i like this guy but im not allowed 2 date wut do i do??? shud i date behin my dads bak?
2006-11-18 11:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by bestest of da best! ummm duh!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI:no im not arab im puerto rican & a bunch of white stuff
2006-11-18 11:43:35 · update #1
ok this guy is like punk/rocker/emo sooo hot! but he is sooo funny & i stare @ him all the time...he reminds me of me if i cud be me but im not allowed 2 do hecka stuff. like i cant even go dances...it sux. this guy is so awesome! u dont even know...!!
2006-11-18 11:47:09 · update #2
Absolutely not. Father knows best.
2006-11-18 11:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I went through a really rebellious stage with my Father, I dated guys my dad hated, I snuck out of the house and disobeyed him and a whole lot of stupid stuff that I regret and it was ALL because of these guys that my dad disapproved of. It caused a great strain on our relationship, and I didn't marry or end up long term with any of those losers. You may not believe it now, but your dad has only your best interest at heart. If your dad was like mine, it is not worth it to break his trust. If your dad does not let you date, he may have a good reason. You should talk to him and see his point of view, tell him about this guy you like, just be open and honest. Sneaking around will not pay off. Eventually you will meet a guy that your dad does approve of and he will let you date.
2006-11-18 11:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by MRod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give some more info, we dont even know how this guy is. If he is a jerk towards others, dont date him. If he dresses in a way that your dad doesn't like, then you should convince him to change his looks so that they are a bit more appreciative of your dad. If your dad has a grudge on the kid for no reason, and you believe this kid is a good kid, date him behind your dad's back.
2006-11-18 11:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Regenerit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one don't go behind your Dad's back because it could get worse and you won't be able to see him again. I would call him, text him, hold hands at school and be together at school as much as you'll can. One day tell your Dad if your friend can come over to study or come over so your Dad can meet him. He might say Yes and might even like him. But when you ask your Dad don't say Boyfriend just say friend, Little by little your Dad might give you more freedoms as long as you as he tells you.
2006-11-18 11:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea if you want to but there is nothing wrong with two people just liking each other yall can do the same exact stuff but you just dont have the title of boyfreind girlfreind
2006-11-18 11:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cory A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your dad when you can date, if he says never or in a realllyyy long time, then just tell him you are going out with your friend (that is a girl and someone that he trusts), go somewhere quiet and somewhere your dad will never go to. tell him you are going to her house, if he can go over to her house then pick somewhere else. if your dad calls then ask your friend to cover for you.
2006-11-18 11:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, date him anyway. Screw Dad and his rules. You're old enough to make your own decisions.
2006-11-18 11:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do that, your dad trust you so don't do that to him, best thing to do is get your parents to consent and then go from there.....peace
2006-11-18 11:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by jaysurfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince youre parents to let you
2006-11-18 11:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by V. A. K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont date him then!
2006-11-18 11:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Daddys Doobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋