Well sorry if the below is a bit long one.I am a 27 Year old Hindu / Brahmin software engineer born and spent my student life in a small city in India..Very cultured and educated guy.I work for an investment bank in Singapore..I have seen quite a bit of Big cities/and western culture..since my professional life.I never loved any woman nor even got attaracted to.I am not a kinda BF/GF concept guy.I believe in strong permanent relationship.Recently accidentally i met some one at breakfast place , she is a Christian 30 year old beautiful lady works as a business development manager.I and she both go to the same place for breakfast and used to see each other..We after sometime started smiling at
each other.Finally one day i talked to her as well....she seemed pretty intrested in me...the way she looked at me...the qustions she asked...I have asked myself the below questions..to really clarify if mine is a Love/ attraction-infatuation which ppl say young guys..get confused with...
2006-12-21 02:22:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anand Kulkarni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1.I honestly agree that i do not know much about her..but my heart just can not stop thinking abt her.I have seen/met/interacted with many young women ..but she is the ONLY one who has impressed met till today.
2.Even if i had to wait all my Life to marry her at say old age of 60 I believe i would feel the same feeling for her which i have now.
3.I have never felt having physical attraction to her like feeling of sex/desire to hold her hand / touch her...
4.Lets say in worst case even if she becomes a Widow in future..I would still accept her...at any age..if i were available.
5.I feel happy when she laughs..Feed sad when she feels sad.I asked her out for dinner...and she denied saying she is ususally busy with her BF over week end...she had agreed earlier when i had called her and asked....infact she said "it sounds good" I sent a mail to her for my birthday ....no replies to even congragulate.
I called her after 3-4 days...just to say "hi" to her..an may be get her some sweets
2006-12-21 02:22:27 · update #1
she had missed...she said "she did not want to talk to me and cut the call"
May be i do not mean much to her...but my heart still feels the same feelings for her..what should i do ???? i just do not seem to like any other women....
2006-12-21 02:22:53 · update #2
It may be as simple as a pheramonal effect. All people transmit the scents just like insects do. In almost all cases, it is entirely undetectable as it is thousands of times less intoxicating that those found in the animal kingdom.
However, you may have a sort of reaction to hers. This means that you are naturally inclined to a woman like that. This is an incredibly rare condition which could affect anyone. However, because the odds of you finding anyone like that is something like 1:1,500,000 then you will probably never meet a person that affects you that way. It has been known to cause people to cheat, do crazy things, and just become someone else.
Don't think on it too much.
2006-12-21 02:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by uncletoon2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a stalker and you should stop.
If you are 27 and have not been attracted to a lady before? Something is wrong...you need a psychologist.
I'm not trying to be mean, but you are obsessing on this poor girl and her last phone call should give you the clue she is not interested.
Seek help, please.
2006-12-21 02:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Jack 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey ur in love but the scene is dat she has a BF and u have taken in a wrong way just because she smiles and talks to u it doesnt means she likes u so jus try to forget her n move on and u will get a better one so good luck my frnd......
2006-12-21 02:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by maddy316 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since she alr has a BF,
continue waiting. :D
2006-12-21 02:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋