro.
Should I bite it or not?
I just don't know!

So I ask you ,
What would you do,
If you were me,
And I was you?

2006-12-21 03:09:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my pakistani man for 5 years is so rude to me. he works 7 days, never spends time with me or my 3 kids, and treats me like a servant.last night i just got fed up and punched him dead in the lip, he got a bump.. he stratched my neck, now he is sleeping on the couch. do u think this was the proper thing to do..

2006-12-21 03:08:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous