Singles & Dating - 18 November 2006

my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost a year, and I love him with all of my heart. we live together, and are planning our entire lives around each other. He has always had wandering eyes. As someone who bodybuilds, he assures me that this is natural, because a good portion of his life is spent measuring, sizing, and critiquing body parts. He assures me that its not for any other reason. He also has lately started telling me how sexy, on a scale of one to ten, he finds other women. He stresses that 'window shopping' is not a big deal, that every man does it, and that it doesnt mean he loves me any less. But I know that I never check out the other sex. I NEVER look at any other men and think about ANYONE else in that way. And I find it hurtful that he does... Is this something that is normal for guys? Ones in committed relationships? What does this say, in 'guy' speak... ? Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. Is what I feel right? That this is not okay? Thanks...

2006-11-18 12:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this girl have been ok friends for a long time...but i have always liked her...so i asked her out, and she only wants to be friends...i know i have to move on, but i can't get her out of my mind, and i don't like anyone like i like her...HELP!!!!

2006-11-18 12:01:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

they insist either is a boyfriend or girlfriend, and are sure not f*** buddies, so what are they ? Just friends?

2006-11-18 12:00:11 · 20 answers · asked by wonderingallthetime 2

OK long story-you guys helped me out before and i need your help now. So I go into the restaurant where this hot guy works he isnt there too bad lol but his mom is in there and i ask her where he is and she says HES AT HOME PUKING SICK HE CALLED IN TODAY.. i told her i thought he was cute... so not 15 mins. later HE COMES IN all smiles we flirt a lil' and as i pay my bill i hand him my number on a napkin and told him "try not to call after 11" he said OK w/ a big smile "earlier-before I did that i overheardhim tell his mom I BET I"LL BE FEELIN BETTER REAL SOON" and she asked why did you even come in and he said "I NEED TO MAKE SOME MONEY B/C IM SURE I"LL BE GOING OUT REAL SOON!!" and he looked at me... so idk why he hasnt called yet like i said that happened yesterday and so far NOTHINg is it b/c guys have this unwritten rule to call girls the first night or what? HELP lol

2006-11-18 11:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Brookers 1

2006-11-18 11:56:04 · 40 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1

Have you ever left or thought of leaving your boyfriend for another guy? What were the reasons and what were the results of this? Were you happy or did it not work out?

2006-11-18 11:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by b-rad 3

i've known this guy since i was 4 years old and we've been bestfriend like 4ever.well 2weeks ago me and him were hanging out and he read my txt messages.he read a txt message 2 my friend about him. i said that i liked him so much and that i've liked him 4ever.so that nite when he walked me home he kissed me goodnite.well that was my 1st kiss.so i called him and asked him if we were goin out and he said he would think about it.i called him 3days later and he said he had a gf.i asked him so we're goin out and he said "no, i 4got about u. srry.i asked out a girl named alicen."so now all he talks about is alicen, alicen, and alicen.he told me that they were the perfect couple.she told me that she wants 2kiss him but she's scared that she might want to make out with him but she doesn't want to make out with him @ school. she wants to @ her house or his house.so u think he's trying to make me jealous or something?wat do u think he's trying to do?wat should i do?i'm so confused.help me ASAP!!

2006-11-18 11:55:53 · 11 answers · asked by rock chic3 2

2006-11-18 11:54:39 · 40 answers · asked by ? 5

Im just thinking whats the age average for a couple eg 2,4,6

2006-11-18 11:52:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

:)

2006-11-18 11:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by young one 3

This girl i really like, who also showed signs she like me has all of a sudden slowed down the communication line, andshe not always wanting to do things as much..the past few weeks have been really good, weve been to heaps of movies, heaps of lunches, few coffees and dinners also,been out aswell a bit. Were always sharing laughs, and she likes touching alot, sometimes sitting on my own seat and so forth. The past few days are hurting for me,as shes not talking to me as much now (being the weekend thats ok), What should i do from her on in, i dont think she likes me texting or talking on msn as well, she kinda promptly leaves saying she needs to go........What exactly has happened, i dont think ive done anything to hurt her?....maybe shes annoyed with me that i havent made the move yet. The last time i saw her, she really liked to get aggressive with me, like punching me....whats all this mean, so confused....im going to give her some space though,.....how much should i give her?

2006-11-18 11:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex boyfriend and I had been going out since Febuary of 2005. We told each other that we loved each other in April 2006. Everything was perfect. Then, after about a week into school this year, he started acting different. He was more distant, and when I tried to hold his hand he pulled away. I was hurt, but I didn't show it. Instead, I backed off, hoping that he would tell me when he was ready. September 21st, he took me aside and I knew instantly what was going to happen. He told me that he wanted to break up, but that we should be friends (he "really really didn't want to hurt me"). Now he half ignores me, and only has eyes for another girl, who doesn't like him back. He is also hugging our female friends constantly, which freaks them out a bit. When I talk to him, he tells our friends that I'm "Trying to get him back". He uninvited my to his birthday party, saying that it was "all guys", but my friends told me he invited them. Others notice his change. What happened?

2006-11-18 11:51:18 · 22 answers · asked by Paper 2

2006-11-18 11:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by lord_andys_new_id 1

okay im nineteen, last year i realised i enjoyed the company of women and started seeing my friend anna, but i had been friends with steve since school and we had started getting more intimate with each other. i admit i did two time them for a while but they found out and after alot of arguements they agreed that they would both keep seeing me. but now they have started to tell me to choose after almost a year of being fine with it. I know im being greedy but i like them both as friends and lovers. but niether seems to be okay with me being physical with the other. he thinks its wrong and she would'nt touch a penis to save her life. any idaes on how to get them to open up because i dont think i should have to choose?

2006-11-18 11:49:51 · 16 answers · asked by safer_in_shadow 1

i believe in the guy making the 1 st move but i am tried of waiting... i dont really have anyone in mind but what do you think i should do
i had a friend tell me that i should make the 1st move and start hinting...
my friend was a guy that told my that... how would you hint with out giving to much out?

2006-11-18 11:49:36 · 4 answers · asked by Kool 2

I've been involved in a FWB situation for the past 3 months. We get along in and out of bed - in fact, we were really cool before we started having sex. Sex seemed like an added bonus. Though I'm fine with our situation, he recently decided that we shouldn't have sex anymore. Tonight I told him that I think he's trying to play me because he changed the nature of our relationship. I said to him, "If we don't have sex then what am I getting out of this? Why should I remain friends with you?" He says, "You should be happy that I don't look at you as a sex object but you're not. And it's clear that you see me as just a sex object. So you're telling me that it's just sex? Then forget it! We don't have to be friends if that's all that I meant to you." Then he hung up the phone on me. At first, I thought that he was being overly dramatic but then I thought about it. I think I might have hurt his feelings. What is your opinion on this situation? What should I do? Why'd I act like that?

2006-11-18 11:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

apart from religion, or though your opinion matters,
are there any vIrgins out there?? male or female ?

2006-11-18 11:47:24 · 36 answers · asked by landgirl60 4

my and my bf have been together for 2 yrs, he is the type of person that is really easy going..funny way funny..and honest caring loveable,, but he has a problem. he is really jealous. and wont really let me to talk to any guys without starting an argument. with him im not allowed to talk to guys. it should only be him. even if im talkiing to someone that i have no feelings for. i dont think that is fair, since when he talks to girls, i dont mind. i guess im completly opposite from him, in that possiton im not jealous at all., he believes that any extra time that i have on my hands. should be spent with him. and no one else. and thats not right since i have friends too that i would like to hang out with once in awhile. now hes asking me to go back to him beacause he has changed.. i dont know what to do..im so so confused!!

2006-11-18 11:45:44 · 10 answers · asked by Andreia E 1

but... i dont now how. does it really just come naturally or what? and btw im 13 1/2

2006-11-18 11:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by paris&&niclole 1

My bst freind is very provacative. She is always wearing hoochie clothes and all she cares about are her looks. Me I'm more laid back and not all crazy about what I wear. i dont like to show much skin. why do guys always want to talk to her and not me. dont get me wrong i love her and shes beautiful but im not too ugly myself. are all guys the same? is that all they want.

2006-11-18 11:43:44 · 22 answers · asked by dAwN 1

Its so confussing sm1 plz telll me

2006-11-18 11:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by G_Krazyface 1

-JUSTEN-

why or why not? i think the way its spelled is more unique than the avreage 'justin' but even thas not too mush.... a lot of my frinds are sick of that name.. i think its a pretty sxy name.. for a guy...

what do you think?

2006-11-18 11:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by Rhyhaina 2

i try to do all the things to make my crush trust me but still he doubts on me. tell me what to do?

2006-11-18 11:40:09 · 4 answers · asked by coolgirls 2

we met online and sent a few emails, she invited me to a club where a show was playing . we went talked etc. she emails me just now saying "dare i say good morning?" and then says "well what are you doing, right now?" she said shes bored and hungry. i emailed back asking if she wants to get something to eat.

advice? whaat yall think'???

she just replied back to my dinner proposal: "sure why not"
what do u think??


she just gave me her cell and said "r u sure u wanna eat with me?? lol"

then in the next email we both find out neither of us have cars. so i suggest taking the bus. she says thats not a good idea bc she hasnt taken it since high school.

i take a shower and when i get out she calls me up. we start talking...she says shes so hung over, etc, said last night was fun with dancing etc. said something bout her mom. then shes like "so u live in _____ (my city)?" im like yeah. shes like where? so i tell her the crossstreets. shes like "can i call u back? someones callin me..." t

2006-11-18 11:39:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 11:39:20 · 6 answers · asked by musica_24_austintx 1

... even though I like them more than the people I meet in my real life?

2006-11-18 11:38:08 · 5 answers · asked by tfrosts 2

HI there, I met a new girl in our groupie, I wanna ask her out, i just have her email, through my site. We had fun last night, I wanna go out alone with her, is it a good idea to email her today and ask for her # or should I just for the next meetup with my groupie? Girls help me out, thanks

2006-11-18 11:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by T REX 1

i like this guy but im not allowed 2 date wut do i do??? shud i date behin my dads bak?

2006-11-18 11:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by bestest of da best! ummm duh!!! 2

i know this man who always trying to look into my eyes directly, which made me feel that he is tryng to pass a massage to me but i can't get it...
whenever we set as a group he keep looking at me but never tried to talk to me or even talk to me whenever we are alone... he made feel that he want to say something to me but he ends up avoiding me for some reason... we really respect eachother but i just want to know what is the end of all that??? what does he means by his looks

2006-11-18 11:37:30 · 1 answers · asked by great woman 3

Its been bugging me,
It seems she likes me by reading her body language/ the way she smiles at me and looks at me.
But whenever I ask her out, she always gives me some excuse saying she has to study, or work on a project. (Mind you, I always ask her to do something after class, not a friday night kind of thing..), and she does seem to go to the library a lot after class.

I've noticed that the days when I sit beside her, she seems disinterested and not talkative.. Yet days when I sit beside my friends, she always comes and initiates a conversation with me. It's as if ignoring her makes her come to me more.

2006-11-18 11:36:17 · 4 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2