I know this guy from childhood and he lives in my neighborhood, he is so freindly and sweet. He hang out with his cousin, she is so old fashioned, she wears her baggy jeans and a shrit and tie her hair up like a pony tail. Shes like a Guy. I don't think that he like her, she is just a friend nothing more.
Now, I found myself that i love him and i fallen in love with him and I think he likes me but we didn't admit to eachother.
My family and his family (and his cousin) went for Camping and we had fun togather, we went fishing and we talked about many things.
My mother told me to share a tent with him as a brother, i didn't mind, its fine.
The next morning i saw him drinking a cup of tea and eating his breakfast with his cousin, they were talking, i went to the wash my face and get dressed. Then we went for walking and i saw some insect on my clothes, i screamed and was frightened, i was jumping and weeping!!!omg!!!
she came and pushed me on my face, and told me,, "Stop acting stupid in front of him, or else you will see” . I told her, “there is nothing you can do to me, I’ve done nothing wrong”, he came and told her “Piss off and get lost, Zenon”, she was upset and went….he holded my hand and helped me get up.
I hate her, I hate her! I hate his cousin!
And from that day she is calling me manly, I think she is jealous, what can I do to stop her from doing this, she is hurting me, I want her to understand that she is manly and not me.????? Help???
Thanks for answering! Merry Christmas!
2006-12-21 03:15:39 · 14 answers · asked by Joelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not a story or something, i just want to be detailed more.
2006-12-21 03:23:29 · update #1
She obviously feels threatened by the relationship you have with him. Her behavior shows that. What I would do is maintain my decorum and not lower myself to her level. If you react negatively you end up being like her. When she says stuff to you I would calmly tell her that you aren't going to lower yourself to her level. What she is trying to do is engage you in a fight to make you look bad in front of him. If you show yourself as the lady you are, she is the one that will look bad. Also, don't say anything mean about her to him even though you want to. Because he might end up defending her because he feels sorry for her. It is obvious that she has some issues going on.
2006-12-21 03:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of creepy that a man is so close to his cousin like that. You are not manly. Just be you.
2006-12-21 11:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow first of all thats some story. and this is what you do. if you really like him. you flirt with him. dont you worry about that cousin. i mean. why does it matter? if shes jealous let she be. that only means your better. that all you have to proof.
2006-12-21 11:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop and she does'nt stop ask her cousin to talk to her are you could just tell straught up that shes only jealous and she nothing but a no good j a c k a s s
2006-12-21 11:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore her OR Tell her off. I suggest tellin her off if she is really pushin the limit. but jus ignore her for now.
2006-12-21 11:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by archonette08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not become "manly" just because she said so. Don't put pressure on yourself. Be what you are and win him over.
2006-12-21 11:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by burr burr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
brush your shoulders off, she is jealous that some one is "takin" her best friend, i'd try to talk to her when i went over there, if anything kill her with kindness
2006-12-21 12:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not let people bully you.. you should stand up for your self and if you like this guy whether she is his cousin or not.. it is none of her business.. that is just between you and him.. so you should see if he likes you too.
2006-12-21 11:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oldsoftee is right... she's scared of what's going to happen between her and him, and doesn't know how to handle it properly. don't be offended by it, be sympathetic toward her... she feels like she's losing her best friend.
2006-12-21 11:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by S@R!KO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is mad because you are coming between her and her best friend. he probably told her he likes you and she is trying not to loose what they had.
2006-12-21 11:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋