A few weeks ago, I had a one night fling with a guy from school. After we all had went out for drinks and started fooling around. Well, I didn't quite "finish" the job, we were both quite intoxicated. I saw him a couple days after and we didn't talk about it. Now, it's all I can think about. Next semester starts in 2 weeks, should I wait to see him then or try to contact him now. He was so incredibly arousing that I just want to try it again with him. I am afraid that he won't do it now because he's not intoxicated. He was aggressive and totally into it, before I left he told me that he was into me the first time he saw me and that I was beautiful....etc. I don't know if he regrets it, if he wants to discuss it, try it again, remembers most of it, embarrased by it. I need advice..should I wait until school starts and not mention it? Any ideas?
2006-12-21 03:12:41 · 7 answers · asked by brevly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sold yourself pretty cheaply.
Why would you do a one night fling and expect a call from him later on.
Do not mistake lust for a relationship. He might have totally been into you , but only for sex.
Wake up and smell the coffee, I am pretty sure you want a relationship, don't you? Or do you just trip off any guy who winks at you????
I can't believe you would be so excited about him calling you. Why would he, he got it for nothing. no relationship, no date,no dinner, no commitment.
You should look at how you are selling yourself to other people.... my god, don't you have any pride????
2006-12-21 03:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that we often don't communicate because of our own insecurities. If you really like the guy, I think you should just call him and talk to him. Say you had a good time and see how he reacts. You have to be strong enough to accept the rejection, however, if he does not respond positively. Alternatively, you could e-mail him. I wouldn't get too sappy but keep it simple.
Just my opinion.
PS I read some of the other comments. Those of you that assume it was a one night fling, she said they knew each other and go to school together. Stop being so judgmental.
2006-12-21 03:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him respond.
If he responds it reflects that he is interested in you.
No need to finish the job if the guy really isn't into you.
Why waste your time, too many fish in the sea.
If he responds back to you and shows continued interest you
didn't loose any of your pride searching for him.
2006-12-21 03:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it pass for now.
2006-12-21 03:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately wait. He will want it more!
2006-12-21 03:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by cinnycinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-21 03:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no
2006-12-21 03:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Adrianne w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋