i love my girlfriend alot,but somehow i feel dat she does''nt tell me the truth.i always tell her that in love u does not need to tell lie,but she don't understand.
2006-11-16 01:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by faraz_dampu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um.......you should still tell the truth even though she lies. You need to find a new girl. Who needs someone they can't trust?
2006-11-16 01:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have proof that she is lying then there is nothing you can do unless you catch her in a lie. Sometimes jealousy and suspicion can be unfair if it cant be proven . Some people dont consider what they do to be lying....and unless directly asked a very specific question about the matter they deny lying because they are only having a secret but not lying. I myself find most people to be liars and I have never been wrong about 1 person ever....in the end the truth always prevails. Just "you" keep being honest and the truth will be shown and proven.......ps just remember in order to accuse someone else you must be free from any lies or deceit as well because usually when someone points the finger they have 3 fingers pointing right back at them.
2006-11-16 01:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by precious z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are honest to her that is the important thing. If she is not being honest to you how do you know have you caught her out in a lie or something like that?
Another thing you could do is take her out and tell her how you feel about her and say that you want her to be honest with you and tell you how she feels out you and other things that are going on in her life. Just try and get her to open up to you a bit more
2006-11-16 01:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh, i think of honesty is powerful to a level. there's a distinction between telling somebody your opinion and being unnecessarily impolite. Like in the 1st problem, i'd say "those are high quality, yet i like this pair greater proper." And with the photograph, I in all threat does not remark in any respect, and if I felt I would desire to i'd locate one element, like a shirt, that I enjoyed. i think of human beings should take heed to the reality, however the question I continuously ask is, "Is there a manner i'd be straightforward without being impolite or hurting our relationship?" each and every so often in considerable situations you will desire to tell the reality no rely how plenty it hurts, yet while it relatively is a controversy that doesn't rely, it relatively is okay to melt issues up slightly.
2016-10-15 15:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by score 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, my ex used to pick apart or b**** about everything I did, so after a while, I found it was just easier to lie to him. I mean, even the little stuff would upset him! It was totally ridiculous that he put me in that situation to begin with. But if you don't think you're that way, then she might just be a compulsive liar. I don't understand them, I don't know why they do it, they're just nuts, and definately not a good person to be around. Maybe it's time you moved on!
2006-11-16 01:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by carrieinmich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should always tell her the truth, she lies because she is afraid of the truth, I bet the lies aren't even about serious things but if she bought a frappichino for 4 dollars. or something else she is afraid you will be upset with her for, try showing her that you love her regardless of her lies and maybe they'll stop, or maybe she is just to damaged and can't tell the truth even if it meant losing you
2006-11-16 01:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love her, but how can you trust someone who continually lies to you, and if you cant trust her then how can you love her.
Time to find some one who doesnt lie honey
2006-11-16 01:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go by your first instink, maybe you should change he in for a new model before you get in to deep. Date date date and date to find the right one
2006-11-16 01:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Wonderful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she feel insecure or scared? Sometimes when people are afraid if losing something or are being self-protective, they lie.
I am not saying that it's right. But if she' lying about other boys or soemthing like that, cut her lose.
2006-11-16 01:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Centered 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you feel this way? Has she given you reason not to believe her? If you can't have trust in a relationship, then really their is no need to be in one.
2006-11-16 01:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋