i broke up with him on august 23 on that day i'm realy happy
but as day past by, i got sadder and sadder, then i saw him with his new "gf" i guesse he had moved on... and so i decided to move on too, i had two new bf's after that incedent, but it only lasted a week or so, it has been 120 days and i'm still craving for him! one time he asked me if i want to go back with him, i really want too but i said no, now i am confused!please help me
2006-12-21 02:03:51 · 13 answers · asked by silent_midn8t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it hurts. You will be fine--but you need to be focused on something other than that so you pull yourself up and out of it. If he has moved on and obviously he has--he's not worried about you--why should you go around with your lip dragging the ground for him?
2006-12-21 02:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you'll be ok. It may not seem like it right now, but you will. My FIANCE broke up with me on September 16th (one month before we were due to be married) it hurt like hell. I mean I cried for 2 days straight, I just couldn't undersand. I still don't understand. he offered no reason, and we were very close. And to topit off I hear he's back with some girl he went with when he has like 16 or 17. He's 30 now. But anyway I am fine now. I would be lying if I said I didn't think about him, because I do. But it doesn't hurt anymore. I made up my mind that it was not my fault at all. If was him, and this is his loss and someone else's gain. So don't worry time will heal all wounds. And don't go back to him unless he feels ths same as you. you don't need a pitty get back together type relationship. Make room for a new and improved boyfriend.
2006-12-21 02:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you were my Ex, because she wouldn't throw water on me if I was on fire, and I didn't do anything majorly wrong to her. She said it was a build up of the 'little things' and that amounted to a divorce. I find myself like you alot: clawing at the empty side of the bed, wishing she was there, crying, begging God for forgiveness, wishing i could make things right again, but getting nothing. At least you got on the rebound, I'm still just trying to figure out the penalty.
2006-12-21 02:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that if you broke up with him in the first place it was for a reason. Think back and try to remember that reason - don't just look at the relationship through rose-tinted specs.
2006-12-21 02:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't last for a VERY long time, then yes, for a while
If you eventually get over it within weeks or even a couple o months, then it's fine
But you NEED to get over it, especially if he's not comin back
2006-12-21 02:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's normal.only time can tell for how long would you be going through that misery..you'll get over him eventually.
why not try to explore other things..such as learning how to spell and write well.nah,just kidding. go on try new things that would keep you busy and put your mind away from him..
2006-12-21 04:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal it only been a 1 year for me and i still cry the pain and hurt will always be there.
2006-12-21 02:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You prolly shudnt have said no. if you really want him then you would have said yes. just tell him how you feel, and maybe he will think about you again. dot wait for him to move on again or you have lost him!
2006-12-21 02:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by sexyg0pher770 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sto crying Time Heals!!!!!
2006-12-21 02:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, just move on. He already moved on.
2006-12-21 02:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋