by my gf that she needs a "bigger" man to handle her needs. I'm about 6 inches.. what the F...i thought that was "average"?? what should i do??
2006-12-20 12:54:29 · 33 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should let her go. It's obvious that she is only interested in sex, nothing serious.
2006-12-20 12:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Big or Small -
Was she really talking about your penis size? Did she really mean that? Well if she was having sex with you before, it wasn't a problem then because if it was she would have never came back for more.
Was she talking about you being a real man for her? Were you not living up to her expectations outside of the bed? Her comment could be taken either way.
And is she really being shallow if she have a preference for a size of a penis? Is she really wrong if she wants 7, 8, or 9 inches.
It doesn't make you a bad person or less of a man. Sometimes in life not everybody can give us what we want. And if she's not happy (in her mind) then she is free to move on.
And I promise some woman is going to come into your life and she might not please you just as well in the bed. And you too have the right to move on. We can't make someone be what they're not.
So whatever she meant by her comment. I hope you were able to ask her questions to be sure it wasn't about your penis. If so, find a woman who wants what you have to offer.
Imagaine yourself being with a woman who only wants to hug and kiss, but never wants to have sex. If you have the desire for sex and she has no intentions on giving it up, do you stay or do you go? You do have your own preference and desires as well- right? Would it be shallow of you to leave a woman who doesn't want to sleep with you?
2006-12-20 13:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, FOR THE ****** RECORD....
4.75 inches is the average size for a male ages 19-35 with a full hard on.
Its most definetly not the length that makes it more pleasurable, its the width, if it hits the sides/top bottom of the vaginal walls that gives them more pleasure, hence it hurts when a girl first has sex because its more tight then after intercourse.Its not your penis length that isn't getting her off, its her loose vagina. Any girl that says she needs more length is a lying ***** that doesn't know what shes talking about. 1.5- 3 inches round should be about the average for a penis that is 6- 7 inches in full erectile length. Plus it seems like you are still a teenager, so you have growing to do.
Don't worry about it. Your plenty big.
2006-12-20 13:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always thought I was average at 14"
2006-12-20 13:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have a bigger man, you dont need her. it isnt the size it is the way you use it... you dont need a women to tell you this for it sounds like she is already having a bigger man.. to many girls out there, for you to waste your time with someone that cuts you down...good luck.
2006-12-20 13:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by saltwater1113 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may not have meant bigger in that way, or she may have been saying that to hurt you. It's not always the size, it's what you do with it.
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2006-12-20 13:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. If she need more there, she is shallow. I am not a big girl so 6 would do me just fine, and I have had two kids, if she needs more, just think "a cavern!"
2006-12-20 12:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her get burnt by bigger men and then she come back, it be up to u to accepted her though.
2006-12-20 12:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid!! Dump her immeditaly!! Forget tht b**** tel her 2 look 4 some1 she want and not waste ur teenage time
2006-12-20 13:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by iluvpoohbear_winni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what CAN you do? is the question,or what WOULD you do? most women can get off with a lot of attention to her clit. try out your oral teqniques as well as the intercourse,just make sure that she is trully happy when all is said and done.
2006-12-20 12:59:48 · answer #11 · answered by i tell it like it is 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋