my b/f of 3 yrs has two other email address' and i got into them and found out he's using them for dating. how should i confront him?
2006-12-21 03:27:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok he has to know all my emails and passwords and that is invading my privacy in the first place. that is what made me suspicious.
2006-12-21 03:33:52 · update #1
All through my growing up years, I heard, "two wrongs don't make a right." and it's true. Invading his privacy was wrong, just as his invading your privacy is wrong. But now that you know, it doesn't sound like there's enough trust there to save the relationship. My suggestion is to not bother confronting him, just break up. Move on and find somebody with whom you can share not only love but also trust. Without trust, a relationship doesn't stand a chance.
2006-12-21 03:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you get in again and send every girl he's been talking to an email and warn them that he has herpies. Tell them you just got back from the doctor and you got them. Tell them you've dated him 3 years and he must be out cheating with some skank women. Then email him a few days later under a friends email and set up a meeting and confront him when u meet him.
2006-12-21 11:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know his other two email addresses try creating a new one yourself and email him as a new girl. Then set up a meeting and have him meet you somewhere. If he does then you can catch him cheating and he'll have no way of backing out. Or you could just confront him in person and tell him you know what he's doing and see what he says.
2006-12-21 11:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, breaking into others mails is wrong to start with. BUT, now that you have found out, there doesn't even have to be confronting. Leave him, move out, go away, dump him! How dare he cheat on you?! If you guys had problems, he should have spoken about it or said that he can't reach a compromise and ended it with you. This isn't right. If he does this now, he will always be doing it. Find someone worth it, who will think you to be so worthy too.
2006-12-21 11:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward, this may be some off misunderstanding. Unfortunately you invaded his privacy by viewing his E-mail but this is an issue that needs to be talked about.
My advice is that if he is really "dating" behind your back, real face-to-face time with other women then it is time that you put yourself back on the market.
Sorry
2006-12-21 11:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by ceresia_blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! You must be really upset! I know I would be!!
Just confront him with what you found....to me, that's something that is totally not forgiveable, but to each his own....He is going to call you nosy and be mad at you for "invading his privacy" and "not trusting him" and he will try to turn it all around on YOU, but don't let him!!! HE's the one who messed up here, not you.
2006-12-21 11:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.First off i have 90 e-mail accounts no matter what you do there's spam everywhere even if he used them a long time ago they will still send you e-mails no matter how bad you try to get rid of them i wouldn't even say anything about it unless you can acutally catch him "cheating" on you then theres nothing really to do.Would piss him off alot more that you dont trust him and you have to snoop threw his personal e-mail accounts. Good luck
2006-12-21 11:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Blaze T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ... if he's dating someone else and you don't like it, it's time to move on. Even if you're the best one for him,he's for sure not the best for you! Print out the pages with messages and mail them to him. Let him explain this one to you. Good luck, Debbie
2006-12-21 11:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Deborah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him up, talk to him online. Set up a date and show up. See how far he will go online. That will tell you what he's been doing the entire time.
2006-12-21 11:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by phgl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not going to stop, he's just got busted. How freewill is this relationship? Would he be cool if you were doing things like this? Either stay with him til he leaves you or get out now.
2006-12-21 11:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋