people are always saying things to me like "oh you must have guys all over you!" or "I bet guys just love you!" or something. and all my friends are always talking about how this or that guy likes them, and their not neccessarily that pretty!! so whats my problem? am i doing something wrong or is it that i dont recognize flirting...??? i'm so confused.......
2006-12-20 13:06:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax. I like you. Live by that old saying, "Don't worry, be happy". Don't worry about everybody else, your friends included. Just focus on you and being the best person you can be. Remember, not everything is based on looks. It's all in how you come across to others. Kill 'em with kindness and you can't go wrong.
2006-12-20 13:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have more admirers then you think...if you don't catch guys signals then they may think your not interested and stop trying. I don't know you well enough to make a call on what, if anything your doing wrong...my guess though is your sending wrong signals. Try flirting with guys and see how quick your luck changes. I know there is nothing more flattering to my ego then someone showing interest, and most guys are the same. As for being attractive, thats one thing guys notice but not the only thing...we also like intellegence, and someone not playing games, we like girls who are direct and not closed off or that come off as unobtainable. Like I said, flirt a bit and you should see a difference!
2006-12-20 21:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, I don't think you have met every guy on the planet, second, you may not recognize flirting and that someone does like you. Next, if you are pretty, guys may be intimidated, maybe try to make yourself more down to earth. Finally, don't be in a hurry, take your time and the right one will come.
2006-12-20 21:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^^ i mean this in no offense but i think either 1- ur trying to get attention or 2- ur just clueless...
y are you so worried bout guys liking you anyways? i think due to the fact that you are so worked up over it... it's making you a bit unattractive... be careless and carefree.. don't mind the guys that like you? do you find happiness if 100 guys are in love with you? take it from my experience its hard w/ even just 2.. or 1 that you don't even like... it's not bout how many guys like you or how great you are at flirtin.. those things don't matter at all... focus on other aspects of life... and open your mind more ^^ boys will be boys and worrying about then won't add another day 2 your life... so don't
2006-12-20 21:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be joking me!! No women on earth has any excuse to think guys don't like her. Guys do, but that's a different story. I guarantee (with a capital G) - so Guarantee - that if you approached a guy and chatted, or asked him out, 9 times out of 10 he will say "sure".
So whatcha waiting for? Do it. Do it now!!
All the best.
2006-12-20 21:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have a negative or bad attitude, or you could not be payin' attention to what is goin' on around you. You gotta present yourself in a confident manner, but not snooty. Don't worry about it, and just relax and think about what you need to improve on. If you have confidence, you'll get a man...no doubt. And how do you know that no man on earth likes ya...
2006-12-20 21:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are too intimidated by beauty to be upfront. I think you should first tell yourself how pretty YOU are before you have a male say it. Be confident about yourself--that's the biggest attraction. No guy wants a girl who's always like, "Ewww..look at me! I'm so ugly!!" And about your friends, guys may not exactly be attracted to their looks per say, but maybe their personality and CONFIDENCE (catch my drift??) :)
Good luck!
2006-12-20 21:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by mjn1242cal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once heard that dating is like an apple tree.
(Don't mind my metaphor too much)
Pretend that guys are the worms and girls are the apples. Worms are lazy and don't want to go to high up the tree, so they just get the lower ones (or maybe even the ones that fall to the ground)
The point of this is that some guys [like me] get shy and don't try to reach for the best girls in fear of rejection.
2006-12-20 21:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by justin s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea that will provide a perfect answer. Post a real photo in your avatar space and re-ask this question. That takes guts but you may actually get asked out and alot of complements as well!
2006-12-20 21:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by Wotnot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... I doubt you've met every guy on the planet before, but thats okay, I get it, figure of speech LOL. But, there are probably guys that like you, but I find that guys my age are too shy/immature/ignorant to say anything. How old are you? Maybe add some additional details to help us out here.. thanks.
2006-12-20 21:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by intherain; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋