2006-11-18 11:39:20 · 6 answers · asked by musica_24_austintx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write him sexy e-mails or letters. Send him suggestive pics. Call him and make him want you a little. Teasing him is the best way because when he comes home, you'll have lots of fun in bed.
2006-11-18 11:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever said "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" obviously didn't live very far from his beloved. Long-distance relationships are fine but after a while, phone calls and e-mail can seem unsatisfying. Still, I know of LDRs that have thrived, To conquer distance, however, you have to work at it, trust each other, and be imaginative about fostering closeness. Here's how:
E-mail in real time and use video. True, talking virtually isn't as satisfying as actually being face-to-face, but you can sign up for an instant e-mailing service that enables you to talk back and forth as fast as you can type, almost like a real conversation. Feeling really technologically advanced? Look into getting minicams for each of your computers...it's not as expensive as you'd think.
Don't save gifts for special occasions only. Whether it's a goofy gadget, a romantic poem, his favorite sweet snack or a copy of the last great book you devoured, send a care package any old time — and let him know you'd appreciate the same treatment. Unexpected mementos are an easy way to make your lover feel that someone cares about him.
Keep the faith. If you believe in this relationship and work at being intimate, the distance between you may actually bring you closer than if you lived across the hall from one another. Think of it this way: At least you'll never take each other for granted!
Have cybersex, tell him what you will do for him and ask him to tell you what and how he wants you. Use your finger(s).
Hopefully he will have enough privacy for such conversation.
2006-11-18 11:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been the one deployed...it only makes it harder when you try to spice it up while separated. It only frustrates them more...although they like it for the moment it gets harder to be away after a while. Just regular and caring and involved regular contact is best.
2006-11-18 12:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of phone sex, dirty text messages and photos...
2006-11-18 11:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by xlauren25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat with me at dakota77471. we will chat and you get off. you never *** in contact
2006-11-18 12:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by bb77471 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEBCAMS!!
2006-11-18 11:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋