This boy at school hangs out with me every day and he likes to flirt alot!!! We are best friends and are AWLAYs together at school we have a great time laughing, and just talking!!! HOWEVER when we get onto the online messaging we talk.... but it takes him a long time to answer because I know that he is talking to many other people... other girls!!!! im wondering.... even though we are so tight at school he seems to give his attention away to other girls!! is he playing me?
2006-12-20 13:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was in highschool, it has never occured to me to really find that someone special. It was more towards trying to expand my group of friends, even though I have one or two closely-knit good buddies. And surprising enough, those good buddies come in the form of ladies, why? I can't tell, but maybe I just am able to communicate with them easily. We do hang out a lot, but there was no attraction there, not that they were not pretty or anything like that. Maybe that it what's exacting happening to you. He might have fallen for you, but maybe he just has not acknowledged it, maybe not. Just take it cool, enjoy the times you spend together, live for today, don't think of tomorrow. Let things grow naturally, in time, you will have found someone very close to you. Just enjoy life.
2006-12-20 13:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by glastnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be talking to those other girls because it makes him feel better about himself (stroking his ego). It may not have anything to do with how he feels about you. I realize this is *far* easier said than done, but... just ask him. You have nothing to lose. If he likes you as a girlfriend, but is too shy or afraid to "mess things up", you'll be giving him a chance to tell you how he feels and will be taking the pressure off of him at the same time. I'm positive the question won't "offend" him, so you really have nothing to lose. It's a legitimate question. There are really only 2 answers. If you ask me, I'd say there's more than friendship there.
2006-12-20 13:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by zosofan59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you as a friend. i know a guy like that. he is just super close to all other female classmates. so i just let him be, and if he really like me more than just a friend i will know eventually. he can hang out with any other girls because he is someone who is more comfortable in the company of females, but it doesn't necessarily mean that the one he hangs out with the most is the one he likes more than a friend. just hang on, okay? :) but don't hope too much because you might get hurt.
2006-12-20 13:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by evi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for me, i think he likes you as a friend. He likes the way you laugh and to make a conversation with him. Don't give any meaning from what he did to you, it will only hurt you. He just enjoying your company.
2006-12-20 13:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by mickey12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on his age...he mite lke u,but he still wants to play around before he settles down..so i think if u find out how he feelz then u wont have to worry about gettin hurt..but talk to him in a slick way..
2006-12-20 13:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he might just think of you as a friend.
2006-12-20 13:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK DAT HARD................................HE PROBALLY JUST SEES U AS A FRIEND AND U THINK THE OTHER WAY IDK
U NEEVER NO OTHER PPL FEELING
2006-12-20 13:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by MARIA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋