Singles & Dating - 20 December 2006

When you meet a guy, how important is it that you sleep with them right away? I mean, I get the whole having sex, making love, etc AFTER you've been together a while, but how long is it before you stay the night with them? Right away? 30 days? Longer? Why or why not is that important to you?

I actually have a reason for this question, and it's not because I'm a pervert, but I see/hear of so many young girls feel like sex is more important at the beginning of the realtionship, or before the relationship actually gets off the ground. Do they get their value system from MTV, VH-1, The O.C., Road Rules & Howard Stern?

2006-12-20 13:21:18 · 3 answers · asked by Jim C 5

When my girlfriend's fingers are run down by neck, I feel heated. However, when my neck is kissed, there is basically no feeling at all. When I kiss her neck, she reacts very strongly, and I am hoping there is a way I can feel the same sensation. What are some possible reasons why my neck might be insensitive only to lips, and are there any ways to increase sensitivity? Thanks.

2006-12-20 13:21:09 · 16 answers · asked by alphta1 1

We've been best friends for a while and i've always known that i would have feelings for her since the day i met her. I've completely fallen for her and when she told me she had feelings for me too, I was the happiest man on earth. But its been about 2 months since we broke up. She said she doesn't have time because of school and she just doesn't get that same feeling of butterflies in her stomach when she sees me. We still talk at least 2 to 3 times a week... but not like before. I still want to be there for her but i still want her back. I asked her about 2 weeks ago if her feelings for me are completely gone and she simply said "i dont know." What should i do? Should i let her go and hope she comes back or just stop talking to her?

2006-12-20 13:20:36 · 7 answers · asked by robby 1

2006-12-20 13:20:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's really annoying. I have asked some questions about relationships and dating, and whenever I ask, people always say, "Just go up to him and tell him you like him!! It's easy!!" It's not that easy! Or they say, "Just ask him if he likes you." "Ask him out!!" Who the heck goes up to the person they like and just start blurting stuff out, when your not even sure how they feel?!

2006-12-20 13:19:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous 3

2006-12-20 13:18:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How far is too far to go in a relationship??

2006-12-20 13:18:09 · 5 answers · asked by Sakura 1

I am a female and my best friend is a male.. we have been great friends for 2 years now and we enjoy each other's company!!!! everyday we are together laughing and having fun! :D however there is another girl that likes him very much!! she is trying very hard to get his attention away from me to her! HOWEVER he just ignores her pleas!!! now she is being very nice and kind to me... we have been friends but not as tight as I deem that she wants to be! so I wonder does she want to be my friend just so she can get close to him and try to steal him away!!!??

2006-12-20 13:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anna G 1

what do i say when asking a guy out?? is it really as easy as "do you wanna hang out sometime?"

2006-12-20 13:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by ohhhhh 1

i hav never had a girlfreind but I m funny, sweet and very friendly guy, so why is it i m this situation i have a hot body i m very well toned, i m very sporty i play 4 diffrent sports, i look after myself i go to the gym etc, everyone around me has kissed a girl even the losers and the fat guys, whats wrong with me? as i far as i m concerned i think i m ideal maybe theres something i m not getting plz help???? i try be friendly and socialble but i m always kicked to the curb help???

2006-12-20 13:14:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey my boyfriend and i went on a break today i guess and tomorrow's my bday and our 7 month anniversary we both felt bad about it because it was this one thing that happened. This other girl was like she goes with him and he didnt now but she did things that made it seen like they did. He gave his cousin his password and he hooked them up so thats one thing that happened and we well he and i decided to take a one week break and see how it goes...i dont think we can do it...because we love each other to much but yeah...we probably will get back together afterwards and i feel so sad because we love each other and my bday is tomorrow what should i do

2006-12-20 13:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a physics and a chemistry final tomorrow. I am extremelly nervous and as you can see, waisting time. No i don't think I know enough for the tests.

Why am I asking this here. Because I think there is a lot more people here.

2006-12-20 13:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lyk this guy and he lyks me ( we tell eachother all the time) we even say that we love eachother!!!!!!!but he wont ask me out???? help???? what should i do?

2006-12-20 13:08:29 · 7 answers · asked by nicoleaase 2

its not like i really get bullyied at school its just that i get like no respect cuz i'm white at almost a all black school....

when i'm walking in the hall kids slam into me.. when im walking down the stairs as fast as i can without knocking the person over in front of me they always scream "walk you little *****" and start pushing me till i almost fall down the stairs

...i always get cut in the lunch line, all the black kids in my school always gets called for seconds for lunch (black lady calling) and i never get called for seconds, I'll be doing all my work in class and then decide to start talkin to my friend next to me and the black teacher screams "stop talking now move your seat" and the black kids be running around the room scraming and they hardly get anything said to them at all...

its like i get no rescept cuz im white and i wanna switch schools but my parents wont let me.. they wont take me seriously.

what can i do????

2006-12-20 13:08:29 · 23 answers · asked by andy s 1

I have met someone online and he seems to be very nice he e-mails me everyday. I just dont know if I should trust people online.

2006-12-20 13:08:11 · 31 answers · asked by bawg25 1

people are always saying things to me like "oh you must have guys all over you!" or "I bet guys just love you!" or something. and all my friends are always talking about how this or that guy likes them, and their not neccessarily that pretty!! so whats my problem? am i doing something wrong or is it that i dont recognize flirting...??? i'm so confused.......

2006-12-20 13:06:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are the effect?....if the girl have the great love, does it mean that the girl handle their relationship?

2006-12-20 13:06:57 · 6 answers · asked by mickey12 1

This boy at school hangs out with me every day and he likes to flirt alot!!! We are best friends and are AWLAYs together at school we have a great time laughing, and just talking!!! HOWEVER when we get onto the online messaging we talk.... but it takes him a long time to answer because I know that he is talking to many other people... other girls!!!! im wondering.... even though we are so tight at school he seems to give his attention away to other girls!! is he playing me?

2006-12-20 13:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anna G 1

I have a big crush on my friend at work.. Shes my age but shes married.. Is it wrong?? Am I a bad person for wanting another mans wife?? I could never tell her my feelings for fear she might not understand or that her husband might hurt me.. Shes very smart and beautiful and I think about her not alot but often.. I dont know what to do... I think I will go to hell for breaking a comandmant(Thou shall not want after another mans wife)
But shes so nice and we look alike and have simaler intrests, etc.... Ahh im just babbling..... I think I will go crazy.. I would never act on anything because I respect her and her marriage and I dont want to jepordize anything shes made.. Im very purplexed....

2006-12-20 13:04:08 · 25 answers · asked by Bri 1

ask out a girl that i like? any suggestions are good. please help.

2006-12-20 13:03:56 · 3 answers · asked by quadstack72 2

2006-12-20 13:03:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice to give, my friend like's this girl but she's 17 and he's 20, should i tell him it's a bad idea. or say go for it.

2006-12-20 12:58:57 · 32 answers · asked by Mike J 1

Ok. My future husband and I were at the walmart store...and we were talking about what to buy for our house etc...suddenly he just pops up this question "Now that we're here, can I buy you a cream for your acne?" I was like "what???" I felt so horrible and I got really mad!!! I don't even have that bad acne and I use cream already!!! He was mean because I've never ever told him anything about his acne and he has a lot!!! inlcuding his back!!! and I don't care about it...how come he does care about my acne...??? I went straight home after hearing his insulting question!!! he was sorry after that but who was the mean one????

2006-12-20 12:56:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

by my gf that she needs a "bigger" man to handle her needs. I'm about 6 inches.. what the F...i thought that was "average"?? what should i do??

2006-12-20 12:54:29 · 33 answers · asked by NONAME 2

by arousing, rubbing, or stiking her nipples in the freezer or something?

2006-12-20 12:54:22 · 10 answers · asked by hottie 1

2006-12-20 12:53:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am fun..out goin...6 ft tall....muscular...i love to play guitar...wut do girls liek most about guys?

2006-12-20 12:53:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 12:53:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

a smart woman. When a woman is intellectual and discusses politics, the meaning of life and so on and so forth, does this irritate men? Especially when he is in her shadow intellectually. Should a woman act less than intelligent to make him feel better

2006-12-20 12:53:18 · 40 answers · asked by JadeNicole 2

can i get lines plezzzze

2006-12-20 12:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by kiki 1