10 months ago I went out with this guy right after getting out of a bad relationship.tons of stuff was going on with me.like I was on birth control(2 regulate it and not as bad cramps)well I had bad side affects and it messed with my hormones/emotions.Also it was the patch so I heard from a friend if it peals off a bit it's not working so I think that had a lot 2 do with it.also last time I was wit him it was a couple days 2 my period so i was more hormonal.I wasn't myself that whole date,i was nervous cuz I thought he was gonna kiss me,then I felt I messed up when we heavily made out and touched(clothes on)I beat myself up(mentally) the whole car ride home and then I cried in front of him. Will he understand when I explain things.he said I was too attached to him.He avoided me when he'd c me at work,now we're talking and kool.Will he see things differently when I explain?I know he still cares 4 me but if this'll change if he'll like me.
2006-11-16 01:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am now much better.I am on a b/c pill called yasmin.I was George's first g/f so I thought I went 2 fast and screwed things up.and I've been broken up with my b/f since January.so now I think it would be a good time 2 reconnect so he can see I'm like not in love with him but I do still like him,just want 2 take things slowly.
2006-11-16 01:47:49 · update #1
No one here can predict if he will see things differently if you explain it to him. Obviously, up to now, he has the wrong interpretation if he believes your behavior was due to your over-attachment to him. It makes sense if this bothers you to clear up a misunderstanding.
ADVICE: However, do NOT go in to a situation where you imagine that if you explain your interpretation, things between you are going to go a certain way. Explain yourself simply because you believe there was a misunderstanding. Do NOT get worked up in to what the outcome of that conversation will be.
I don't know what you mean by your last words, "this'll change if he'll like me," but they don't sound healthy to me. Don't plan on changing anything "if he likes you." That IS by definition being "too attached" to him. You must be yourself and enjoy yourself, whether he likes you or not should not change this.
2006-11-16 01:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if you can cry in front of a guy that you think likes you he really doesnt like you!!! once you are able to cry, pick your nose, and eat whatever you want infront of a guy then thats when you know he likes you for you!!! so dont make it worse by trying to tell him what was wrong. if he is trying to get ride of it dont remind him about it. it will only make it worse just go with the flow and you shouldnt have to explain yourself to anyone!
2006-11-16 10:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Oh_man_thats_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is not to seem too desperate for his acceptance, u can casually bring up the subject about wat happened earlier, and tell him you feel funny about it, and that it was an odd phase in ur life, don't tell him all the details...be brief..u want to seem like ur just trying to get a point thru not like ur too keen to get him to like you
2006-11-16 09:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cares for you he will understand (i know exactly what you mean --- my ex was the same when we got married --- her hormones were all over the place)
a suggestion --- you may need to look at different medications --- they have different hormone mixes and you may find one better suited -- if you have not done so already
2006-11-16 09:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your side effect but I don't think it's going to work.
try again with another guy.
2006-11-16 09:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks you're a nut case. because i do. but, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt... just please change your choice of contraceptive to something that doesnt change you into a sniflling paranoid loser. hope you find your true love...
2006-11-16 09:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him. youll never know if the waters cold if you dont jump in. good luck.
2006-11-16 09:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should if he doesn't then move on
2006-11-16 09:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that kind of stuff it might save your relationship
2006-11-16 09:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_happy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know.
2006-11-16 09:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋