Singles & Dating - 16 November 2006

I recently became friends again with an ex boyfriend. We dated about 12 years ago when we were in HS. Over the past several months we've been hanging out/ couple dates and doing stuff together. About a month ago he started picking unnecessary fights with me and being a real jerk. So we kinda cooled it. A couple of days ago we were on the phone and he told me that someone in his family is really sick and it is pretty touch and go. I tried to be sympathetic but people deal with grief in there own way. He and I have not been on the same page for awhile now but I really care for him and want to be back with him. I totally empathize what he is going through but I think if I try to be "there for him" it may just end up being just that and once the grief passes I'm emotionally drained and he is gone. (i.e. the doormat) Should I just back off and let him come to me if he wants or is there some way I can be there w/ out sacrificing myself in his grief.

2006-11-16 02:02:07 · 4 answers · asked by Freespirit 1

2006-11-16 02:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by Ricardo 1

2006-11-16 02:01:35 · 3 answers · asked by tot 2

I had a relationship with someone for 7 years. It had many ups and downs. WE have a child together. NO plans of getting married. We argued a lot and differences started coming up more and more. We decided to seperate and go are seperate ways. I have genital herpes. Was I stupid for letting him go when he accepted that condition. Should that be a reason to keep things going with someone?

2006-11-16 02:01:06 · 19 answers · asked by :o) 3

As women become more sexually agresive they pander to the weaknesses of the male sex. Namely the stoking of ego and the pleasing of their eyes! Is this ok? Surely women have a responsibility to acknowledge that in some respect they wield a huge power over men and that it cant just be up to men to 'control themselves'

2006-11-16 02:00:53 · 12 answers · asked by tomytiptoes 1

how to react when u have an opponent in a relationship ? I meant when someone else is flirting with your gf..Should u fight that opponent , by preventing your gf having no contact with him? or show more love and be more attentive to your gf, and forget about the opponent, by not trying to show your jealousy ...What is the best thing to do ?

2006-11-16 02:00:45 · 8 answers · asked by bobby s 1

When i first met my boyfriend we were a lovely couple. Then He started getting mad at me more easier. Then He just calls me stupid for no reason and always tries to put me down. The other day he back handed me. I dont know what the next step is going to be. Any body have any ideas?

2006-11-16 01:55:05 · 30 answers · asked by Shelly Belly 1

2006-11-16 01:54:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a guy keeps texting you whenever he is out in town asking you if you are out too to meet up, is he chasing you and does he fancy you?

2006-11-16 01:53:45 · 19 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

I just started work on this new job about 2 months ago. There's this guy at work that I like. Because of the pressure I had at work, apart from reassuring myself to work smarter and try not to repeat my mistakes at work, he's also one of the reasons that give me the strong will to go to work everyday. The thing is, I'm quite shy and quiet. And I haven't had a relationship for quite some time now. He seemed quiet too. But there's one day when I had to do over-time. I thought that he had already gone home. So when I saw him, I did took the opportunity to open up and ask why he's not left yet. There's not much conversation though I was quite pleased at the fact I managed to speak up to him. The thing is, I just don't know whether he has the same feelings or maybe it's just me alone. Should I still be friendly with him as per normal? I just don't want him to see me as wierd or take me wrongly. Sometimes, I get the feeling maybe it's just my infatuation. Any tips anyone?

2006-11-16 01:53:42 · 3 answers · asked by Shanz 2

He told me yesturday that he doesnt like taking a break and i was like then y r u doing it. and he said to clear his head. hes still saying i love and and kissing me and everything.

2006-11-16 01:52:34 · 19 answers · asked by softball_gurll13 2

How do I tell him I care about him without freaking him out? I really enjoy being with him, we do a lot of things together, its not just about the sex, we are good friends, too. I think he knows how I feel, but I want to be his girlfriend, I dont want to be his friend with "benefits" anymore. What should I do?

2006-11-16 01:52:02 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you break with ur gf because of jealousy and other reasons, it is good to propose your opponent to her ..for example, by saying "maybe, I think it's not gonna work between us, probably it's gonna work better with your friend X, u should maybe go for him ..!!" ..Is it good to say that, if u can foresee that, or just give no hint about it ?

2006-11-16 01:51:20 · 3 answers · asked by bobby s 1

2006-11-16 01:51:00 · 20 answers · asked by Roxy 1

If you met a girl who was by all account the girl of your dreams and after a bit got down to it and you found she had the same tools as you below but was exeptional everywhere else would you continue the games or would you cut your losses and run??
For the record This hasn't happened to me but I think by all accounts I would prob carry on but never speak of it again(depending on how good she was in the sack).

2006-11-16 01:50:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-16 01:50:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay heres the deal my boy friend got mad at me and wanted to break up but he did'nt want to do it so he had one of his buds call me and tell me he cheated so i called my bf and he said he did until later on when he knew i was bawling my eyes out he called and told me everything now he is really sorry and is really upset with what he did and wants me back except i dont think i can trust him what should i do

2006-11-16 01:49:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy i like and we have so much in common but the trouble is when i talk to him the conversations arent always flowing and i just end up babbling out crap. I think he likes me back but i feel so awkward,nervous, uncomfortable round him as i dont know how to be myself. Im fine round guys i like i can talk to them bout anything. So any advice on how to combat this would be appreciated. Is it a bad sign for me and him to feel awkward round one another

2006-11-16 01:49:29 · 5 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

How to meet the right guy when u have a disablity and where to?

2006-11-16 01:48:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what causes love? I mean why with someone you can fall in love, and with someone who is nicer maybe you just can't have feelings.

2006-11-16 01:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think about donny women

since im from doncaster things like this worth knowing i personally think there hot but wot do you all think

2006-11-16 01:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by reaper420 2

i love my girlfriend alot,but somehow i feel dat she does''nt tell me the truth.i always tell her that in love u does not need to tell lie,but she don't understand.

2006-11-16 01:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by faraz_dampu 1

He don't pick on here mean mean just mean teaseing.

2006-11-16 01:41:37 · 23 answers · asked by Help 1

10 months ago I went out with this guy right after getting out of a bad relationship.tons of stuff was going on with me.like I was on birth control(2 regulate it and not as bad cramps)well I had bad side affects and it messed with my hormones/emotions.Also it was the patch so I heard from a friend if it peals off a bit it's not working so I think that had a lot 2 do with it.also last time I was wit him it was a couple days 2 my period so i was more hormonal.I wasn't myself that whole date,i was nervous cuz I thought he was gonna kiss me,then I felt I messed up when we heavily made out and touched(clothes on)I beat myself up(mentally) the whole car ride home and then I cried in front of him. Will he understand when I explain things.he said I was too attached to him.He avoided me when he'd c me at work,now we're talking and kool.Will he see things differently when I explain?I know he still cares 4 me but if this'll change if he'll like me.

2006-11-16 01:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if your boyfriend ain't showing you anything if they care or not

2006-11-16 01:37:03 · 15 answers · asked by ManImSadINeedAHug 1

i just can not get off. i cant have an orgazan when i have sex with him. so what can i do? do i tell him, brake up, ignore that,..... what?

2006-11-16 01:36:13 · 21 answers · asked by Sexy lady 25 1

why!

2006-11-16 01:35:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-16 01:35:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can some guys be a bit "freaked" out if the girl that they fancy has just come out of a long term relationship, in terms of asking them out on a date?

2006-11-16 01:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

then you see him after so many months looking so so so handsome.and your heart sinks....ever felt that way?

2006-11-16 01:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by tot 2