what causes love? I mean why with someone you can fall in love, and with someone who is nicer maybe you just can't have feelings.
2006-11-16 01:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"falling in love" is a phrase I hate... REAL love is calm, tender, peaceful, healthy, mutual, and unmistakeable... "falling" for someone when you have a big intense mess of crazy emotions is fun but it's NOT real love.
2006-11-16 01:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by zmj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is because u might be looking for a few things like height, attitude, way of dressing... u may be attracted towards only some people and others dont interest u... It all depends on what u r looking for in a person to fall in luv... u might find something special in a person and it differs for everyone... say u want to get a tall girl... and someone wants a short girl... so obviously u wont have any feelings for a short girl whereas someone else might have...
2006-11-16 09:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like jen U's answer. Love doesn't just happen. Lust and desire draw a couple together. Years of life together makes love happen. No "Cupid" is lurking around shooting arrows at your heart. he's off having a beer and tending to older couples that have been together through thick and thin. Those older couples are Cupid's handy work.
2006-11-16 10:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand what u are saying.Love can come and go.Sometimes you love or maybe in simpler terms,you like someone but that someone doesnt seem to like you.Life's like that,there's rejection,broken-hearted moments and also beautiful moments with the once you love.Love will come naturally without you realising it.It's the sense of feeling that enters into your heart and you will feel really happy about it.Honestly it will just happen!
2006-11-16 09:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by aleeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think its a chemical in your brain. funny you ask this question. i have pondered it recently myself. i truly believe its in your body, something happens within your brain that just triggers what your real desires are. even if you can't face it yourself, your body and mind do.
2006-11-16 09:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by michelle h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think attraction has a lot to do with how far you let your feelings go.
2006-11-16 09:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that love is a mental illness
2006-11-16 09:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by dpuck_99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is knowing that someone speacial is with u and u will always be with them
2006-11-16 09:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones...chemistry....and other intangible factors.
2006-11-16 09:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind
2006-11-16 09:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋