We've been best friends for a while and i've always known that i would have feelings for her since the day i met her. I've completely fallen for her and when she told me she had feelings for me too, I was the happiest man on earth. But its been about 2 months since we broke up. She said she doesn't have time because of school and she just doesn't get that same feeling of butterflies in her stomach when she sees me. We still talk at least 2 to 3 times a week... but not like before. I still want to be there for her but i still want her back. I asked her about 2 weeks ago if her feelings for me are completely gone and she simply said "i dont know." What should i do? Should i let her go and hope she comes back or just stop talking to her?
2006-12-20 13:20:36 · 7 answers · asked by robby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither, just cool off and back off a bit, dont have to stop talking to her but do not over due it either. Keep the converstaions casual and off the subject of the two of you. make her remember why she liked you. sometimes dating your bf can be the worst thing, other times is the perfect thing.
2006-12-20 13:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Legend Gates Shotokan Karate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. IF you can be her friend but don't push her or she will never come back even as a friend and you will irritate her in the process to where she won't want to be on the same planet as you. See what happens. Right now, move on with your life.
2006-12-20 13:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be time to give it a rest for a while. It is better to end up with her still being your friend, so wait it out a while, see what happens. She deserves her opinion too.
2006-12-20 13:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never works when friends become more than that then try to go back to friends again. EVER!!!
Sorry, move on. Don't try to be just friends with a girl. It doesn't work.
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2006-12-20 13:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how she feels. let her be for a while. let her get her feelings straight. and if it really bothers her and you want to be friends still then tell her. tell her that you are upset that you aren't good friends anymore.
2006-12-20 13:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go back and get her. I mean she might still have feelings for you. just act sexy
2006-12-20 13:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by lemarkz51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋