Why do people always tell me to tell the person I like them on here?!?

Question

It's really annoying. I have asked some questions about relationships and dating, and whenever I ask, people always say, "Just go up to him and tell him you like him!! It's easy!!" It's not that easy! Or they say, "Just ask him if he likes you." "Ask him out!!" Who the heck goes up to the person they like and just start blurting stuff out, when your not even sure how they feel?!

Answer 1

I so understand you. I am a 13 year old girl, and even in real life that's what people tell me. I have a crush on this boy at school, and this girl at school knows, and she always says, "Why don't you just ask him out?"

First of all, some people feel uncomfortable doing some things.
Second of all, the people online are mostly adults, and they don't remember what it's like to feel this way. I hate it too. It's not as easy as it seems, because boys our age are still maturing and growing up, and they don't understand what it means to go out with someone!

I hope this helps!
Happy Holidays!

Answer 2

I know that its not easy sometimes, but you have to take action because its your feelings. I think that everyone that gives you these small answers are pretty much accurate with these small messages. "Go for it!"

Getting involved with him should be easy if you start it off slow. Then you will find an opportunity as to when YOU feel comfortable to tell him how you feel. And that takes time. But if you start to spend a lot of time with him, I guarantee at that point, he does like you. You don't even have to say anything. It may even be confirmed when he tries to kiss you.

But all this would only happen when the two of you start spending more time with each other.

Answer 3

I understand your problem. You seem like you're shy. I am the same way. I always wait for the guy to talk to me about it. But sometimes it isn't the best thing to do.
Maybe you should have a friend see how he feels about you,
because it's really not easy to just go blurt stuff like that out.

Answer 4

I think for some it seems that easy. Or they just want the 2 points, so they say what you want to hear. Just doing it is never easy. What you need to do is give out signs that you are interested. If he returns the signs, then you might be open to taking that next (and scary) step.

Answer 5

what you should do is ask, him to go out for some coffee or pizza or something like that just take baby steps eventually you will be relaxed enough the words will flow out of your heart and hopefully by then you know how he feels about you

Answer 6

It's a part of becoming mature and growing some freakin hair on your balls. If you can't accept the answers that people have given you, then stop asking your lame questions!!!!

Answer 7

Of course it's never easy, but I'll tell you one thing which I stand behind 100 percent: guys are less likely to reject girls, compared to girls rejecting guys. I swear it's true.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

yeah i agree. just tell him and stop pussy footing around what will you hope to gain by being coy and aloof?

get yourself a life and get out there and ask him

Answer 10

yeah. its annoying. its not that easy. to walk up to someone, but sometimes if you write that person notes .. you can write it in a note. then its easier