i hav never had a girlfreind but I m funny, sweet and very friendly guy, so why is it i m this situation i have a hot body i m very well toned, i m very sporty i play 4 diffrent sports, i look after myself i go to the gym etc, everyone around me has kissed a girl even the losers and the fat guys, whats wrong with me? as i far as i m concerned i think i m ideal maybe theres something i m not getting plz help???? i try be friendly and socialble but i m always kicked to the curb help???
2006-12-20 13:14:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hhmm...is it maybe that you currently don't have time for a girl right now?? I missed out on a great guy because he had too much going on after school and stuff...I did get to take him to the movies once but he had to rush home to get his truck and go get his little sister...I still wish I had tried a little harder but I found out later (years later) that he was gay...I doubt that is the situation for you...I think maybe you are young enough you could skip a few reps on the weights and buffing out your bod in exchange for a date with a chic...you might just need to go to a party with friends...what is going on in the party scene these days? Are the guy friends that you hang with going out this weekend? Tell them, "Hook a brother up dude". You could just keep buffing the bod but no chic wants a guy that spends more time in front of a mirror than she does...get my drift? There is also such a thing as trying too hard...relax it'll happen when it happens.
2006-12-20 13:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't sweat it! It's no significant deal, and it is very candy of you to just desire to kiss a woman you favor. Contrary to a couple different feedback in this query, kissing generally is a significant deal, whether it is to you. If you desire to kiss her, then courteously opt for it, and till then, a kiss wont imply some thing until you truthfully desire it. You have an excessively well brain set (principally for the reason that plenty of men simply wanna kiss and contact any woman they may be able to, whether or not they like her or no longer) and it is very infrequent to encounter this kind of worrying younger guy. You'll be simply best, and fairly, do not sweat it:) Oh and here is a tip, if a woman truthfully appears down at you in view that you have on no account kissed anybody, she's prolly a *****. Just announcing.
2016-09-03 13:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by devita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you know.. I never kissed a girl until I was 18.. I had sex.. but no kissing.. lol I suppose I never was interested in it (kissing that is), then it kinda happened, to this day though.. I only kiss someone new, and then the novelty wears off after 6 months or so. So what I am saying is, take it in stride, your young yet and you have tons of time to figure it all out.
And I don't know if you heard the expression, but it goes like this.. "if all your friends jump off a bridge will you"? Morality of that point is, don't succumb to peer pressure, take care of yourself and good luck growing up!!
2006-12-20 13:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by mobile1mechanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the fundamental problems with humans is that we get bored with childhood, rush to grow up, and then long to be children again. Just because you've never had a girlfriend/kiss doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, it just means you haven't found the right person...it's not the end of the world you just have to be patient. When the time comes you'll find the right girl for you.Some people rush and then they find themselves wishing they had saved that moment for someone special who shows up in their life some time after. Good luck ;-)
2006-12-20 13:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by msdrosi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong. Have a little patience here.
They might be intimidated by you here, hesistant, the really good looking ones will go after you eventually.
Just go to a new year's party here soon if you just want a little kiss. Might even take you somewhere if you're a good boy.
After my first good kiss I found out her parents weren't home so we stepped inside ;)
2006-12-20 13:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude its no big deal, you aint the only one walking around that hasnt been kissed.Theres more of you out there,i never had my frist kiss till i was 17. Up until then i never meet a girl i wanted to kiss.....
2006-12-20 13:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Blinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 17 and I'm a chick! (they normally get theirs earlier than guys because guys usually like younger girls) It's not wrong, even if it's slightly abnormal for today's age. It's ok. Don't fret. Honestly, it's worth the wait for the best one. *smile*
2006-12-20 13:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would most likely hook up with a prostitute that you can afford. That way you can tell her about your problem and she will help you out! Thats what I did in the exact same situation as yours! The only thing I did not care for was when she put her finger up my bum!
Good luck! Hope this helps!
2006-12-20 13:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how u feel, im 14 but in the same situation. try asking a girl u like out to a movie
2006-12-20 13:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by michielev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad.
I was in my late 20s when I first kissed a woman.
It's simply not your time.
If you appear to be TOO ANXIOUS for a kiss, it will never come.
Guido
2006-12-20 13:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋