I am 13. There's this girl I really like at school. She knows I like her, but never speaks to me. Yesterday, I split up from school for the holidays. I don't know whether I should continue to try to talk to her when I go back (or whether that will annoy her). When it first came out to all my friends that I liked her I got some to ask her out 4 me. But I still have no idea and don't know whether going back after two weeks and asking her whether she'll be mad as I won't give it a rest. What should I do? Forget asking her out - or continue to try when I get back. As i say, i still do not know whether she REALLY likes me or not.
2006-12-21 03:23:47 · 25 answers · asked by weezfinder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-21 03:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
What i think that you should probably do is call the girl and tell her whats going on.Tell her that you like her alot and you got your friends to ask her out for you and that your not sure what her answer was.Make sure she knows that your not trying to bug her or annoy her.Dont say the same thing over again for example"how much you like her","how bad you want to go out with her"etc.Be sure to give her a chance to express her feelings to you and let you know how she feels about the whole thing.If she says that she dont like you then just tell her o.k and leave it at that.Then you should try and move on and find someone else that you really like.Dont be nervous to call her or talk to her afterall the worst she can do is say no! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-12-21 03:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I agree with DC. When you go back to school don't even give her the time of day. Show her how happy you are and that you may have other interests. Don't over do the happiness though or she will suspect something just play it cool and don't stare at her all the time, maybe just a social glance and smile every now and then and then go on with what you are doing. Good luck your are young there will be plenty more girls for you.
2006-12-21 03:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by lisalup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should call her during the break. Show her you are serious even for being only 13. Ask her if she wants to walk in a mall or go see a movie since there are some really good ones out now!! Girls tend to be very shy at that age as they are going through a lot of changes and are really trying to accept who they are becoming...just be patient and if she feels the same you will know sooner or later. Maybe you could take one of your friends along with one of hers or something and just go have fun!
2006-12-21 03:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Firstly don't get your friends to talk to her for you, a girl appreciates the effort. Secondly don't spend too long thinking about this over the holiday enjoy yourself! Lastly when you go back to school don't approach the subject just try and talk to her, ask her if she had a nice Christmas or new year. This time of year is perfect, you will always have something to talk about. Relax at 13 you'll have lots more chances, but best of luck I'll keep my fingers crossed, and Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-21 03:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by joanna b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she like you too, or maybe she doesn't. Or maybes shes very confused. I would try writing her a quick note. Start off with, "I'm sorry if I've been annoying lately, but I wanted you to know that I think you are beautiful (we chicks love that stuff) and I really like you. If you have like me too, I would love to go out with you, take you on a date, to the dance, to see a movie...(insert one option here). She how she responds. Its better to do this or talk to her one on one because she is more reliable than your friends are.
2006-12-21 03:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lady K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel to her face and she will tell you whether she wants to go out with you or not. You may be hurt if not but at least you will know for sure and can move on.
2006-12-21 03:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend asked her out and you haven't heard back in two weeks then it doesn't sound like she is very keen.
Just play it cool, dude. If she thinks you have other 'interests' she might start showing a bit of interest in you.
If she doesn't then you may have to face facts that she doesn't want to go out with you. Good luck though.
2006-12-21 03:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her. What's the worst that can happen? Anyway, you're young enough to bounce back. It's better to ask 100 stunners out and be turned down 99 times then ask out 1 person that's kind of ok and always wonder what if...
Good luck!
2006-12-21 03:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by PhoenixRights 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
firstly, i htink it is lovely you asking that question when you are 13. secondly, i wonder if you planned to pay for her if she goes out and what would you both do? What i think u should do is just wait and see if she reacts ... she knows already you fancy her... don't push it... she may start talking to you or just looking at you discreetly. Keep your eyes open and she may send you signs of interest. Be diplomatic and subtle.
2006-12-21 03:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she had wanted to go out with you I think she would have let your friends know - that doesn't mean to say she doesn't like you- when you go back to school ask her all about her Christmas and be a friend to her, when you feel happy talking to her yourself, you can then jokingly suggest a date - then leave it up to her - I would much rather someone ask me out himself rather than get his friends to do it for him. Good luck
2006-12-21 03:42:43 · answer #11 · answered by PMF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋